Your Favorite Aunties

Being the “good girl” sounds beautiful… until real life starts lifing.

We’re unpacking church girl problems from growing up as the “saved,” “well-behaved,” “set apart” girl to navigating dating, boundaries, identity, and real-world experiences as an adult woman of faith.

We’re talking about the pressure to be perfect, the fear of getting it wrong, the things we were taught (and what we had to unlearn), and the tension between honoring God and actually living a full, honest life.

If you’ve ever felt stuck between who you were raised to be and who you’re becoming… this one is for you.

Because being a good girl doesn’t mean losing yourself and holiness and wholeness should go hand in hand.
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You say you want better… but are you actually doing what it takes to get it?

This week, the Aunties get real about accountability… the kind we expect from ourselves, from each other, and from the people around us. We’re talking about what it looks like to be checked in love, how to receive correction without getting defensive, and why growth requires more than just saying you want it.

We unpack the difference between support and enablement, how friendship accountability can sharpen or strain a relationship, and the role the outside world plays in holding us to a higher standard. Because let’s be honest… everybody wants accountability until it’s time to be accountable.

If you’ve ever said “I’m working on it,” this episode might lovingly ask… are you really?

Tap in for honest conversation, real-life examples, and the kind of perspective that will have you checking yourself and your circle.

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Dating as a “good church girl” can come with a lot of rules, expectations, and teachings that shape how we approach relationships. In this episode, the Aunties sit down with special guest Torah Cents to unpack what many Christian women were taught about dating, men, and relationships and what might need to be unlearned.
From purity culture and church messaging to real-life dating experiences, we explore the misconceptions that can keep women stuck, confused, or settling for less than they deserve. We talk about the difference between wisdom and fear-based dating advice, the importance of self-awareness, and how women of faith can approach dating in a healthier, more empowered way.
If you’ve ever felt like your dating life has been shaped by teachings that didn’t fully prepare you for real relationships, this conversation is for you. Join us as we discuss how to break old patterns, embrace new perspectives, and start dating with clarity, confidence, and intention.
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Sometimes the very thing we pray for guidance from God can also bring a surprising amount of anxiety and pressure.
In this episode of Your Favorite Aunties Podcast, Sham and Nia get honest about the emotional and spiritual tension that can come with seeking God’s direction for your life. From wondering if you’re truly hearing God correctly to feeling the weight of making the “right” decision, we unpack the very real anxiety that can show up when you’re trying to walk in obedience.

We talk about the pressure Christians sometimes feel to get every step right, the fear of missing God’s plan, and how to navigate the space between faith, discernment, and overthinking. Because let’s be honest trusting God sounds simple… until you’re the one who has to actually make the move.

If you’ve ever prayed for clarity, asked God for a sign, or wrestled with whether you’re walking in purpose or just overanalyzing every decision, this conversation is for you.

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This week, Your Favorite Aunties welcome back Christian sexologist Brittany Broaddus-Smith for a real, grown, and necessary conversation the church doesn’t always know how to have.
We’re unpacking sexual hygiene, healthy sexual conduct, and the truth about how purity culture and church messaging have shaped the way many believers experience sex and intimacy. From the gaps in sex education within Christian spaces to the shame many people quietly carry, this episode gets honest about what’s helping… and what’s hurting.
If you’ve ever struggled with sexual shame, confusion around intimacy, or wondered what healthy, God-honoring sexuality actually looks like, this conversation is for you.

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