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You've felt it. That moment mid-sex when she goes somewhere you can't follow. She's still moving — but she's gone. It's called dissociation. It's not about you, it's not about attraction, and it's not permanent.
Vanessa Cushing — AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and founder of Cushing Counseling and Sex Therapy Pro — breaks down what's actually happening and how to bring her back. And this one took a turn I didn't expect: men dissociate too. It just looks completely different.
In this episode:
The signs she's checked out — and the very different signs he has
The five gears of touch: pinpoint exactly where she leaves
The "safe trust position" every couple needs before they need it
How to retrain your nervous system to stay present
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In this episode, we break down the 5-step Mouth & Hands technique for blended orgasms—a simple, intentional way to combine oral and manual stimulation so the experience feels more connected, more consistent, and more intense.
Most people switch between techniques instead of combining them. But when you learn how to coordinate your mouth and hands, everything changes in how her arousal builds and how her body responds.
I walk you through:
 Why switching between techniques can interrupt pleasure 
 How blended orgasms work in a practical, understandable way 
 The 5-step method to bring mouth and hands into sync 
 How to stay connected to her responses instead of guessing 
If you’ve ever felt like you were doing a lot but not getting the reaction you expected, this episode will shift how you approach foreplay entirely.
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 Two bi women. One podcast. A real guide to better sex built from the inside out. 
Bi women know something about pleasuring women that most people never figure out. Because they've been on both sides — they know what it feels like to receive, and they know what it takes to give it well. That combination is a cheat code. And today we're handing it over.
Samia Mounts — queer, non-binary writer, actor, and host of Happy Slut podcast — joins me to share what bi and pan women know about the female body, desire, and pleasure that most people spend a lifetime missing.
In this episode:
The insider knowledge bi women carry that nobody else has access to
What women actually need to feel pleasure — and what most people never stop doing wrong
What she's not telling you during sex — and why
The specific moves bi women use that most people have never even considered
How to have better sex tonight using what we know from both sides
🔗 Find Samia: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts
https://samiamounts.substack.com/
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Up to 60% of women have fantasized about being dominated — and almost none of them have said it out loud.
This one's for the men who want to deliver what she's been replaying in her head and never asked for. Five spanking fantasies, the psychology behind each, and exactly how to make them land sexy instead of awkward — including how to talk about it first, how to keep it safe, and the aftercare most men skip.
What you'll learn: 
✔ How to bring it up so she actually says yes — and why consent makes her let go 
✔ Where it's safe, where it's never safe, and how to build intensity the right way 
✔ The over-the-knee punishment-and-praise loop she craves most 
✔ The anticipation move nobody talks about — and why aftercare is non-negotiable
Subscribe for new episodes on desire, pleasure, and becoming the partner she can't stop thinking about.
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He's googling it at 2 AM and erasing his search history. Because he still thinks wanting to be pegged means something about who he is. It doesn't. And tonight we're blowing that myth wide open.
Interest in pegging among straight men is up 200% according to Feeld's 2025 annual report. Not in some dark corner of the internet — on mainstream dating apps. Men are putting it on their sexual bucket lists, bringing it up on second dates, and still going silent when it matters most. Today I sat down with Luna Matatas — sex and pleasure educator with over two decades of experience and the creator of Peg the Patriarchy — to talk about what pegging actually is, what men are really asking for when they ask for it, and what women get out of strapping it on.
In this episode:
What pegging is — and what it isn't
Why wanting to be pegged says nothing about his sexuality
The prostate: what it is, where it is, and why men are missing out
What women actually get out of giving it — physically, emotionally, erotically
How to have the conversation with your partner without killing the mood
A step-by-step guide to the first time — positions, lube, pace, and what not to do
Why men who've been pegged say it makes them better lovers
🔗 Find Luna: https://lunamatatas.com/en-us | @lunamatatas
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