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The Balance Theory

Erika De Pellegrin
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  • The #1 Habit Keeping You From Achieving What You Want | Chantale Ishac
    If you’ve been doing all the “right” things and still feel stuck, this episode is the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed. I’m joined by my therapist, Chantale, who returns for a third time to help me unpack this in a way only she can.Today we’re breaking down the #1 habit keeping you from achieving what you want, a habit she taught me that changed EVERYTHING for me, a habit so common most people don’t even realise they’re doing it…This habit is the reason why you feel guilty saying no, why fear shows up every time you try something new. You’ll learn how to recognise when you’re operating from an inauthentic version of yourself, why your goals fall apart when they’re built on fear, and the neuroscience behind stepping outside your comfort zone.This is a practical, grounded conversation about building self-trust, setting boundaries without guilt, dissolving limiting beliefs, and finally creating goals that feel true to who you are, not who you think you “should” be.By the end, you’ll know exactly how to break this habit, stop abandoning yourself, and take the first aligned step toward the life you actually want.This will unlock everything for you.🎥 PREVIOUS PODCAST WITH CHANTALECONNECT WITH OUR GUEST📸 InstagramTIME STAMPS(01:17) Introduction(02:55) Everything you need to know about people pleasing(07:47) How do you deal with guilt and fear?(12:30) How can you be giving without people pleasing?(16:03) This is essential to do before goal setting(20:35) Limiting Beliefs & Goal Setting(25:57) How to push through limiting beliefs(30:02) “I am not enough”(31:30) Exercise to break through small limiting beliefs (not large traumas)(35:11) Neuroscience for being outside of your comfort zone(39:12) What you need to know about tolerance windows(42:52) Rapid FireWHO AM I?My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG!RESOURCES▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge▶︎ Goal Setting System E-BookLET’S BE FRIENDS📸 Instagram📱TiktokMY FAVOURITE STUFF💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trialSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • Why You Don’t Need to Have Life “Figured Out” By 30 | Caggie Dunlop
    If you’re approaching your late 20s or early 30s and feel like you’re supposed to have your life together by now… this conversation will feel like a warm exhale.In this episode, I sit down with Caggie Dunlop, founder of the Saturn Returns podcast and author of Saturn Return: Your Cosmic Coming of Age, to unpack what’s really happening when life feels turbulent, uncertain, or like everything is changing at once.Whether you’re starting over after a breakup, questioning your career, drifting from old friendships, or simply thinking, “I thought I’d be further by now,” this episode will help you make sense of a chapter most people silently struggle through.You’re not behind. You’re not failing. You’re becoming.This episode is for those who are27–33 and feel lostquestioning the life you thought you’d have“starting over” when everyone else seems aheadgrowing out of old friendships and identitiesnavigating big emotional changes all at onceGet ready to learn and reposition yourself to find grounding & peace with your timeline.TIME STAMPS(01:13) What is a Saturn Return?(07:43) Reinvention versus rediscovering who you are(13:42) Reflective Questions for turbulent moments(17:22) Timeline exercise(20:30) Who Am I?(27:06) Friendship break ups(33:28) Juggling work and being a new mum(41:13) Birth storiesCONNECT WITH OUR GUEST📸 Instagram WHO AM I?My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG!RESOURCES▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge▶︎ Goal Setting System E-BookLET’S BE FRIENDS📸 Instagram📱TiktokMY FAVOURITE STUFF💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% offSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • These Daily Habits Are Draining Years From Your Life | Gary Brecka
    If you’ve been doing “everything right” but still don’t feel good, this conversation will connect the dots.Today I’m joined by Gary Brecka, human biologist and longevity expert, to break down the daily habits that quietly drain your energy, increase anxiety, and limit your health span. The best part? Most of the fixes are totally free and within your control today.In the first 10 minutes alone, Gary reveals the 3 free habits that have the biggest impact on your sleep, mood, stress, and long-term vitality - especially for people with busy lives and limited time or budget.We also explore the link between isolation and early mortality, why so many people struggle with anxiety without knowing the biological reason behind it, and how to invest in your health in a way that actually moves the needle.This episode is practical, grounding, and genuinely life-changing.(01:28) Introduction(03:01) 3 FREE things to extend your life(06:43) Caregiver syndrome(07:41) Investing in your wellness(09:34) Why people struggle with anxiety(12:32) 40% of people go to sleep like this(15:48) Is it just about more years?(20:13) Are you religious?(21:48) This is the most attractive frequency(24:37) Impact of Botox/Filler on longevity?(29:58) How long are we going to live in 200 years?Connect with today's guest on InstagramWHO AM I?My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG!RESOURCES▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge▶︎ Goal Setting System E-BookLET’S BE FRIENDS📸 Instagram📱TiktokMY FAVOURITE STUFF💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% offSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • How to Stop Letting Your Job or Relationships Define You | Twinkle Stanly
