Redefining Wealth with Patrice Washington

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✨ About This Season: Redefining Love 2.0

This season of Redefining Wealth is dedicated to redefining what love really means — beyond romance and into how we love ourselves, others, God, and the lives we’re creating.

We’re exploring what it looks like to love without leaving yourself behind — through relationships, self-trust, reciprocity, obedience, and the Six Pillars of Wealth. Subscribe and journey with us as we learn to love without self-abandonment and honor who we are becoming.

 

Episode Summary

In this solo episode, Patrice Washington challenges us to stop waiting for life to become painful enough before honoring what we already know. She breaks down the progression from the pebble—the first quiet piece of information—to the rock, where consequences begin to hurt, and finally the boulder, where misalignment becomes a crisis we can no longer ignore. For high-achieving, high-capacity people especially, the ability to keep functioning can make it easy to rationalize red flags, carry discomfort, and remain in relationships, careers, financial patterns, or environments we’ve already outgrown. 

Patrice reminds us that honoring the pebble doesn’t mean impulsively blowing up our lives—it means refusing to pretend we didn’t receive the information. Sometimes self-honoring looks like asking a better question, having the conversation, changing someone’s access, creating a governing decision, or simply acknowledging what is true. Because the goal isn’t just better discernment; it’s shortening the distance between knowing and aligned action before misalignment sends an invoice across the Six Pillars of Wealth.

 

Questions to Ask Yourself:

What do I already know to be true that I’ve been trying to explain away?

What evidence am I still waiting for before I give myself permission to act?

What “boulder” am I unconsciously waiting for?

If nothing about this situation changed for the next 12 months, what would I wish I had done today?

What is one move I can make today that honors what I already know?

 

Want to Redefine Wealth for Yourself? Start Here:

🧭 Take the 2-Minute Pillar Quiz to identify which pillar needs your attention in this season: https://patricewashington.com/quiz

📱 Join the FREE Redefining Wealth App (community, book club, and weekly LIVE sessions with Patrice): https://patricewashington.com/redefining-wealth-app/

💛 Explore Pillar Mastery: https://pillarmastery.com

🎓 Join the Waitlist to The Institute for Redefining Wealth: https://redefiningwealth.institute/

 

Resources Mentioned: 

Join the waitlist to Redefining Wealth LIVE: www.redefiningwealthlive.com - where purpose-driven individuals come together to gain clarity, alignment, and momentum in creating lives that truly reflect their values. If you’re ready to break free from default thinking and step into a more fulfilled, abundant life, don’t miss this event.

📘 Download the Six Pillars Cheat Sheet: https://patricewashington.com/6pillars

This episode is brought to you by The Institute for Redefining Wealth™. Join me for a transformational experience designed to help you get off autopilot, reconnect with what you truly desire, and build a life that feels as good as it looks. Through the Six Pillars of Wealth™, you’ll uncover what’s out of alignment, redefine wealth on your own terms, and create a vision rooted in your values. If you’re ready to stop living by default and start building a life that truly reflects who you are, I’d love to welcome you inside the Institute.

 

✨ About This Season: Redefining Love 2.0

This season we’re exploring what it looks like to love without leaving yourself behind — through relationships, self-trust, reciprocity, obedience, and the Six Pillars of Wealth. Subscribe and journey with us as we learn to love without self-abandonment and honor who we are becoming.

 

Episode Summary

In this special episode, Patrice Washington sits down with the faculty of the Institute for Redefining Wealth—Master Coach Marsha-Ann Donaldson, Money Pillar Coach Tricia Daniel, Work Pillar Coach Nicole Rhone, Faith Pillar Coach Tonya Bailey Jones, and People Pillar Coach Evelyn LeVasseur—to explore what happens when the person who has always been “the strong one” finally allows herself to receive support. Together, they unpack why knowing something needs to change isn’t always enough—and how having a safe space to speak honestly, use your voice, and receive support can help move you from hesitation into aligned action.

Through the Six Pillars of Wealth, the coaches share what becomes possible when women stop carrying everything alone and begin trusting themselves enough to say, “I’m no longer available for that.” This conversation is a reminder that accepting support doesn’t make you less capable—it creates room to build a life where your work, relationships, faith, finances, and well-being can thrive together.

 

Questions to Ask Yourself:

Where do I already know something needs to change but keep talking myself out of taking action?

Have I confused being “the strong one” with who I am rather than a role I learned to play?

Where am I afraid to use my voice because I might disappoint or be misunderstood by someone else?

What would become possible if I allowed myself to receive the same support I consistently give others?

What is one truth I already know that I’m ready to finally do something about?

