Send us a textGrindr isn’t just a hookup app—it’s where identity, secrecy, and desire collide. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Zach Zane, author of Boyslut and the official Sex & Relationship Expert for Grindr, to talk about what’s really happening on the world’s most infamous app.We’re diving into the truth about discreet profiles, married and “straight” men exploring in secret, and how Grindr has evolved from quick meetups to a space where love, power, and vulnerability all play out in real time.Zach also shares what bisexuality looks like inside gay spaces, how cruising culture started, and the surprising ways queer men are using Grindr to find connection, community, and even long-term partners.If you’ve ever wondered who’s actually on the grid—and what it reveals about men, shame, and modern desire—this one’s for you.Find Out More About Zach Here: https://www.zacharyzane.com/🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette:https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations?Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Subscribe to my Substack → https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390c💌 Work with me Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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Three Signs She Wants You Sexually (And What to Do About It)
Send us a textYou know that moment when you think she’s into you… but you’re not sure? Or maybe you’ve been with your partner for years and you’re wondering—does she still want me like that?In this episode, I’m breaking down the three subtle, science-backed signs that show when attraction is real—and exactly how to respond when you see them.This isn’t pick-up artist nonsense. It’s real neuroscience, psychology, and connection. Because desire doesn’t always use words—it shows up in breath, body language, and timing. When you know how to read those cues, you can stop guessing and start creating the kind of connection that leads to real, lasting intimacy.You’ll learn: 💫 How her body gives away attraction before she even realizes it 💫 The difference between comfort, curiosity, and chemistry 💫 What to do when she mirrors your energy, touches you, or locks eyes 💫 How to turn subtle signals into opportunities for genuine connectionBy the end, you’ll know how to read her body language with confidence—without being creepy—and build the kind of trust that reignites chemistry in any relationship.🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette:https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations?Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Subscribe to my Substack → https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390c💌 Work with me 1:1:Sex & intimacy coaching → https://talksexwithannette.com/home/sex-relationship-and-intimacy-coaching/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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The Real Reason Sex Toys Kill the Mood — And How to Make Them Hot as Hell
Send us a textYou want to bring toys into the bedroom… but every time you try, it feels awkward, forced, or like it kills the vibe. So the toys go back in the drawer and you go back to “just us” — even if “just us” has started to feel a little routine.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Kate Cova (In Bed With Kate) — sex educator, product developer, and one of the most trusted voices in the pleasure product world. Together, we break down exactly how to use sex toys without making it weird, and how to turn them into foreplay that actually brings you closer.Whether your partner is hesitant, you’re scared of making it awkward, or you’re just tired of guessing what goes where, this episode gives you the language, the mindset, and the toy ideas to start tonight.🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Subscribe to my Substack → https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390c💌 Work with me 1:1: Sex & intimacy coaching → https://talksexwithannette.com/home/sex-relationship-and-intimacy-coaching/👑 Connect with Kate Cova (In Bed With Kate): YouTube: inbedewithkate Instagram Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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Stop Faking It: Train Your Body for Real, Full-Body Orgasms
Send us a textIf you’ve ever “faked it” just to wrap things up faster — you’re not alone. But what if your body could learn to create the kind of deep, full-body pleasure you’ve been pretending to have?In this episode, I’ll show you how to train your pleasure rhythm — the real key to unlocking authentic, lasting orgasms. You’ll learn how rhythm shapes connection, syncs partners physically and emotionally, and helps your body respond naturally to real sensation.I’m demonstrating it using the Kiiroo Fuse, a smart dual-stimulation vibrator with built-in touch sensors that respond to depth and pressure — helping you feel, not fake, your pleasure.✨ You’ll learn: • Why rhythm is the secret to full-body pleasure • How to use breath and movement to deepen arousal • How to sync your rhythm with your partner (even long distance) • Why practicing with tech can make you better at real-life intimacyThis is about connection — not performance. When you train your rhythm, you train your body to feel again.💋 Try the Fuse (10% off automatically applied): 👉https://kiiroo.io/annetteSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/My OnlyFans: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
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Group Sex 101: The Real Rules That Keep It Hot (and Safe)
Send us a textIn this episode we’re diving into Group Sex 101: The Real Rules That Keep It Hot (and Safe).So you finally got the invite: the group chat is buzzing, the lube is packed, and you’re ready for your first play party, threesome, or poly adventure. But before you dive in, do you actually know how to keep it sexy and safe?In this episode, I’m joined by Milla Impola, condom and lube expert from ONE® Condoms, to talk about what really goes down behind the scenes — from STI safety and testing to consent, communication, and pleasure tips that make group play fun, drama-free, and unforgettable.We’ll cover:How to set boundaries that keep everyone turned-on and respectedThe lube and condom combos that actually work for group playHow to stay safe without killing the moodWhat to look for in a play party (and red flags to walk away from)This isn’t your high-school sex ed. It’s the real-world guide to adventurous, safer, more connected pleasure.✨ Watch next: “How to Plan a Threesome (Without Making It Weird or Wrecking Your Relationship)” Here: https://youtu.be/6etkSQREj8kPlay safer with One Condoms Use Code ANNETTE15 at https://tidd.ly/3L5nrID for 15% off Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!
Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
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