The Legend Effect: Master the hidden forces of influence and attraction
Howie Chan
Welcome to The Legend Effect, the podcast where you master the hidden forces of influence and attraction to make more, work less, and live a life you can’t wait...
Communication Skills: Learn the TRUTH Behind the Lies You Have Been Told About Body Language With Legend Blake Eastman
In this episode of the Legend Effect Podcast, host Howie Chan interviews Blake Eastman, former professional poker player and the founder of the Nonverbal Group, a behavioral research and education company teaching people to better communicate and thrive in social interactions.They delve into Blake’s journey to becoming the human behavior and communications expert he is, effective communication skills, the hard-earned lessons he got when his father was diagnosed with ALS, behind the scenes stories, and, of course, poker.The discussion emphasizes the complexity and subjectivity of communication and how any transformation must start from within. Blake provides tips that will help you communicate like the legend that you are right away, insights into the world of professional poker, and unveils the truth behind the lies we’re told about how human behavior.Episode Breakdown:02:18 The truth behind the scenes of Slate’s viral article on Blake04:22 Blake’s intense teaching schedule05:20 A quick rise and journey of mistakes and lessons07:14 Being an expert and an impostor09:06 Becoming an adjunct professor at CUNY12:24 Why a JD MBA and academia just wasn’t for Blake16:54 The questions Blake is trying to answer 17:46 Always having a plan (even when it’s the wrong one)20:22 How his family and early years influenced his path 24:01 Navigating the serious challenge of a parent with ALS27:31 Hard-earned lessons30:03 The truth behind statistics and blank statements about human behavior 33:05 How Blake approaches research as an entrepreneur39:54 Tips to help you communicate more effectively today41:27 The Flaw Finder 500043:43 Biggest barriers to truly transforming your social skills45:01 Why people are committing to a full year of transformation48:09 Insights into the world of poker52:24 Tips to win a home poker game54:18 The role of poker in Blake’s life56:36 When Blake placed 4th at a WSOP Main Event1:01:33 The funny story behind Blake’s run-in with the IRS1:04:33 Finding the magic and beauty of what makes people effective1:07:00 A letter to Blake’s younger selfFrom Our Guest:WebsiteLinkedIn Youtube XFacebook Instagram Sign up for The Behavioralist Newsletter by Blake.Check out the Slate article Howie mentions.Charisma is a Skill:Get your FREE copy of the Charisma Tactical Toolkit.Legendary Quotes:“ You can choose how you experience the world every second. I can't move my arms, but I'm so grateful for my legs. I can't walk unassisted, but I'm so grateful I can still walk.” – Blake Eastman“ "Most people don’t add enough context when they communicate. You can hedge so many simple things by just telling people what’s going on.".” – Blake Eastman“ I never tell people how to act. I just make sure that their behavior is in alignment with how they want to be perceived.” – Blake Eastman“ We're meaning making machines and it's our greatest gift and it's our greatest curse at the same time.” – Blake EastmanIt’s time to turn up the volume on life, make your mark, and live your legend. 🤘🏽Join Legend Letters: the ultimate guide for corporate dropouts turned business owners.. Each week I share a heartset, mindset, and skillset to grow your business, your brand, and your life.📩 Try the Legend Letters Newsletter.Follow, subscribe, and don’t forget to leave a rating and review!
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Mental Health and Relationships: The ONE TECHNIQUE That Will Transform Your Life with Science Writer Legend David Robson
In this episode of the Legend Effect Podcast, host Howie Chan interviews David Robson, one of the most prolific science writers out there, with thousands of articles and three bestsellers. They delve into strategies backed by scientific research to help you better manage your mental health and build stronger relationships.The discussion emphasizes how your mindset can transform your life. David provides tools that will help you leverage stress, curb self-doubt, and quickly form deeper connections. He also shares his most impactful psychological effect after over 10 years of research.Episode Breakdown:02:27 David’s drive and intellectual curiosity 04:10 Combining mathematics and science with literature and writing07:00 Self-fulfilling prophecies and the power of mindset10:06 The importance of reappraising stress16:28 2 things that will help you better manage your mental health 19:10 Teaching kids valuable tools for their mental health22:04 The liking gap in social interactions and how to overcome it26:20 How to form better connections through the virtual world28:09 One thing you should do RIGHT NOW if you work by yourself 31:19 The phenomenon of self-expansion in meaningful relationships33:23 The power of self-disclosure and vulnerability38:27 The fast friendship procedure43:28 Overcoming the fear of being vulnerable46:46 Using narrative to live better and form stronger connections48:46 The tool David uses to get through difficult times51:09 David’s mission52:51 How David is starting to do scientific research himself54:48 The one technique that will transform your life58:48 A letter to David’s younger selfFrom Our Guest:WebsiteLinkedIn XInstagram Get David’s books here.Read my article about David’s book The Expectation Effect.Get my FREE Mindset Mastery Course.Legendary Quotes:“ I think it also comes back to the Expectation Effect in a way that the stories we tell ourselves about the things that we're facing can become self-fulfilling prophecies. So, we always should recognize that fact that we are heroes of our own stories, and we can try to make the most of that.” - David Robson“Life is going to have these downswings, but it's what defines your path in life is actually how you respond to that and whether you can find a way to bolster your resources, even if that is asking for support.” - David Robson“ It's really learning just to question your basic assumptions and to realize that just because you think or feel something does not mean that it is necessarily the way that other people would interpret the situation or that there's an objective proof to that.” - David RobsonIt’s time to turn up the volume on life, make your mark, and live your legend. 