 

Want to Redefine Wealth for Yourself? Start Here:

🎓 Join The Institute for Redefining Wealth: https://redefiningwealth.institute/

🧭 Take the 2-Minute Pillar Quiz to identify which pillar needs your attention in this season: https://patricewashington.com/quiz

📘 Download the Six Pillars Cheat Sheet: https://patricewashington.com/6pillars

📱 Join the FREE Redefining Wealth App (community, book club, and weekly LIVE sessions with Patrice): https://patricewashington.com/redefining-wealth-app/

💛 Explore Pillar Mastery: https://pillarmastery.com

 

Other Ways to Work with Patrice: 

🚀 Apply for Mastery + Momentum: https://patricewashington.com/mastery-momentum-open-enrollment/

✨ Join Patrice Washington’s AAA Coaching: www.patricewashington.com/aaa

This episode is brought to you by Redefining Wealth LIVE. Join me for the transformational experience that will challenge the way you think about success, wealth, and well-being. Redefining Wealth LIVE is where purpose-driven individuals come together to gain clarity, alignment, and momentum in creating lives that truly reflect their values. If you’re ready to break free from default thinking and step into a more fulfilled, abundant life, don’t miss this event.

✨ About This Season: Redefining Love 2.0

This season of Redefining Wealth is dedicated to redefining what love really means — beyond romance and into how we love ourselves, others, God, and the lives we’re creating.

We’re exploring what it looks like to love without leaving yourself behind — through relationships, self-trust, reciprocity, obedience, and the Six Pillars of Wealth. Subscribe and journey with us as we learn to love without self-abandonment and honor who we are becoming.

 

Episode Summary

In this solo episode, Patrice Washington explores the silent agreements that quietly create resentment in our relationships, friendships, families, and workplaces. These agreements happen when we consistently participate in dynamics we don’t actually want—saying yes when we mean no, carrying responsibilities we resent, giving more than we want to give, or expecting others to understand needs we’ve never clearly communicated. Patrice challenges us to stop asking, “Why do they keep doing this to me?” and instead consider a more revealing question: What have I taught them works for me?

Patrice shares how to replace silent agreements with solid agreements built on clarity, consent, capacity, and consistency—with consequences when necessary. The goal isn’t to control someone else’s response; it’s to communicate honestly, observe what they actually have the capacity to give, and use that information to make aligned decisions. Because redefining love requires us to stop expecting people to honor agreements they never made—and stop saying yes with our behavior when everything inside of us is saying no.

 

Questions to Ask Yourself:

Where am I feeling resentment because of an expectation I’ve never clearly communicated?

What have my actions taught someone else is acceptable or sustainable for me?

Where am I expecting someone to “just know” what I need instead of asking for it?

What responsibility did I pick up temporarily that has quietly become permanent?

What would a solid agreement rooted in clarity, consent, capacity, and consistency look like here?

 

Want to Redefine Wealth for Yourself? Start Here:

🧭 Take the 2-Minute Pillar Quiz to identify which pillar needs your attention in this season: https://patricewashington.com/quiz

📱 Join the FREE Redefining Wealth App (community, book club, and weekly LIVE sessions with Patrice): https://patricewashington.com/redefining-wealth-app/

💛 Explore Pillar Mastery: https://pillarmastery.com

🎓 Join the Waitlist to The Institute for Redefining Wealth: https://redefiningwealth.institute/

Resources Mentioned: 

Redefining Wealth LIVE: www.redefiningwealthlive.com - where purpose-driven individuals come together to gain clarity, alignment, and momentum in creating lives that truly reflect their values. If you’re ready to break free from default thinking and step into a more fulfilled, abundant life, don’t miss this event.

📘 Download the Six Pillars Cheat Sheet: https://patricewashington.com/6pillars

This episode is brought to you by Redefining Wealth LIVE. Join me for the transformational experience that will challenge the way you think about success, wealth, and well-being. Redefining Wealth LIVE is where purpose-driven individuals come together to gain clarity, alignment, and momentum in creating lives that truly reflect their values. If you’re ready to break free from default thinking and step into a more fulfilled, abundant life, don’t miss this event.

✨ About This Season: Redefining Love 2.0

This season of Redefining Wealth is dedicated to redefining what love really means — beyond romance and into how we love ourselves, others, God, and the lives we’re creating.

We’re exploring what it looks like to love without leaving yourself behind — through relationships, self-trust, reciprocity, obedience, and the Six Pillars of Wealth. Subscribe and journey with us as we learn to love without self-abandonment and honor who we are becoming.

 

Episode Summary

In this powerful solo episode, Patrice Washington breaks down seven ways self-abandonment can hide behind qualities we normally celebrate. Being understanding can become explaining away behavior you already know doesn’t work for you. Responsibility can turn into carrying what was never yours. Generosity can become constantly paying the difference, while flexibility and loyalty can keep you betraying your own standards or staying beyond a season’s expiration date. Patrice reminds us that self-abandonment doesn’t always look like insecurity—it can look polished, accomplished, capable, and incredibly successful.

