Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

They say you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife, but we’d like to think otherwise.
At some point in our life, whether we are at the height of our career or living our best single lives, we all want to find that one person we can spend the rest of our life with, right? That one true love we all grew up hoping to find one day. I mean, at the very least, who doesn’t want to be with the best partner and have the best s*x at the drop of a dime?
Besties, today we are joined by Hannah Berner! Hannah is the host of two extremely successful podcasts Giggly Squad and Berner Phone, a standup comedian, reality TV star, and now here with us on Almost Adulting! Today Violet and Hannah waste no time getting into things beginning with Violet calling out Hannah for not inviting her to her wedding! Hannah then goes into detail about her transition from hoe life to wife life, what it’s like dating (then marrying) an older guy, falling in love with someone you least expect to fall in love with, and why you should look for a partner that takes ugly photos of you. The two superstars also talk about the harsh realities of their professions and why checking in with yourself mentally is SO important. This episode is jam packed with hilarious stories and advice so sit back and listen up!

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What to Listen For:
00:00 Introduction
00:01:13 The first time I saw you…
00:02:44 Oh, cults?
00:04:41 Let’s talk about weddings
00:08:46 Would you date an older guy?
00:13:16 What people don’t know about me…
00:17:50 When people hurt other people
00:20:54 What’s your definition of happiness?
00:26:23 When you open up and stop pretending to be someone else
00:28:00 Loving someone you didn’t imagine ending up with
00:33:45 Going to the extremes, being emotionally unavailable
00:37:11 What is the purpose when you post on social media?
00:41:35 What about love that scared you the most?
00:45:33 How does it feel to have a life partner?
00:50:42 This is how the chase starts
00:52:16 Compatibility in marriage
00:55:29 Being loved even at your lowest
00:56:12 One person can’t be your everything
01:05:11 Has your definition of love changed over the years?
01:08:30 What I like about his d*ck…
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WHY DO MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!?! Whether beginning, middle, or end, it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta did all the research written by men, re-read "Why Men Don't Love Women Like You" and "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" so you don't have to, TO GIVE YOU THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR.
Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psychology behind a man's mind, the three steps to deal with the situation when a man pulls away, and how dating can be beautiful and perfect but it’s all rainbows and butterflies. It often comes with some form of conflict.

What to Listen For:
00:00 Introduction
01:03 When a man pulls away, it feels like a bad romcom
03:33 Reason 1: When they feel overwhelmed or uncertain about their feelings
04:23 Reason 2: Some men need space
06:03 Reason 3: They are unsure of the relationship
06:39 Reason 4: The woman is more invested in the relationship
07:35 Step #1: Do not go Britney Spears on him
11:46 Step #2: Do not chase him
12:57 Men and women do things differently
13:34 Imagine that your partner is like a stretched rubberband
16:38 Punishing a man when he pulls away is not the right approach
21:16 Step #3: Focus on yourself
32:20 Dating works but it always comes with some form of conflict

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