Happy Place

We often talk about shadow as something dark - anger, jealousy, shame, the parts of us that feel too messy or socially unacceptable to show.
But there is also another kind of shadow that rarely gets the same attention, and that’s the qualities we admire in others to the point of putting them on pedestal, secretly envying them, or feeling like we’re somehow not quite enough to ever become that.
In this episode I’m speaking about the golden shadow - the brilliance, confidence, creativity, erotic power, or leadership we’ve disowned in ourselves and projected onto mentors, lovers, teachers, or public figures, and how easy it becomes to feel worthy simply by being near them instead of allowing ourselves to become that big.
Who do you admire a little too much, and what part of you is afraid to take up that same space?
If this resonates, feel free to share it with someone who might need permission to stop shrinking.
Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.
This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.
Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!
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"This is my happy place!" Rina.
In this episode, Rina explores the concept of conscious play parties, breaking down common myths and misconceptions surrounding them. She emphasizes the importance of intimacy, self-awareness, and personal responsibility in creating a fulfilling experience at these gatherings. Rina shares her insights on preparing for a play party, the different types of events, and the significance of emotional regulation. Through personal anecdotes, she illustrates the transformative potential of play parties, highlighting the journey of self-discovery and connection with others.
Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.
This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.
Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!
Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more
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If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi
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In this conversation, Rina explores the concept of intimacy as a skill that can be trained rather than merely a reaction to stress or loneliness. She discusses the societal tendency towards consumption in intimacy, the importance of education in fostering deeper connections, and the evolving role of intimacy workers. Rina emphasizes the need for a shift from quick fixes to meaningful relationships, highlighting the significance of understanding one's own needs and the impact of the nervous system on intimacy. The conversation also touches on empowering women in the realm of intimacy and the transformative potential of intimate experiences.
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07:25 The Shift from Transaction to Depth in Intimacy
11:33 The Role of True Intimacy in Personal Growth
18:56 The Evolution of Intimacy Workers and Education
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30:46 Empowering Women: The Shift in Intimacy Services
34:39 Nervous System Health: The Foundation of Intimacy

Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.
This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.
Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!
Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more
https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library
If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi
Let’s Connect!
Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/
Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/
Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training
https://www.suhai.world/
Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

Shibari didn’t start as liberation for either of us.
It became one - slowly, painfully, honestly.
In this episode with Anastasia (Voudou Ropes) we talk about:
– learning Shibari as women in a male-dominated culture
– the danger of intensity without attunement
– how rope can either traumatize or transform
– why some journeys need storms… and others need lakes
No script. No performance. Just truth, rope, and lived experience.
Anastasia is a Shibari artist, educator, and performer, and the founder of Voudou Ropes, a brand devoted to making rope art accessible, expressive, and deeply connective.
2026 October 8-12th beginners shibari + tantra retreat.
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Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.
This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.
Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!
Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more
https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library
Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com
If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi
Let’s Connect!
Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/
Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/
Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training
https://www.suhai.world/

Shibari didn’t start as liberation for either of us.
It became one - slowly, painfully, honestly.
In this episode with Anastasia (Voudou Ropes) we talk about:
– learning Shibari as women in a male-dominated culture
– the danger of intensity without attunement
– how rope can either traumatize or transform
– why some journeys need storms… and others need lakes
No script. No performance. Just truth, rope, and lived experience.
Anastasia is a Shibari artist, educator, and performer, and the founder of Voudou Ropes, a brand devoted to making rope art accessible, expressive, and deeply connective.
2026 October 8-12th beginners shibari + tantra retreat.
https://www.voudouropes.com/shibari-retreat-luxe
https://www.voudouropes.com/
https://www.instagram.com/voudou.ropes/
Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.
This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity.
Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!
Get Access to Rina’s Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and more
https://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-library
Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com

If you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina Trevi
Let’s Connect!
Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/
Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/
Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner’s Training
https://www.suhai.world/