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Everybody assumes the person on top has all the power. And sure — she's up there, she's on the throne, she's in charge. But the partner flat on his back underneath? He's the reason she wants to climb up there again, and again, and again.
This week I'm handing you the giver's masterclass. If your whole plan when someone sits on your face is to hold still and hope, you're wasting the single hottest position you've got access to — because when she's up there, you get better access, a better angle, and every bit of her movement telling you exactly what she wants. You just have to know how to read it.
In this episode, I break down:
What face sitting (aka queening) actually is — and why so many women finish from it when they can't from regular oral
The real reason underneath is the best seat in the house
My 5 moves to become unforgettable: setting her up to actually let go, using your whole mouth instead of a jackhammer tongue, letting her grinding be your map, leveling up with your hands and toys, and finishing without quitting early
The props and toys that turn a five-minute neck-cramp into an all-night throne experience
Why eye contact from underneath is the move nobody uses — and the one she'll never forget
By the end, you'll go from a partner the queen tolerates to the reason she wants to climb on the throne every single night.
Grab your discount codes, props, and every toy I mention in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com — my listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers.
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👑 How to Sit on a Face Like You Mean It (The Guide for the Person on Top)
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Almost every woman has wondered it in silence: Is my scent normal? Do I taste okay? Is something wrong with me down there? Almost none of us were ever given the information to answer — so we carry the worry straight into the bedroom, where it quietly steals our confidence and our pleasure. This week, we fix that. This is the owner's manual nobody handed you.
I sit down with Wendy Strgar — vaginal microbiome health expert, lovologist, and founder of Good Clean Love, the company she started in her own kitchen to solve her own problems. We get into what's actually normal, what's not, and why understanding this body — yours or your partner's — is the foundation for everything good that happens in bed.
In this episode:
Vulva vs. vagina — what's what, and why the difference matters
What a healthy scent and taste actually are (and what an "off" one is telling you)
The vaginal microbiome, pH, and why so many women get misdiagnosed for years
The clitoral organ system — the 10,000-nerve-ending powerhouse most of us were never taught about
Why partners share responsibility for her vaginal health
Three things you can do tonight to get comfortable, informed, and free in bed
Bring a pen — the takeaways are worth writing down.
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Sixty percent of people have fantasized about being filled two ways at once — and almost nobody says it out loud. This week, I'm changing that.
This is your complete, no-shame beginner's guide to double penetration. I'm breaking down what it actually is, the real anatomy behind why it feels so intense (there's a reason it hits differently than anything else), and why it's just as good for the giving partner as the one receiving. Then I walk you through the whole staircase — how to explore it safely by yourself first, how to bring it into partnered play with one toy, and how to build up to a third person the right way.
And I'm finally saying the quiet part out loud: why women are afraid to admit they want this, why men are afraid to bring it up, and why there's absolutely nothing shameful about wanting to feel that full.
In this episode:
What double penetration is and the anatomy that makes it so intense
Why the giving partner often loves it as much as the receiver
The safety rules that make or break it — lube, pacing, and the non-negotiables
How to try it solo first, then with a partner, then with a third person
The shame nobody names — and why this is one of the most common fantasies there is
This is exactly the kind of guide I can finally give you completely now that I'm off YouTube — uncensored, in plain language, no decoding required.
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She holds it all together all day — the job, the kids, the house, everyone’s emotional weather. Then she gets into bed and still can’t stop managing. And orgasm requires the one thing she’s trained herself never to do: let go.
This week I sit down with Regina Thomashauer, better known as Mama Gena, founder of the School of Womanly Arts, New York Times bestselling author of Pussy: A Reclamation, and author of the new book On Our Knees. We get into why control quietly costs a woman her pleasure, and why surrender — not submission, not collapse — is the doorway back to her own body.
In this episode:
Why your nervous system is stuck in “brace mode” — and how pleasure interrupts it
The medicine-cabinet of chemistry your body makes on its own (and how to open it)
Why grief and erotic aliveness can live side by side — and heal together
A live truth-tantrum practice you can do tonight
Three ways to start a daily pleasure practice, no matter how “boss babe” your life is
This one got vulnerable. Bring a pen — you’ll want to write the practices down.
🎧 Find Regina at mamagenas.com and @mamagena on Instagram. Get On Our Knees wherever you buy books and on Amazon
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