sometimes we need to treat ourselves as if we were a D.I.Y. project that your dad was obsessed with even though your mom begged him to "just buy it" at Menards or Home Depot. it takes time to change, but more importantly, it takes evidence.if you feel like the evidence is stacked against the person you want to be, you won't believe in your progress. just try to focus on the things you can do for your new self, even if it's a small thing each day.sending you all lots of love and peaaaaaaaaace!!!https://stan.store/thezurkieshow
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dating them won’t fix you
I used to run to relationships as a way to distract myself from my own fear of being alone.I was convinced I was never going to be worthy enough to be loved by someone else. it was after I accepted my irrational fear as a possibility that I finally started to live life on my terms.ask yourself if you're dating someone because you like them and who they are, or are you just entertaining a person to help you forget about the work you still need to do?sending you lots of love and peaaaaaaace!https://stan.store/thezurkieshow
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why you fail to be perfect
I can't be perfect. it pains me because I want to be perfect.but as human beings, we are flawed. what makes us so special is the way we deal with the mistakes we make on a day to day basis.make mistakes, own up to them and try your best to be better. that's all you can ask of others, including yourself.sending you lots of love and peaaaaaaaaaacehttps://stan.store/thezurkieshow
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stop being nonchalant with yourself
it's cool to care. it's great to have an opinion. it's awesome to stick by your interests because you find value in them and you think others should know about it.the people who care tend to uplift us and build the things we need as a society. so be a nerd, and a passionate one at that.sending you lots of love and peaaaaaaaace.https://stan.store/thezurkieshow
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why your problems keep getting worse
if you don't catch yourself in a pattern, it will always repeat.this is why self reflection is so important to make the changes we want to see in ourselves. ignore these small decisions, and you will see them compound over time.be mindful of the decisions you make and the way you feel about them.sending you lots of love and peaaaaaaaaaaacehttps://stan.store/thezurkieshow
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