How to Have a Threesome That Brings You Closer—Not Blows You Up
Send us a textMost people talk about threesomes like they’re either a wild fantasy or a relationship wrecking ball. But here’s the truth—when done right, a threesome can deepen intimacy, build trust, and light your desire on fire.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Ally Iseman—ICF-certified relationship coach, kink-aware educator, and founder of Passport 2 Pleasure. Ally’s work has been featured in The New York Times, and she specializes in helping couples explore their desires without losing their connection in the process.Together, we’re breaking down how to go from fantasy to follow-through—without the jealousy, awkwardness, or aftermath you’ve heard horror stories about.We’ll cover: 🔥 Why so many threesomes go sideways (and how to avoid it) 💬 The conversations you must have before you ever invite a third 🛏 How to keep connection strong during the night itself 🚩 Red flags that tell you a couple might not be ready ✨ How to navigate the afterglow so the experience brings you closer—not farther apartThis isn’t just about adding a third person. It’s about leveling up intimacy, desire, and confidence in your relationship.You can find out more about Ally Here:KAVANOS: https://partiful.com/e/XqoMPXWkQl9mrnCJHJ4IPassport 2 Pleasure: https://www.passport2pleasure.com/My full demos are on my Only Fans waiting for you here: httUse code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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How to Read Her Body (So She Actually Orgasms)
Send us a textIf she’s not coming and your first thought is “she’s just hard to please” — it’s time to rewrite the script.Arousal isn’t guesswork. It’s science you can feel with your hands.In this video, I’m breaking down the real physiological signs of arousal — including vaginal tenting, pelvic floor engagement, and breath/body shifts — so you can learn to read her body like a map and build the kind of orgasm she doesn’t forget.You’ll learn: ✨ How to recognize when her body is opening up and ready ✋ What vaginal tenting is and how to feel it 💓 How to sync your rhythm to her arousal (instead of guessing) 🫁 How breath and subtle movement give you real-time feedbackWhen you stop guessing and start listening to the body, you stop hoping for her orgasm… and start making it inevitable.👉 Want step-by-step tutorials on G-spot, A-spot, and clitoral stimulation? My How-to episodes are here:How to find the A-Spot: https://youtu.be/qRpwSKc3-qQHow to find the G-Spot: https://youtu.be/tczpp7qsttUMy full demos are on my Only Fans waiting for you here: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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Hotwife 101 w/ Serenity Cox: Rules & How to Start
Send us a textCurious about the hotwife lifestyle? 🔥In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Hot Wife and Wifey Ambassador Serenity Cox to break down one of the most talked-about relationship trends right now. We cover what it really is, how couples build trust and set boundaries, and what to know if you’ve ever been curious about exploring it.This conversation is all about consent, connection, and real-world relationship dynamics. Whether you’re partnered, curious, or just here for the deep dive, this one’s for you.✨ What we cover:What “hotwife” actually meansHow this lifestyle differs from swinging and open relationshipsConsent, boundaries, and communication tipsHow couples get started—without pressureWhy this can deepen intimacy and trustReal stories from Serenity’s experienceYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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How to Top as a Submissive (Without Topping from the Bottom)
Send us a textSubmission isn’t weakness. It’s power offered—not power lost.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re pulling back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood dynamics in kink: how to top as a submissive.This isn’t about topping from the bottom. It’s about guiding the scene with your breath, movement, and energy — without ever taking control away from your Dominant.We’ll explore: 🖤 How powerful submissives shape the rhythm of a scene 🫧 Using breath, body language & sound to guide without leading 🕯️ The difference between topping from the bottom vs. intentional submission 🫦 Why great Doms listen to their subs — and follow their cues 🖤 How to turn surrender into the sexiest power you holdYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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How to Fix a Dead Bedroom with Smart Sex Toys | Luxus by Kiiroo
Send us a textWhat if the key to fixing your sex life wasn’t more talking… but smarter tech?Whether you’re dealing with a dead bedroom, long-distance disconnect, or just feeling stuck in a sexual rut, today’s episode is all about the new generation of smart sex toys designed to help couples reconnect in ways that actually work.I’m joined by Toon Timmermans, CEO and founder of Kiiroo, the company behind the groundbreaking Luxus — an interactive couples toy built to close the pleasure gap, boost intimacy, and make communication in the bedroom easier (and hotter).We’re diving into: ✨ How smart sex toys are changing intimacy for real couples 💬 Why these tools help partners communicate better in bed 🔥 How to use technology to reignite desire and close the orgasm gap 💻 How smart toys are helping couples rebuild connection after long distance or infidelityThis isn’t about replacing your partner — it’s about giving couples new ways to feel closer, stay connected, and bring the spark back.🎁 SPECIAL OFFER Get 10% off Luxus at 👉 https://kiiroo.io/annette-luxus or https://kiiroo.io/annetteYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
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