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Most men assume she just doesn't enjoy it. Most women wonder why they want to sometimes and absolutely don't other times.
The truth is more interesting — and more fixable — than either of them thinks.
In this episode, sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti breaks down the psychology and neuroscience behind female desire, and gives you 6 specific, research-backed things you can do to shift the dynamic entirely.
This isn't about pressure, persuasion, or performance. It's about understanding how desire actually works — and showing up differently because of it.
In this episode:
Why most men have been trying to create desire the wrong way (and what actually works)
The neuroscience of the sexual "brake" — and why removing pressure is more powerful than adding stimulation
The difference between feeling wanted and feeling chosen — and why it matters
What the research on couples actually shows about reciprocity and desire
Why your nervous system is either creating safety or shutting her down — before you've touched her
The one move most men make the moment she starts responding — and why it kills everything
This episode is for: ✔ Men who want to understand their partner's desire better ✔ Women who've been trying to figure out why their desire feels inconsistent ✔ Anyone who wants a deeper, more connected intimate relationship
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What if orgasms were about more than just pleasure?
In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Venus O’Hara—author, sexual wellness expert, and host of the Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast—to explore the O Method, also known as orgasmic manifestation.
We break down:
What orgasmic manifestation actually is (and what it isn’t)
How sexual energy can be used for intention, confidence, and change
Why pleasure isn’t just instant gratification—it’s power
How to start if masturbation feels awkward, shame-filled, or unfamiliar
Whether you need to orgasm for the practice to work
Why this matters especially for women navigating trauma, midlife, or desire shifts
Even if you don’t believe in manifestation, you’ll still get orgasms out of it.
 And you might rethink what pleasure is really for.
You can find Venu Here: https://www.venusohara.org/
You can order her book Orgasmic Manifestation Here: https://www.venusohara.org/orgasmic-manifestation
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Most advice about sexual attraction is either vague, manipulative, or flat-out wrong.
This episode isn’t about tricks, lines, or “alpha” posturing.
 It’s about what actually creates sexual attraction — in real bodies, real moments, and real connection.
In this episode, I break down five specific things that reliably make women feel sexually attracted, based on psychology, nervous-system science, and what women consistently respond to — not what dating culture thinks they should.
You’ll learn:
Why attraction dies when desire gets turned into hesitation
How to express interest in a way that feels confident and safe
What overstaying the moment does to desire (and why less really is more)
How presence, timing, and responsiveness matter more than performance
Why attraction isn’t about convincing someone — it’s about how you show up
These aren’t manipulation tactics.
 They’re behavioral shifts that create clarity, tension, and genuine pull — without pressure, games, or crossing boundaries.
If you’ve ever wondered why things start strong but lose heat,
 or why connection doesn’t always turn into desire,
 this episode will change how you understand attraction — and how you move inside it.
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This Talk Sex With Annette topic takes the show back to its roots when it was just a girl's sex talk podcast.
For too long, women’s most honest conversations about sex have happened in whispers — in group chats, locker rooms, and over wine when no one’s listening.
But what happens when we stop whispering?
In this episode, I sit down with writer and pleasure activist Tash Doherty, the bold voice behind Miseducated, to talk about what women really say about sex when you’re not in the room — and why it changes everything when we take the mic.
We dive into:
• The orgasm gap and why it still exists
 • Pegging, anal equality, and rewriting the sexual script
 • Why women fake orgasms (and why it hurts everyone)
 • How speaking openly about sex transforms relationships
 • What men need to understand about female pleasure
This isn’t just about women talking about desire.
 It’s about rewriting the rules of sex — for everyone.
If you’ve ever wondered what women really think about sex… this episode is your invitation to find out.
Check out Tash's Intimacy Journal Here: https://www.tashdoherty.com/shop
Find her on Substack: https://misseducated.substack.com/
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Touching her breasts should feel erotic — but for a lot of people, it ends up feeling rushed, mechanical, or oddly disconnected.
In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 9 ways to touch her breasts that most guys skip — not because they don’t care, but because no one ever taught them how breast pleasure actually works.
We’ll talk about:
why grabbing and squeezing too fast shuts her body down
how timing and pressure matter more than intensity
when nipple stimulation feels good — and when it doesn’t
how to tell if her body is opening or bracing
and how to make breast play feel grounding, erotic, and deeply pleasurable
This episode is explicit, educational, and focused on real bodies — not porn scripts or performance pressure.
If you want breast play to feel better, more connected, and more arousing for both of you, this is where to start.
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Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/
Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off!
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