    If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking “who am I without my job?” or felt your identity slipping when a relationship ends… this episode is going to hit home.Today I’m joined by Twinkle Stanly, content creator, speaker, and the woman behind one of the most relatable pivots online right now. We dive deep into what it actually feels like to walk away from a life that looks “fine” on paper, but no longer feels aligned.If you’ve been questioning your path, feeling disconnected from who you are, or stuck between wanting more and not knowing where to begin -this conversation will help you find clarity, confidence, and your true identity again.In this episode, we unpack:💭 Leaving a job you didn’t hate - but still knowing you’re meant for more💭 Why so many women tie their identity to job titles, achievements or relationships💭 Finding the courage to pivot without proof that it will work out💭 The fear of losing your labels and rebuilding who you are without them💭 Why your niche is YOU (and why overthinking it keeps you stuck)💭 How to detach from people’s opinions and trust your inner knowing💭 Spiritual vs strategic confidence and the mindset that gets you moving againWhether you’re going through a transition, craving reinvention, or trying to reconnect with yourself… this episode will remind you that you are allowed to choose a new life, even if the old one wasn’t “bad.”CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST📸 InstagramTIME STAMPS(01:14) You didn’t hate your job, but you still quit?(05:14) How did you get the confidence to post your first video?(08:14) This should be your niche(11:44) My identity being tied to a relationship(13:18) I’m good at rejecting people’s opinion of me(15:59) Advice for people wanting to have more abundant thoughts(18:47) Losing yourself to relationships(20:16) What are you not prepared to settle for?(28:29) Social Media Addiction(33:39) Stop relying on ChatGPT(40:12) Is success spiritual or strategic?WHO AM I?My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG!RESOURCES▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge▶︎ Goal Setting System E-BookLET’S BE FRIENDS📸 Instagram📱TiktokMY FAVOURITE STUFF💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% offSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • How to Find Confidence in Different Areas of Life | Kayla Itsines
    We all go through seasons where life changes, again and again. Whether it’s becoming a parent, finding confidence, learning about money or figuring out who you are beyond your career, this conversation with Kayla Itsines dives deep into what her evolution has really looked like.From finding confidence on stage and handling online negativity, to postpartum recovery and redefining balance between pregnancy, post partum, being online, fitness, family, and wealth - Kayla opens up in a way she never has before.If you’ve ever thought, “I’m trying to find myself again” or felt like your confidence disappeared somewhere along the way… this episode will remind you it’s never gone, it just needs to be rebuilt in this new season of life, along with some personal insights into Kayla’s own journey.#KaylaItsines #Confidence #Reinvention #TheBalanceTheory #PostpartumJourney #SelfGrowth #LifeChange #Motherhood #FitnessMotivation #FindingYourselfTIME STAMPS(01:37) Introduction(02:51) Confidence to be on stage?(06:27) Dealing with negativity online(10:17) Kayla has never shared this…(16:07) Honest recovery from pregnancy(21:57) “Bounce back”?(25:10) What do men get wrong with advising fitness in pregnancy?(27:37) How have you diversified your wealth?(29:47) The “Kayla Tax”(31:45) If we removed fitness from your life, what would you be doing?(34:35) Confidence in the gym(36:03) Do you think we need to parent boys and girls differently?(40:07) Raising kids different to the previous generation?(43:45) Rapid Fire Qs📸 Connect with our guest on IG hereWHO AM I?My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG!RESOURCES▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge▶︎ Goal Setting System E-BookLET’S BE FRIENDS📸 Instagram📱TiktokMY FAVOURITE STUFF💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% offSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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About The Balance Theory

Struggling to find balance in your life and achieve your goals? Join Erika De Pellegrin on The Balance Theory, a self development podcast packed with actionable strategies to build confidence, crush your goals, unlock the life you want and transform your mindset in the process. As a lawyer who’s conquered burnout, she shares powerful tips on self-growth, productivity, and unlocking your true potential—without the guilt, overwhelm & stress that comes from trying to juggle different areas of life. The Balance Theory is a powerful approach to reframing life balance, so you can build the life you are dreaming of without compromising what matters most. Join us weekly for practical and personal tools and insights to help find your unique balance, to be inspired by guests like Kayla Itsines, Kelsey Wells, Steph Claire Smith, Laura Henshaw, KIC Founders, Sarah Davidson, Chontel Duncan, Georgie Stevenson and more.Tune in to break through barriers and start living the life you deserve!Spotify Playlists:Mindset PlaylistSelf Awareness Playlist Health + Fitness PlaylistHead on over and connect with us on our TikTok, YouTube & Instagram!Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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