Talk Sex with Annette

Send us a textEvery January, men promise to fix their bodies and stop worrying about performance in bed. But what if trying harder is actually the problem?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we dive into the 2026 Sex Reset for Men with sex and relationship coach Caitlin V, host of Good Sex on Discovery+ and HBO Max, and author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger.We explore why performance anxiety disrupts confidence, arousal, and connection, how the nervous system plays a bigger role than most men realize, and what actually helps men feel confident and present in bed again.This episode is for men ready to move out of performance mode—and for partners who want better, more connected intimacy in 2026.Find out more about Caitlin V Here: https://caitlinvneal.com/harder-better-longer-stronger-the-book/👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette:https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations?Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithaUse code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Experience the Pheromone Advantage at 15% off  with my code LRT15Use code LRT15  at Eyeoflove.com And you'll get 15% off pheromone powered perfumes, colognes, and more. Check out my Diaries on OF. Enjoy exclusive access to intimacy video how-tos, guided self-pleasure meditations, and more!https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textMost people think they know how the clitoris works. They don’t.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down the one clit move that quietly kills orgasms—and the simple shift that changes everything.We’re talking about why overstimulation backfires, how the nervous system actually responds to touch, and what creates arousal that builds instead of shuts down.If orgasms feel inconsistent, muted, or harder to reach than they used to be, this episode will change how you think about pleasure.👉 Follow here, subscribe to the podcast, and visit my website to stay close as the 365 journey begins here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Because pleasure doesn’t come from trying harder. It comes from learning how to stay.🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette:https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations?Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talksexwithmeUse code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textIn 2022, I made a decision that changed my life.I committed to 365 Days of Orgasms — and what began as a personal experiment became a radical return to pleasure, embodiment, and self-trust.In this episode, I’m inviting you into a new version of that journey for 2026:365 Days of Orgasms: Pleasure Is the Resolution.This is not a challenge.It’s a daily pleasure practice and an erotic journey designed to help you reconnect with your body, your desire, and your sense of aliveness — without pressure or performance.*Throughout the year, we’ll explore:*Orgasm as awareness, energy, and emotional release*G-spot, A-spot, and blended pleasure pathways*How desire returns when the body feels safe*How pleasure deepens confidence, creativity, and connection*How erotic energy expands into the rest of your lifeThis journey is designed for Everyone.Here’s all you need to do:Subscribe to this podcast and follow me on social media — that’s where I’ll be sharing daily guidance, reflections, and weekly practices.Bookmark this page:👉 https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/Find me on Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@talksexwithannetteEverything for the journey will live there.Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/bd6aad2504Starting January 1, 2026, simply check in once a day for the next 365 days.Daily inspiration.Clear guidance.Gentle practices.✨ Come with me every day this year. ✨🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette:https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditatiUse code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textWhen sex starts feeling like work, it’s not because desire is broken.It’s because the body has learned to brace.In this episode, I teach a five-minute pleasure practice that helps the body relax out of performance mode and back into genuine arousal — without pressure, goals, or trying to “make” anything happen.This is the exact kind of practice I’ll be guiding inside 365 Days of Orgasms, my upcoming daily pleasure journey for 2026.You’ll learn:Why many women stop wanting sex even when attraction is still thereHow goal-oriented touch shuts arousal downThe nervous-system reason sex starts to feel draining instead of nourishingA simple, repeatable five-minute practice you can do solo or with a partnerHow steady, non-demanding touch helps desire return naturallyWhy this approach trains partners to become better lovers without learning more “moves”This practice is especially powerful if sex has started to feel heavy, pressured, or avoidable — or if you’ve noticed pulling away, shutting down, or feeling disconnected when erotic touch begins.You’ll also hear how this work becomes the foundation for deeper pleasure, internal arousal, emotional release, and embodied connection inside 365 Days of Orgasms — a year-long invitation to explore pleasure without pressure.No performance. No fixing. Just five minutes of touch the body can actually receive.👉 Follow here, subscribe to the podcast, and visit my website to stay close as the 365 journey begins here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Because pleasure doesn’t come from trying harder. It comes from learning how to stay.🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette:https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations?Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/taUse code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textEvery year we promise ourselves more sex, better performance, or more confidence — and every year those goals quietly fall apart.In this episode, I’m joined by sex educator Goody Howard to talk about a different approach to sexual resolutions for 2026 — one that focuses on intention, education, and pleasure that actually lasts.This isn’t about pressure or porn-inspired goals. It’s about setting sexual intentions that support your body, deepen intimacy, and create better sex, not just more of it — in and out of the bedroom.In this conversation, we explore:Why “more sex” usually isn’t the answerWhat actually helps sexual goals stickHow education and intention lead to better intimacyA more realistic, embodied way to think about sexual growth in 2026If you’re ready for a smarter, more grounded approach to your sex life in the new year, this episode is for you.Find Goody here: https://www.instagram.com/askgoodyThe Peach toy: https://youtu.be/tm6r87jv6Ps🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette:https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations?Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Subscribe to my Substack → https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Subscribe to my e-newsletter: Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Experience the Pheromone Advantage at 15% off  with my code LRT15Use code LRT15  at Eyeoflove.com And you'll get 15% off pheromone powered perfumes, colognes, and more. Check out my Diaries on OF. Enjoy exclusive access to intimacy video how-tos, guided self-pleasure meditations, and more!https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!