🤘🏽Join Legend Letters to go from unknown to unforgettable. One actionable lesson each week to establish authority, build attraction, and grow in influence.📩 Try the Legend Letters NewsletterFollow, subscribe, and don’t forget to leave a rating and review!Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
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Sharing Impactful Stories: Unleash the HIDDEN Power of Your Most Vulnerable Moments with Storytelling Legend Ash Rathod
In this episode of the Legend Letters Podcast, host Howie Chan interviews Ash Rathod, a storyteller, founder, and LinkedIn instructor of his 6P storytelling framework. They delve into how stories helped Ash emerge from the darkness and build the strongest relationships with his audience.The discussion emphasizes the power of storytelling and vulnerability. Ash provides a storytelling framework and tips to help anyone create memorable and engaging stories that change hearts and minds, and he reflects on the lessons he learned from his real-life hero.Episode Breakdown:02:52 Ash’s true hero, his father09:39 When Ash’s father passed away13:13 The onset of vitiligo17:01 Facing negative situations and racism21:20 The LinkedIn post that changed it all26:24 The importance of sharing our small stories29:33 The #1 barrier to storytelling31:56 The core KEY elements of storytelling33:52 Ash’s 6P Storytelling Framework37:41 Write hot, edit cold38:49 How to make your story memorable and engaging42:48 From scriptwriting to storytelling47:56 Ash’s love for creating something new50:05 Ash’s transformation post-vitiligo53:41 Two letters to Ash’s younger selfFrom Our Guest:WebsiteLinkedInInstagram The LinkedIn post that kicked off Ash’s journey.Learn more about Ash’s 6P framework in his LinkedIn course, Storytelling and Content Creation to Transform Your Personal Brand. Legendary Quotes:“ The difference between a hero and a villain is how they react to adversity because both of them face the same issues and problems. But the hero wants to make sure that people don't feel that again, and then the villain says, ‘I want everybody to feel the same way.’” – Howie Chan“ It's emotionally draining trying to keep up with what you think others think of you.Be yourself and be kind to yourself. You're good enough, and others know this too. Once you embrace this, I promise you will be the best version of yourself.” - Ash Rathod“People want to know the real you. Of course, they want you to help them in terms of what they need from you and why they turn to you because of your expert opinion, your specialist, or your experience. But if they're not going to align with you in terms of values or they don't like you for whatever reason, they might just choose someone else that can also do that job as well.” - Ash RathodIt’s time to turn up the volume on life, make your mark, and live your legend. 🤘🏽Join Legend Letters: the ultimate guide for corporate dropouts turned business owners.. Each week I share a heartset, mindset, and skillset to grow your business, your brand, and your life.📩 Try the Legend Letters NewsletterFollow, subscribe, and don’t forget to leave a rating and review!Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
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Mastering the PIVOT: From Touring with Rock Bands to Launching Xbox with Legend Harvey Lee
In this episode of the Legend Letters Podcast, host Howie Chan interviews Harvey Lee, Top 10 PMM Consultant & #1 LinkedIn PMM Creator and a legend in both the rock and roll and gaming industries. They delve into Harvey’s stories from his time in the music industry, including when he became the impromptu bassist for the band he was touring with, how he made his way to the video game industry, and the lessons he’s learned along the way.The discussion emphasizes the power of passion, authenticity, giving it your all, and taking action. Harvey provides insight into how he was able to face great challenges where failure was not an option and shares lessons that will help you navigate your career and tough times.Episode Breakdown:02:30 How Harvey became known as the money10:21 Harvey’s passion for music and his early realizations12:36 From the roadie life to the business career life15:06 Starting early and learning the hard way and the quick way17:59 Making things happen for a career in music22:01 Harvey’s parents’ role in his journey25:14 Finding your talent through your passion27:21 Thrown into the rock and roll stage32:01 Treating people as you find them33:25 What it all comes down to with how you present yourself35:49 The transition from the music industry to the video games industry41:09 How Harvey faces challenges where failure is not an option44:08 Proving the naysayers and bullies wrong46:03 The fear of failure paradox47:48 3 life lessons to help you navigate tough times56:11 How to know when to quit1:00:47 The hardest decision Harvey ever made1:06:55 A letter to Harvey’s younger selfFrom Our Guest:WebsiteLinkedIn