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• 41 | From A Survivor :My Abuser Was a Family Friend, Not a Stranger | Salvation Grace

  Key Topics CoveredSurviving abuse as a child and navigating cultural silenceNaming what happened—and the fear of being disbelievedThe moment she decided to write her story downWhy forgiveness isn’t always the answer for survivorsHer work creating safe spaces and teaching consent in schoolsHow faith, not the church system, helped her healSupporting girls to speak up with confidence and clarityRedefining what justice and healing look like✨Standout Quotes“My abuser was a family friend, not a stranger.”“I kept quiet for so long because I didn’t know what to call it.”“When I started writing, that’s when I started healing.”“I don’t believe in forgiveness as the first step for survivors.”“I needed to tell the truth before I could begin to feel free.”💡 Resources & MentionsThe Grace Project – Survivor-led healing and advocacy by Salvation Grace____________________________________________Want to support the Nalafem? Website nalafem.org Instagram @IamNala_podcast  Tiktok I AM NALA PodcastFacebook NalafemX (Twitter) @NalafemYouTube Nalafem Linkedin NalafemLearn more about the Africa Young Women Beijing+25 Manifesto and how you can help the young women of Africa create a better life for future generations. nalafem.org/manifestoFor collaboration and sponsorships contact:  [email protected] ____________________________________________Creator & Host: Aya ChebbiProducer: Omom Mbu-OgarGraphic Designer.: Kenechukwu NwachukwuMusic License Agreement signed for the Use of ‘Fire’ by Mpho featuring MiDi KwaKwa

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• 40 | From A Survivor: on Conflict-Related Sexual Violence I Emmanuella Vasikya

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• 39 | From A Survivor: A Journey from Silence to Speech I Amanda Tayte-Tait

  Key Topics CoveredThe emotional toll of childhood abuse and betrayalHow grooming thrives in silence and cultural taboosThe moment Amanda decided to name her abuserWriting as resistance: transforming memory into voiceWhy survivors don’t owe anyone forgivenessThe justice system and the cost of speaking outBreaking generational silence and reclaiming agencyWhat true healing looks like for African girls and women“I had no language for what happened. But I have language now.”“He knew what he was doing. And I am allowed to say that.”“I’ve stopped trying to forgive what I still need justice for.”“I am not a victim with no voice. I am the voice.” Resources & MentionsComing Forward: Survivor Testimony and Justice in Africa (referenced by Amanda)Local child protection hotlines and counseling centers in East AfricaSurvivor-led writing circles and healing programs (as discussed by Amanda)African feminist movements advocating for bodily autonomy and legal reform------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Want to support the Nalafem? Website nalafem.org Instagram @IamNala_podcast  Tiktok I AM NALA PodcastFacebook NalafemX (Twitter) @NalafemYouTube NalafemLinkedin NalafemLearn more about the Africa Young Women Beijing+25 Manifesto and how you can help the young women of Africa create a better life for future generations. nalafem.org/manifestoFor collaboration and sponsorships contact:  [email protected] ____________________________________________Creator & Host: Aya ChebbiProducer: Omom Mbu-OgarGraphic Designer.: Kenechukwu NwachukwuMusic License Agreement signed for the Use of ‘Fire’ by Mpho featuring MiDi KwaKwa

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• 38 | From A Survivor: Pendo’s Power Protecting Children from Abuse | Lydia Matioli

  Key Topics CoveredSurviving childhood sexual abuse and reclaiming her voiceHow growing up in Kibera shaped her activism and community approachWriting Pendo’s Power and the need for early conversations on body safetyThe generational impact of silence—and how parenting can disrupt itBuilding trust, safety, and open dialogue with her daughterWorking with Freely In Hope to support survivors through education and leadershipThe need for national survivor councils and reimagining prevention in GBV workBreaking shame, naming body parts, and giving children the language to speak upStandout Quotes“Healing is not linear. But you will get there—and you are not alone.”“I wanted my daughter to inherit a legacy of courage, not silence.”“Your voice is your power. And children need to know that early.”“Pendo’s Power started as a book—but it’s becoming a movement.”Resources & MentionsPendo’s Power – Lydia Matioli’s children’s book on consent and body autonomyFreely In Hope – Survivor-led nonprofit focused on education and leadershipCompanion Guide for Pendo’s Power – For parents, caregivers, and educatorsOsi Kimi and Wangokanja Foundation – Partner orgs doing GBV work in KenyaSurvivor Council advocacy – Lydia’s call for survivor-centered policy designCall to ActionIf this episode touched you, let it move you to act.*  Share Pendo’s Power in your home, school, or community.*  Support survivor-led programs.*  Start the conversations we weren’t given.*  Listen. Believe. Protect.____________________________________________Want to support the Nala Feminist Collective? Website nalafem.org Instagram @IamNala_podcast  Tiktok I AM NALA PodcastFacebook Nala Feminist CollectiveX (Twitter) @NalafemYouTube Nala feminist CollectiveLinkedin Nala Feminist CollectiveLearn more about the Africa Young Women Beijing+25 Manifesto and how you can help the young women of Africa create a better life for future generations. nalafem.org/manifestoFor collaboration and sponsorships contact:  [email protected] ____________________________________________Creator & Host: Aya ChebbiProducer: Omom Mbu-OgarGraphic Designer.: Kenechukwu NwachukwuMusic License Agreement signed for the Use of ‘Fire’ by Mpho featuring MiDi KwaKwa

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• 37 | The Body Remembers: FGM, Trauma & Truth-Telling | Dr. Leyla Hussein

  Key Topics CoveredGrowing up across Somalia, Italy, and Saudi Arabia—and experiencing FGM at age 7The emotional and physical trauma of FGM, including its long-term impact during childbirthWhy FGM must be recognized and prosecuted as child abuse, not cultural practiceThe role of language in policy, aid, and advocacy—reframing FGM, child marriage, and labiaplastyHow patriarchy drives all forms of genital control—across race, class, and regionCreating survivor-led initiatives and safe spaces for healingReimagining feminist solidarity and cross-cultural resistanceThe power of parenting, art, and love in breaking cycles of harm Standout Quotes“What happened to us wasn’t culture. It was child abuse—and the body remembers.”“We don’t practice violence. So let’s stop calling it a practice.”“Patriarchy is the root of it all. If we want to end violence, we must start there.”“Women’s bodies have always made money. That’s why they’ve always been controlled.”“I am Nala because I choose to be present—with love.”  Resources & MentionsPower of Language Position Paper – by The Girl GenerationThe Crocodile Documentary – Leyla’s landmark film on FGM in the UKThe Girl Generation – Support to the Africa-led Movement to End FGMWorld Bank and University of Birmingham data on FGM mortalityFGM Mortality Study – University of Birmingham, 2023CSW events on FGM and survivor-led care________________________________________Want to support the Nalafem? Website nalafem.org Instagram @IamNala_podcast  Tiktok I AM NALA PodcastFacebook Nala Feminist CollectiveX (Twitter) @NalafemYouTube Nala feminist CollectiveLinkedin Nala Feminist CollectiveLearn more about the Africa Young Women Beijing+25 Manifesto and how you can help the young women of Africa create a better life for future generations. nalafem.org/manifestoFor collaboration and sponsorships contact:  [email protected] ____________________________________________Creator & Host: Aya ChebbiProducer: Omom Mbu-OgarGraphic Designer.: Kenechukwu NwachukwuMusic License Agreement signed for the Use of ‘Fire’ by Mpho featuring MiDi KwaKwa

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