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299. Deleted Texts, Dreading Coming Home & The Stories that Destroy Marriages
2026/08/17 | 1h 2 mins.What happens when one deleted text turns into a full-blown story in your head—or when you find yourself dreading coming home to your own spouse? This week, we’re talking about the stories we tell ourselves in marriage and how those internal narratives can quietly become the lens through which we see our entire relationship.
From deleted texts and phone privacy to resentment, emotional disconnection, trust, marriage communication and feeling unhappy at home, I’m breaking down how assumptions can start feeling like facts—and how quickly we begin looking for evidence that proves the story we’ve already written about our partner. The question I keep coming back to: What story is each spouse telling themselves… and is it actually true?
If you’ve ever overanalyzed your spouse’s behavior, questioned their intentions, felt disconnected in your marriage or wondered whether your relationship problems are as bad as they feel in your head, this episode is for you.
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I think most people get this completely backwards.
In this episode, I'm breaking down why people shut down instead of speaking up, what silence is actually communicating, and why the words "I'm fine" rarely mean what we think they do.
If you've ever felt shut out, stonewalled, or like your partner expects you to read their mind, this conversation might completely change the way you see conflict, communication, and emotional safety in your marriage.
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In this episode, we're diving into the hidden resentments that quietly erode trust, intimacy, and connection over time. From feeling unseen and unappreciated to keeping score, carrying the mental load, and giving up on asking for what you need, these are the silent relationship killers that many couples don't recognize until it's too late.
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This podcast is about the reality of sex in marriage. The good, the bad, the ugly & the inevitable. Every Monday I am discussing all things intimacy & answering your burning questions about what really goes on behind closed doors. Tune in to hear topics like navigating mismatched libidos, dead bedrooms, dating your spouse and technique tips for both men and women. Your host Jordyn Hakes is about to become your favorite unfiltered, brutally honest big(little?) sister. For all the married people still trying to find pleasure within their marriage, this one is for you. We may be married, by but golly -we are still horny (or want to be!!!) Join me each week for some guaranteed laughs, no sugar coating, sexy tips, story times and the occasional jaw dropping listener question. Watch on youtube.com/@thhpod and Spotify!
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