InstagramTikTok Get the book for FREE, Backstage Pass.Legendary Quotes:“I gained my nickname, and that part was all fun. However, making a name for yourself in life and business is important. It can open doors and help make things happen. You need to be remembered for all the right reasons.” – Harvey Lee“In life and in business, sometimes the best thing that can happen to you is just getting thrown in. Just thrown in. These are the moments that you forge your reputation with your crew, with your audience, with your community, with the people that you work with.” – Harvey Lee“Your marker for the future, your story of the future, hasn't yet been written, and only you can write it. So, whatever is happening with you today, you're only in the moment now. When you wake up tomorrow, you have a blank piece of paper. The question is, What are you going to do with it?”It’s time to turn up the volume on life, make your mark, and live your legend. 🤘🏽Join Legend Letters to go from unknown to unforgettable. One actionable lesson each week to establish authority, build attraction, and grow in influence.📩 Try the Legend Letters NewsletterFollow, subscribe, and don’t forget to leave a rating and review!Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
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Recruiting & Job Searching: How to STOP Being a Job Search Victim and Get Your Power BACK with Career Strategy Legend Loren Greiff
In this episode of the Legend Letters Podcast, host Howie Chan interviews Loren Greiff, an Executive Career Strategist who is ending career victimization by elevating, accelerating, and celebrating one executive at a time. They delve into the ugly realities of the recruiting and job searching world and what Loren is doing to hack the system to get her clients in the position they want in 4 to 7 months—and earning 40% to 70% more.The discussion emphasizes the importance of unconventional job search strategies in an increasingly complex world. Loren shares powerful career-fueling strategies that can help you nail high-stakes interviews, be prepared before joining the company, and beat ageism to get your dream position.Episode Breakdown:03:28 When Loren quit the job she worked her whole life to get07:35 The CTJ moment for Loren09:52 The journey to create PortfolioRocket13:49 It isn’t just about climbing the ladder18:59 Navigating inevitable turnover and complexity21:12 Unconventional job search strategies24:31 How Loren deals with reluctant executives26:34 A simple exercise to unearth your why28:05 Reach more people with fewer words and less time29:57 3 strategies to nail high-stakes interviews34:35 One test you should do before joining a company37:59 How to make your age just a number39:48 Old (bad) habits around job boards and recruiters42:22 Personal resilience and reinvention48:21 Loren’s experience with a Vipassana course50:15 How Loren made cancer fun53:47 Every breakdown is a breakthrough55:58 A letter to Loren’s younger selfFrom Our Guest:WebsiteLinkedIn Youtube PodcastFacebook Instagram Get the book by Jen Sincero You Are a Badass®.Legendary Quotes:“There's this phenomenon called sheltering, right? People staying in jobs that they know that they're misaligned to. They know that there's a feeling that somehow, whether it's the values of the company or they're not being challenged or their compensation is compromised, they stay. And I can understand why. Because it's safe.” – Loren Greiff“Networking isn't broken. Maybe your approach needs some help. These things are all part of a larger effort, not a one-and-done.” – Loren Greiff“We all have the same insecurities, we all feel less than, or we all feel like we're on top of the world at different points in time. And I think that really what is not being said is that if you want it, you can have it, but you got to really want it and you got to not give up on what you want.” – Loren GreiffIt’s time to turn up the volume on life, make your mark, and live your legend. 🤘🏽Join Legend Letters to get the most important lessons and behind the scenes content in under 5 min.📩 Try the Legend Letters NewsletterFollow, subscribe, and don’t forget to leave a rating and review!Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
About The Legend Effect: Master the hidden forces of influence and attraction
Welcome to The Legend Effect, the podcast where you master the hidden forces of influence and attraction to make more, work less, and live a life you can’t wait to wake up to. Hosted by Howie Chan, a strategist with over a decade of experience helping companies and individuals establish authority, build brand, and grow their business. This podcast brings you a mix of solo insights and in-depth interviews - hear from those who have harnessed these powerful forces as they build their empire and from experts who have studied them extensively. This is the mentor I wish I had when I first left the corporate world in pursuit of my version of legendary.
WHAT TO EXPECT:
🎤 Success mindset: The thought process of the most successful people.
🎤 Actionable lessons: What specific actions you can take to elevate your business and life.
🎤 Stories of resilience: Real-life examples of triumph over adversity.
🎤 Redefining success: Get inspired by how different experts define their own success.
🎤 Creating a legacy: Insights into living with purpose and leaving a lasting impact.
🎤 Life lessons from legends: Timeless wisdom from those who've walked the path of greatness.
IT’S TIME!
If you're ready to step out of the ordinary and harness the hidden powers of influence and attraction, Legend Effect is for you.
It’s time to turn up the volume on life, make your mark, and live your legend. 🤘🏽
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