#58 Why I'm Happy When Bad Things Happen To My Kids
When something bad happens to my kids — a fight with a friend, a missed goal, a tough day — I don't rush to fix it. I'm actually… a little happy. 😬 Because this is where resilience is built. In the low-stakes moments of childhood, our kids get to practice what life will demand later: courage, recovery, and perspective. This episode explores the idea of antifragility — the mindset that what doesn't kill us (or our kids) can truly make us stronger. When we stop over-protecting and start coaching, we raise children who can handle life with confidence. If you've ever wondered how to toughen your kids without hardening them — this one's for you. Raise Kids who CAN handle the world - https://hifam.com/studio Private Coaching - https://hifam.com/coaching
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#57 The Dating Crisis Your Kids Will Face — And How to Prepare Them
Modern dating is broken — and no one wants to admit why. We traded commitment for convenience, love for validation, and real connection for swipes on a screen. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how the dating system collapsed — and what we can teach our sons and daughters to do instead. 💔 Why modern dating leaves everyone lonelier 🔥 How women became the gatekeepers of sex and men the gatekeepers of marriage ⚖️ Why hypergamy (dating "up") broke the balance between men and women 💡 What to do differently — and how to find love that actually lasts If you've ever asked yourself "Where did all the good men go?" or "Why can't people commit anymore?" — this video will make everything click. ❤️ Subscribe for weekly conversations on love, family, and real relationships that work. Resources mentioned: Married-U - https://married-u.com
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#56 The Silent Marriage Killer: 5 Steps to Eliminate Resentment in Your Marriage!
If you're ready to want your husband again... not out of duty, but true desire...! Then Desire Lab is built for you - https://hifam.com/desire , my membership for women who want to bring back passion, polarity, and partnership in marriage. He's the main provider… so why do you still feel angry when he gets to rest? In this special recording, I unpack one of the most common (and taboo) relationship triggers for modern women — resentment. We'll talk about: - The invisible scorecard in relationships - How to know if you're owning your choices or secretly blaming your partner - Why "helping" isn't the same as partnership - How to ask for support without keeping emotional receipts - And what to do when he doesn't do it "right" If you've ever muttered "must be nice…" under your breath while folding laundry — this one's for you. 👇 Watch until the end for the mindset shift that can completely change how you feel about your marriage. And when you're ready to go deeper: The Studio – meaningful family life - https://hifam.com/studio Married-U – build a thriving marriage - https://married-u.com
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#55 Do THIS When Kids Ignore Screen Time Limits
If you're tired of screen battles, Reclaim Play (https://reclaimplay.com) will help you build a home where kids actually want to live offline again. Every parent has been there — your kid sneaks an iPad, cracks the passcode, or watches "just one more episode." What do you do next? In this episode, we'll talk about how to respond when your child breaks your screen-time rules — without yelling, shaming, or losing connection. I'll show you how to turn these moments into lessons in trust, honesty, and emotional growth, so screens stop being a source of conflict and become a chance to strengthen your family culture.
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#54 Screen Time Rules That Actually Work (For Every Age)
►► Get your kid playing for hours a day in just 3 weeks, no screens needed: https://reclaimplay.com Ever wonder how much screen time is "okay" for your kids? The rules change as they grow — and without a clear blueprint, it's easy to spiral into guilt, panic, or constant battles. In this episode, I'll walk you age by age (from babies all the way through teens) and show you the clear, big-picture boundaries that protect your child's brain, body, and relationships — while keeping your family culture stronger than screen culture. And when you're ready to go deeper: The Studio – create a meaningful family life - https://hifam.com/studio Married-U – build a thriving marriage - https://married-u.com Desire Lab – reignite chemistry & attraction - https://hifam.com/desire
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