The People Pleaser’s Guide to Losing Yourself (and How I’m Finding Me Again)
Send us a text“Excuse Me, Am I in Your Way — in Life?” - me LMAOOkay but…seriously. Why am I saying “sorry” to the chair I just bumped into? Why am I overthinking that text I sent 3 hours ago? Why am I mentally writing 12 versions of a message just to make sure no one’s offended by my breathing pattern??In this episode of Becoming Wild, I’m diving headfirst (with grace) into the beautiful, burdensome art of being too considerate. I’m unpacking where it comes from (hi, childhood conditioning), why we do it (survival, approval, trauma... whew), and what it actually costs us when we make everyone else’s feelings our full-time job. Spoiler alert: it's EXHAUSTING. Also: you're not alone.Let this be your loving nudge to stop editing yourself down to be digestible. You are not a disclaimer. You are not too much. And you sure as hell don’t owe anyone an apology for being your full, radiant self.Take a breath, press play, and let’s start reclaiming our space unapologetically. #peoplepleaser #peoplepleasingSupport the show
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62. The Arousal Episode Part 2 | Solo Dates & Sexual Temptation
Send us a textHey doll face!Welcome to my world!In today’s episode we talk all about:Epiphanies for showing up as my authentic self Working through my friendship hurt (being open for separate healing)Talking through my desiresSetting my boundaries for my next sexual encountersFiguring out my own wants and needs without shameHow to increase your sexual arousalAn academy update & moreENJOY!10 ways to naturally boost your libido: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323918#herbal-remedies Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWant vegan and cruelty free self care? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal Want exclusive content and mini courses? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show
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How To Become Yourself | My Sparkly, Slightly Messy New Beginning
Send us a textDarlings, welcome to the first juicy little bite of my brand-new series, Becoming Wild where I spill the tea, the honey, and maybe a few existential sprinkles about what it really means to unbecome everything you thought you had to be, just to remember who you truly are. (Phew. Yes, that was a sentence. Yes, it’s a journey.)In this kickoff episode, I’m pulling back the glittery curtain and sharing some real talk: the growing pains, the cosmic giggles, the ego meltdowns, and the tender moments of coming home to ME. Expect some laughs, a few awkward revelations, and at least one moment where I dramatically pause to sip tea and question everything (on-brand, I know).If you've ever found yourself dancing between the version of you the world expects and the wild, radiant soul whispering beneath the noise — this series is your permission slip to become. Let’s bloom, unravel, shimmy, and sparkle through it together. 🦋💫Hit play, take a deep breath, and let’s start becoming together. I love youPATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperienceSupport the show
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PATREON BONUS: Reconnecting With My First Lesbian Lover & My PMDD Diagnosis
Send us a textI want to live in a world where we aren't ashamed by our self diagnosis and instead are proud to know that we know our bodies well enough to be able to know when somethings wrong and how to heal it.Not saying I don't think doctors are needed (in some cases) but my goal to learn my own body was absolutely inspired from the hurt and misinformation I've received from "trusted doctors" when trying to find the answers.ALSO.... my first lesbian lover from back in the day reached out last year november.... here's how it went monkey covering eyes emojienjoy my babies!CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://www.patreon.com/c/TheLoveAtiyaExperienceSupport the show
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61. How To Feel More Arousal | Math Dyslexia and Pelvic Floor Dysfunction
Send us a textHey beautiful souls!I’m so excited about today’s episode!First we’ll be catching up on how I recently learned I had Dyscalculia (a form of math dyslexia) and how it’s affected my life.Then I chat about my quick meet up with a MAN and how I’m navigating my confused horniness.Lastly, we chat all about why we sometimes find it hard to get aroused and how to fix that.10 ways to naturally boost your libido: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323918#herbal-remedies Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWant vegan and cruelty free self care? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal Want exclusive content and mini courses? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show
Welcome to The Ethereal Pleasure Podcast ✨ Formally known as The Love Atiya Experience ✨ where we talk about all things healing, feeling, softening, and coming home to yourself.Think of this as a safe space for us to unlearn much of what society has taught us about sex, sensuality, intimacy & pleasure & discover exactly who we were born to be.Hosted by the ever-curious, honey-voiced, wild and slightly outrageous Love Atiya, this isn’t your average sexual wellness show. Nope. Here, we dive deep into the juicy realms of self love, sensual healing, self care, feminine power, nervous system healing, and overall beCUMing.This space is for the soft-hearted rebels, the recovering overthinkers, the divine disruptors, and every beautiful soul who’s ever felt like their joy was too much or their voice too quiet.Each episode includes a delightful mix of pleasure education, tutorials and transparent storytelling with unfiltered truths that will leave you giggling, thinking, and feeling inspired. We’ll breathe together, laugh loudly, cry when it’s real, and explore everything from feminine energy to nervous system care, sensuality, emotional liberation, and the messy-beautiful art of being a full, whole, radiant human.Each month, I’m serving up real conversations, pleasure-filled tools, and playful wisdom to help you reconnect with your body, your boundaries, and your magic. So grab your tea (or your vibrator, no judgement here), get cozy, press play, and let’s journey back to your pleasure, one breath, one story, and one sacred giggle at a time. Prepare to return to your most ethereal, embodied, pleasure-filled self.Because pleasure isn’t optional, darling. It’s your birthright. 💫You’re safe here. You’re seen. And you’re so deeply loved.
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