Through the lens of Redefining Love 2.0, Patrice challenges listeners to examine when their greatest strengths—compassion, responsibility, generosity, flexibility, loyalty, ambition, and faith—stop serving them and start becoming tools for self-betrayal. From over-functioning for others to chasing someone else’s definition of success or continuing to pray for clarity God may have already provided, this episode invites you to recognize the patterns hiding in plain sight. The question to carry forward is simple but powerful: Am I doing this from love, or am I doing this at the expense of myself?

 

Questions to Ask Yourself:

Where am I using understanding or compassion to explain away something I already know doesn’t work for me?

What am I carrying simply because I’m capable, even though it isn’t actually my responsibility?

Where am I giving so much that generosity has started turning into resentment?

What governing decision or standard have I been abandoning in the name of flexibility or loyalty?

Where might I already have clarity but be waiting for more signs because I’m afraid of what acting on it will require?

 

Want to Redefine Wealth for Yourself? Start Here:

🧭 Take the 2-Minute Pillar Quiz to identify which pillar needs your attention in this season: https://patricewashington.com/quiz

📱 Join the FREE Redefining Wealth App (community, book club, and weekly LIVE sessions with Patrice): https://patricewashington.com/redefining-wealth-app/

💛 Explore Pillar Mastery: https://pillarmastery.com

🎓 Join the Waitlist to The Institute for Redefining Wealth: https://redefiningwealth.institute/

Resources Mentioned: 

Redefining Wealth LIVE: www.redefiningwealthlive.com - where purpose-driven individuals come together to gain clarity, alignment, and momentum in creating lives that truly reflect their values. If you’re ready to break free from default thinking and step into a more fulfilled, abundant life, don’t miss this event.

📘 Download the Six Pillars Cheat Sheet: https://patricewashington.com/6pillars

This episode is brought to you by Redefining Wealth LIVE. Join me for the transformational experience that will challenge the way you think about success, wealth, and well-being. Redefining Wealth LIVE is where purpose-driven individuals come together to gain clarity, alignment, and momentum in creating lives that truly reflect their values. If you’re ready to break free from default thinking and step into a more fulfilled, abundant life, don’t miss this event.

✨ About This Season: Redefining Love 2.0

This season of Redefining Wealth is dedicated to redefining what love really means — beyond romance and into how we love ourselves, others, God, and the lives we’re creating.

We’re exploring what it looks like to love without leaving yourself behind — through relationships, self-trust, reciprocity, obedience, and the Six Pillars of Wealth. Subscribe and journey with us as we learn to love without self-abandonment and honor who we are becoming.

Episode Summary

Welcome back, Purpose Chasers! After a 10-week summer break, Patrice returns to the Redefining Wealth podcast with the foundation for a brand-new season: Redefining Love 2.0. This season begins with a powerful truth—love should never require you to leave yourself. Patrice explores how easily self-abandonment can disguise itself as sacrifice, loyalty, keeping the peace, or even faith, and challenges us to redefine love in a way that allows us to remain honest, whole, and connected to who we are becoming.

Building on last season’s conversations about alignment, Patrice introduces what it means to move when life gives you a “pebble” instead of waiting for the rock or boulder. Throughout this season, she’ll explore love far beyond romance—from relationships, reciprocity, and governing decisions to how we care for our bodies, steward our money, honor our capacity, pursue our purpose, and trust God enough to release what no longer belongs. This is an invitation to love yourself enough to keep meeting who you are now—and to build a life that supports that version of you.

 

Questions to Ask Yourself:

Where have I been calling self-abandonment love, loyalty, or sacrifice?

What “pebble” have I already heard but haven’t trusted myself enough to honor?

What do I genuinely want now, apart from what I wanted years ago or what others expect of me?

Where am I over-giving, shrinking, staying silent, or abandoning myself to keep the peace?

What would it look like to love others deeply without leaving myself behind?

 

Want to Redefine Wealth for Yourself? Start Here:

🧭 Take the 2-Minute Pillar Quiz to identify which pillar needs your attention in this season: https://patricewashington.com/quiz

📱 Join the FREE Redefining Wealth App (community, book club, and weekly LIVE sessions with Patrice): https://patricewashington.com/redefining-wealth-app/

💛 Explore Pillar Mastery: https://pillarmastery.com

🎓 Join the Waitlist to The Institute for Redefining Wealth: https://redefiningwealth.institute/

Resources Mentioned: 

Redefining Wealth LIVE: www.redefiningwealthlive.com - where purpose-driven individuals come together to gain clarity, alignment, and momentum in creating lives that truly reflect their values. If you’re ready to break free from default thinking and step into a more fulfilled, abundant life, don’t miss this event.

📘 Download the Six Pillars Cheat Sheet: https://patricewashington.com/6pillars