The Bird Brain Podcast

We talk a lot about what it takes to become successful. We don't talk nearly enough about the grief that can accompany it.
Sometimes you accomplish something you've worked years for, and instead of feeling overwhelming excitement, you feel sadness, exhaustion, relief, or even emptiness.
It's not necessarily that you're ungrateful. Sometimes you're finally processing everything it took to get there.
In this episode of The Bird Brain Podcast, I'm exploring the grief of becoming: the emotional cost of success, the relationships and identities that change along the way, and the strange experience of outgrowing one version of your life before the next one is fully built.
What happens when your professional identity grows faster than your circumstances? When you reach a milestone but struggle to celebrate it? When becoming the person you wanted to be requires you to acknowledge what you've lost along the way?
Sometimes success doesn't feel like arrival. Sometimes you're still building the bridge beneath your feet.
It's Just Information.
In this episode:
Why achievement can sometimes feel like grief

The difference between success, satisfaction, and relief

The emotional cost of personal growth

How success changes relationships and identity

Learning to celebrate progress while life is still unfinished

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#successjourney #personalgrowth #friendship We talk a lot about what it takes to become successful. We don't talk nearly enough about the grief that can accompany it.Sometimes you accomplish something you've worked years for, and instead of feeling overwhelming excitement, you feel sadness, exhaustion, relief, or even emptiness.It's not necessarily that you're ungrateful. Sometimes you're finally processing everything it took to get there.In this episode of The Bird Brain Podcast, I'm exploring the grief of becoming: the emotional cost of success, the relationships and identities that change along the way, and the strange experience of outgrowing one version of your life before the next one is fully built.What happens when your professional identity grows faster than your circumstances? When you reach a milestone but struggle to celebrate it? When becoming the person you wanted to be requires you to acknowledge what you've lost along the way?Sometimes success doesn't feel like arrival. Sometimes you're still building the bridge beneath your feet.It's Just Information.**In this episode:**- Why achievement can sometimes feel like grief- The difference between success, satisfaction, and relief- The emotional cost of personal growth- How success changes relationships and identity- Learning to celebrate progress while life is still unfinished***ENROLLMENT NOW OPEN***JOIN THE SELF-ABANDONMENT GROUP COACHINGSelf-awareness is not self-action.If you're ready to explore the patterns keeping you stuck in cycles of overgiving, people-pleasing, resentment, or self-silencing, my upcoming 8-week group coaching experience is designed to help you turn awareness into action.*Program begins:* January 13, 2027*Sessions:* Wednesdays, 3–5 p.m. Pacific*Recordings available**Limited Spots available*
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I don’t think we always desire *healthy relationships, as much as harmonious ones. There’s a different requirement for what healthy looks like and sometimes, most times we may not be fully aware of what that looks like; and what it requires from us. Sometimes we abandon ourselves not by who we show up for, but who we avoid. JOIN THE SELF-ABANDONMENT COHORTSelf-awareness is not self-action.If you're ready to explore the patterns keeping you stuck in cycles of overgiving, people-pleasing, resentment, or self-silencing, my upcoming 8-week group coaching experience is designed to help you turn awareness into action.*Early enrollment:* November 2, 2026*Program begins:* January 13, 2027*Sessions:* Wednesdays, 3–5 p.m. Pacific*Recordings available*www.birdbrainwellness.com/self-abandonment🧠 BOOK A ONE-TIME COACHING SESSIONSometimes you don't need another piece of content. You need a conversation focused on your specific situation.My 75-minute One-Time Coaching Sessions ($375) offer an opportunity to explore one specific challenge, recognize patterns, and identify practical next steps.Whether you're navigating relationships, boundaries, self-worth, resentment, or a difficult decision, we can work through it together.Book your session: https://calendly.com/thebirdbrainwell...

You're Not as Honest in Your Relationships as You ThinkWhat if being the strong one in your relationships isn't always about strength? What if it's also about control?In this episode of The Bird Brain Podcast, we're unpacking the hidden cost of being dependable, the expectations we unintentionally create, and how self-abandonment can disguise itself as loyalty, love, and being the person everyone can count on.Because here's something worth considering: *Your dependability can create a dependency, and that dependency can eventually become an expectation.*When you're always accommodating, always available, and always understanding, you may be participating in relationship dynamics that aren't nearly as honest or reciprocal as you believe.We'll explore the difference between being needed and being wanted, how we use our roles to maintain control, and why being the "good one" doesn't necessarily mean we're being honest with ourselves or others.Sometimes, the hardest part of changing your relationships is acknowledging how you've helped create the dynamics you're unhappy with. JOIN THE SELF-ABANDONMENT COHORTSelf-awareness is not self-action.If you're ready to explore the patterns keeping you stuck in cycles of overgiving, people-pleasing, resentment, or self-silencing, my upcoming 8-week group coaching experience is designed to help you turn awareness into action.
*Early enrollment:* November 2, 2026
*Program begins:* January 13, 2027
*Sessions:* Wednesdays, 3–5 p.m. Pacific
*Recordings available*
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Are you the villain—or are you so committed to being seen as good that you haven’t questioned how you show up?Sometimes we withhold the truth, avoid setting boundaries, and call it kindness. We say “I understand” while quietly building resentment. We keep the peace until maintaining it becomes somebody else’s responsibility.What happens to a relationship when looking like a good person becomes more important than practicing honesty, accountability, and care?In this episode, we’re talking about people-pleasing, self-abandonment, and the harm we can cause while trying to keep our “good person” identity intact.Ask yourself: Where am I choosing to be perceived as good at the expense of being truthful?👇 What has trying to be “the understanding one” cost you? Share what you’re comfortable sharing in the comments.I’m also developing an eight-week cohort around self-abandonment—how we lose ourselves in our relationships, and how we practice showing up without leaving ourselves behind. More on that soon.It’s just information.

It's never about the spilled milk... Sometimes the relationship has spoiled over time. Relationships - of all kind - exist and expire because of one thing: Repetition. How many times has something come up that wasn't repaired? How many bids for connection dismissed? How many important things forgotten. We talk a lot about intention but impact has it's place; And we can discover the true impact of our participation in our connections. I have limited open availability for 1:1 coaching. If there is one thing, or many, there's space to work through it. WORK WITH ME — OCTOBER CLARITY INTENSIVES 75 focused minutes around one specific issue you want clarity, strategy, or movement around.Relationships • Boundaries • Friendship • Self-worth • Difficult decisions • Repeating patterns$375 · limited spots available. Book Here: https://calendly.com/thebirdbrainwellness/clarity-intensive1:1 coaching program apply here : www.birdbrainwellness.com