The Real Reason Sex Toys Kill the Mood — And How to Make Them Hot as Hell
Send us a textYou want to bring toys into the bedroom… but every time you try, it feels awkward, forced, or like it kills the vibe. So the toys go back in the drawer and you go back to “just us” — even if “just us” has started to feel a little routine.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Kate Cova (In Bed With Kate) — sex educator, product developer, and one of the most trusted voices in the pleasure product world. Together, we break down exactly how to use sex toys without making it weird, and how to turn them into foreplay that actually brings you closer.Whether your partner is hesitant, you’re scared of making it awkward, or you’re just tired of guessing what goes where, this episode gives you the language, the mindset, and the toy ideas to start tonight.🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Subscribe to my Substack → https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390c💌 Work with me 1:1: Sex & intimacy coaching → https://talksexwithannette.com/home/sex-relationship-and-intimacy-coaching/👑 Connect with Kate Cova (In Bed With Kate): YouTube: inbedewithkate Instagram Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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Stop Faking It: Train Your Body for Real, Full-Body Orgasms
Send us a textIf you’ve ever “faked it” just to wrap things up faster — you’re not alone. But what if your body could learn to create the kind of deep, full-body pleasure you’ve been pretending to have?In this episode, I’ll show you how to train your pleasure rhythm — the real key to unlocking authentic, lasting orgasms. You’ll learn how rhythm shapes connection, syncs partners physically and emotionally, and helps your body respond naturally to real sensation.I’m demonstrating it using the Kiiroo Fuse, a smart dual-stimulation vibrator with built-in touch sensors that respond to depth and pressure — helping you feel, not fake, your pleasure.✨ You’ll learn: • Why rhythm is the secret to full-body pleasure • How to use breath and movement to deepen arousal • How to sync your rhythm with your partner (even long distance) • Why practicing with tech can make you better at real-life intimacyThis is about connection — not performance. When you train your rhythm, you train your body to feel again.💋 Try the Fuse (10% off automatically applied): 👉https://kiiroo.io/annetteSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/My OnlyFans: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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Group Sex 101: The Real Rules That Keep It Hot (and Safe)
Send us a textIn this episode we’re diving into Group Sex 101: The Real Rules That Keep It Hot (and Safe).So you finally got the invite: the group chat is buzzing, the lube is packed, and you’re ready for your first play party, threesome, or poly adventure. But before you dive in, do you actually know how to keep it sexy and safe?In this episode, I’m joined by Milla Impola, condom and lube expert from ONE® Condoms, to talk about what really goes down behind the scenes — from STI safety and testing to consent, communication, and pleasure tips that make group play fun, drama-free, and unforgettable.We’ll cover:How to set boundaries that keep everyone turned-on and respectedThe lube and condom combos that actually work for group playHow to stay safe without killing the moodWhat to look for in a play party (and red flags to walk away from)This isn’t your high-school sex ed. It’s the real-world guide to adventurous, safer, more connected pleasure.✨ Watch next: “How to Plan a Threesome (Without Making It Weird or Wrecking Your Relationship)” Here: https://youtu.be/6etkSQREj8kPlay safer with One Condoms Use Code ANNETTE15 at https://tidd.ly/3L5nrID for 15% off Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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The Skill That Makes Penetration Unforgettable (and It’s Not Size)
Send us a textNot all orgasms are created equally. There’s a world of difference between a quick release… and the kind of deep, full-body orgasm that makes her melt into you. And here’s the kicker: it’s not about going harder or faster.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down how to create deeper, more connected pleasure through rhythm, pressure, and body awareness. We’ll cover what most people get wrong when they try to “go deep,” the science of how the body responds during arousal, and step-by-step techniques to help your partner experience more intense, unforgettable pleasure.This is part two of last week’s episode on how to read her body—but this time, we’re going deeper. Literally.✨ What you’ll learn: • Why “harder” isn’t the answer • The science behind deeper sensation and vaginal tenting • How to use rhythm and angle to your advantage • How to read her body for real-time feedback • The one mistake that kills deeper pleasure—every time🎥 Want to see these techniques in real time? Check out my full how-to demos on OnlyFans and my G-Spot and A-Spot tutorials on YouTube.My full demos are on my Only Fans waiting for you here: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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How to Have a Threesome That Brings You Closer—Not Blows You Up
Send us a textMost people talk about threesomes like they’re either a wild fantasy or a relationship wrecking ball. But here’s the truth—when done right, a threesome can deepen intimacy, build trust, and light your desire on fire.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Ally Iseman—ICF-certified relationship coach, kink-aware educator, and founder of Passport 2 Pleasure. Ally’s work has been featured in The New York Times, and she specializes in helping couples explore their desires without losing their connection in the process.Together, we’re breaking down how to go from fantasy to follow-through—without the jealousy, awkwardness, or aftermath you’ve heard horror stories about.We’ll cover: 🔥 Why so many threesomes go sideways (and how to avoid it) 💬 The conversations you must have before you ever invite a third 🛏 How to keep connection strong during the night itself 🚩 Red flags that tell you a couple might not be ready ✨ How to navigate the afterglow so the experience brings you closer—not farther apartThis isn’t just about adding a third person. It’s about leveling up intimacy, desire, and confidence in your relationship.You can find out more about Ally Here:KAVANOS: https://partiful.com/e/XqoMPXWkQl9mrnCJHJ4IPassport 2 Pleasure: https://www.passport2pleasure.com/My full demos are on my Only Fans waiting for you here: httUse code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
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