Exhibitionism: How to Explore the Kink of Being Watched—Without Making It Weird
Send us a textIn this episode, we’re breaking down exhibitionism — why being watched can feel exciting, how to tell if it’s your kink, and simple ways to explore it without making things awkward.I’m joined by Laura Desiree, creative director of Sanctum and a powerful voice in performance and desire. We cover:✨ What exhibitionism really is ✨ Why being seen can amplify pleasure ✨ Signs it might be your kink ✨ How to try it safely (solo or partnered) ✨ Tips for beginners, from mirror work to first-time eventsIf you’ve ever been curious about being watched—or just want to understand the psychology behind it—this is your Exhibitionism 101.🌐 Find Laura: https://thelauradesiree.com/ Sanctum: https://snctm.com/Don’t forget to subscribe for more how-to episodes every Monday.🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette:https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations?Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Subscribe to my Substack → https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cUse code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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How to Be the Best She’s Ever Had Without Needing a Big… Anything
Send us a textWant to be the best she’s ever had… without needing a big anything? You’re not alone. Most men secretly worry about size, performance, or whether they measure up to her past partners. But here’s the truth:What makes sex unforgettable has nothing to do with what you were born with — and everything to do with what you do with it.In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the real skills that make you her top-tier experience: ✔ rhythm ✔ pressure ✔ body reading ✔ psychological arousal ✔ confidence without ego ✔ and the technique every woman wishes more men knewIf you want deeper connection, better feedback, more confidence, and sex that she remembers… this is the episode to watch.Don’t forget to subscribe for more how-to episodes every Monday.🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette:https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations?Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Subscribe to my Substack → https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cUse code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? The New Dating Shift
Send us a textWhy are boyfriends suddenly embarrassing? A recent piece by Vogue titled “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” sparked a global reaction, pointing out that some women are now hesitant to post their partners, claim relationships publicly, or even say “boyfriend” without flinching. In this episode, I chat with sex + relationship coach Sienna Sinclair about what’s really behind this trend. We explore:Why boyfriends may feel like a “brand risk” nowThe emotional labour and identity loss behind the trendWhat it says about visibility, desire & modern relationship expectationsHow to know if your hesitation is a red flag — or a signal for changeAnd how real baddies post about their menIf you’ve ever thought “Why do I feel weird saying ‘boyfriend’ out loud?”, or you're a guy wondering why you haven't made her Gram — this episode is your answer.🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette:https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations?Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Subscribe to my Substack → https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cUse code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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How to Touch a Woman So She Actually Wants You — The 4-Minute Method
Send us a textOn today’s episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m answering one of the most common questions I get from men:“How do I get my partner to want intimacy again — not out of obligation, but because she actually desires me?”The truth is this: Most women don’t open from direct sexual touch. They open from nervous system activation, emotional attunement, and how your hands move across their body before anything intimate happens.This episode gives you the exact four-minute blueprint for how to touch a woman so her body softens, melts, and naturally opens to deeper intimacy.You’ll learn: • Why women disconnect when touched too quickly • The 3 zones that unlock feminine desire • The 4-minute sequence that warms her open • What to say to deepen trust and connection • How safety and presence create arousalThis method is for the men who are tired of feeling rejected… for the couples who miss the electricity they once had… and for anyone who wants deeper intimacy that doesn’t feel forced.🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette:https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations?Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Subscribe to my Substack → https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cUse code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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Inside Grindr: Sex, Secrets & Who’s Really There
Send us a textGrindr isn’t just a hookup app—it’s where identity, secrecy, and desire collide. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Zach Zane, author of Boyslut and the official Sex & Relationship Expert for Grindr, to talk about what’s really happening on the world’s most infamous app.We’re diving into the truth about discreet profiles, married and “straight” men exploring in secret, and how Grindr has evolved from quick meetups to a space where love, power, and vulnerability all play out in real time.Zach also shares what bisexuality looks like inside gay spaces, how cruising culture started, and the surprising ways queer men are using Grindr to find connection, community, and even long-term partners.If you’ve ever wondered who’s actually on the grid—and what it reveals about men, shame, and modern desire—this one’s for you.Find Out More About Zach Here: https://www.zacharyzane.com/🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette:https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations?Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Subscribe to my Substack → https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390c💌 Work with me Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
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