Hi, Fam!

Something subtle has shifted in how many of us experience love, partnership, and long-term commitment — and most people don't realize it's happening.
 
This is Day 1 of me diving into how Instagram almost ruined my marriage.
It's: 
Not about fixing your partner.
Not about blaming yourself.
Not about quick communication hacks.
It's about seeing something most couples miss… and once you see it, you can't unsee it.
If you've ever felt a quiet sense of dissatisfaction, restlessness, or "is this it?" — even in a good relationship — start here.
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Modern culture has a lot to say about marriage — and most of it sounds convincing… until you slow down and really look at it.

In this episode, I react to a viral clip that perfectly captures the messages many women are absorbing every day — about men, motherhood, and when a marriage is "no longer worth it."
If you've ever felt confused, angry, or unsettled by the relationship advice flooding social media, this conversation will help you see it differently.

👇 Stay until the end for the mindset shift that protects marriages — not breaks them. Marriage doesn't fall apart overnight — it erodes through small beliefs and narratives we absorb over time.

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A husband asks a question that instantly triggers people — and yet, it reveals something many marriages struggle with quietly.
This conversation isn't really about cooking, laundry, or speed. It's about responsibility, resentment, leadership, and the systems that quietly shape family life. If your marriage feels uneven, tense, or exhausting — this perspective may change how you see the problem entirely.
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What do you do when you've decided not to leave — but your heart is still broken?
 
In this episode, I respond to a question from a woman married 15 years, raising two children, and trying to make sense of life after betrayal.
We talk about trust, limbo, stability for kids, and why staying without redesigning the marriage slowly corrodes the heart.
 This is not about blaming, fixing, or rushing to a decision — it's about what must change if you're going to stay without becoming smaller or colder.

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If your marriage has gone through a rupture and you want to rebuild it intentionally — not passively — Married-U teaches the skills that help couples strengthen trust, connection, and intimacy over time. 👉 https://married-u.com

Are you living your life like an archaeologist — digging through your past, analyzing old wounds, collecting theories and "insights"… but not actually building anything new?

In this lepisode, we're flipping the script. I'll show you why so many smart, capable women stay stuck in analysis, self-diagnosis, and overthinking — and how to step into the role of architect, the woman who designs her identity, her habits, her outcomes, and her future. If you've been doing all the "inner work" but still feel like you're circling the same patterns… this conversation will hit like truth serum. Come ready for clarity, calibration, and a gentle-but-firm push into empowered action. ✨

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