Babes, welcome to No Deep Dives, where we journey through life’s biggest (and smallest) questions with just enough depth to inspire—without the analysis paralys...
I don’t know if you can ever really prepare for a significant perspective shift in a way that self-indulgent self development makes it feel. The whole time you’re working towards being better, remembering what it’s like to be in a body you’ve never left.
I love when an online scroll bears fruit. I saw a video from a TikTok creator called Beyond Codependant who shares their matrix of people pleasing. WHICH INVOLVES MORE ARCHETYPES OF PEOPLE PLEASERS. SO COOL.
There’s the people manager, the caretaker, the matcher, and of course, the classic people pleaser. In exploring how these roles show up in relationships, it’s reminding me why it’s important to get to know your faves deeply. Not scripting through the relationship. And because you know I love it, I also tie it all into astrology — especially the 11th house — to explain how your sign and modality can influence your social dynamics.
In the spirit of sharing, I’ll also open up about my own experiences with setting boundaries, managing relationships, and the power of being self-aware. It’s like a cosmic roadmap to healthier connections, with a little DIY fashion inspiration thrown in. ✨💫
Listen immediately and tell your friends to tell a friend ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
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Timestamps
00:00 mexico flex speaking
00:46 four types of pleaser
01:54 why do you have boundaries
06:39 zodiac vs. society
18:01 the pleaser’s dilemma
32:44 exercise the fast fashion demons
35:19 miss you dearly
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35:43
uh oh the glimmers and emotional residue
In the most dramatic way possible (and without having read the book or watched the movie) i understand the eat, pray, love lady. Seeing new places changes you from the INSIDE OUT. ALSO IM RECORDING THIS FROM FRIDA KAHLO’s HOME TOWN AHHH!!!! Coyoacán, Mexico City! 🌞✨ There’s really something about those cosmic nudges that keep showing up (hello, synchronicities!), reminding you that there is a magical art to being self aware. Or at least aware of your experiences as you’re experiencing them. Also, who was going to tell me how you can your emotions to MAKE decisions not just a tool to REFLECT on decisions already made???? They’re basically your personal GPS for making better life choices.
I’m recognising that paying attention to the small, sparkly moments can actually guide you toward a more intentional, values-driven lifestyle. Ofcourse I’ve imbued this episode with a perfect combination of astrology insights, lived lessons from my own experiments to live with more purpose. It's like a cosmic treasure map, but way more fun. ✨🗺
Until next time!
Timestamps
00:00 im falling in love
02:17 awareness (it’s always been you)
09:08 not “just” angel numbers
14:40 glimmer glee & nudge navigation
22:28 feeling as you feel it
31:34 synchronicities are following me around the world?
35:08 final thoughts until we meet again
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39:52
you’re not normal (everybody can tell)
Normalcy? In 2024? Are you sure? I’m trying to unpack how niche behaviours, trends and belief systems have exploded into the mainstream, making everything feel ‘normal’ and yet totally strange at the same time. Australians online are becoming hyper aware and paranoid of cool in a way that feels uncharacteristically American.
We’ll also dive into the mental gymnastics of trying to be aware of what is popular and important to people (thus cool) and the ever shifting standards. Also!! Didn’t Carl Jung teach us about individuation for a reason. The belief that knowing and celebrating the chosen self is far more important than confirming.
Timestamps
00:00 intro + iphone notes
01:30 the elusive concept of normalcy
02:43 Australian coolness and American takeover
06:09 the sisyphean pursuit of normal and cool
15:32 don’t deny what is happening in the shadows
17:49 light + shadow = individuation
24:02 creative practices and wrapping up
Links
Carl Jung Shadow Work
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24:49
clock into your internal world please
Ok, hold on tight because in this episode we’re getting intimate with this sometimes strange concept of ‘doing the work’! Examining through various lenses including philosophy, personal growth & astrology (naturally).
Posing the question - how profound can our daily routines and disciplined efforts be in our lives? We’re getting juicy as we delve into philosophies like Carl Jung’s shadow work, Brene Brown and more!
Dipping into vibes of the Sixth and Tenth Houses in astrology we reflect on how these houses are all about mastering yourself, giving back, and shining in the public eye. We’ll chat about how to juggle your everyday tasks while staying true to your bigger goals, shake off old biases, and break free from what society expects. It’s all about boosting self-awareness and making real, meaningful changes in your life!
Timestamps
00:00 it’s me again
00:33 what even is doing the work
04:17 what we do in the shadows; Shadow Work and Self-Examination
07:51 therapeutic and healing work
14:55 perfecting the process; thank you sixth house
21:43 hello tenth house giving us every day maintenance
24:21 the essence of Leo in the sixth house
24:40 is it what’s inside that counts? Balancing validation and internal work
27:00 the natural zodiac and sixth house rulership
28:34 the sixth house is deep
31:57 Mercury's influence on the sixth house
33:29 let’s get to understand the tenth house
35:16 GO TIME: Societal Expectations vs Personal Ambitions
40:44 we love synergising energies in the Birth Chart
41:59 shadow work journal prompts
42:52 you know where to find me
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43:13
unpaid interning in my mental prison
I love being a statistic. Mindfulness and routines are actually working for me. As in, I don’t wake up with a pit in my chestgood and a looming sense of Iike that later is validated by the horror’s on my timeline. Who knew that structure can equal freedom, they should teach us this in school , or maybe they did & I wasn’t listening! I’m chatting about some of the things that make up my regular routines, yoga, massages, and morning pages. I’ll break down the sticky, tricky world of discipline and how those vexatious thought loops can hold us back. I’ll also share some thoughts on why traditional talk therapy might not tackle the bigger picture.
With a sprinkle of wisdom from the Gita and my counselling studies, I’ll talk about syncing your values with your actions, consciously uncoupling from overthinking, and making choices that help you grow. As always, astrology is linked to EVERYTHING so you can hear all about how the sixth house connects to this discussion. This episode really has it all, listen immediately!
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Timestamps
00:00 sweetie pies, it’s me
01:13 talk therapy woes
04:34 neoliberal influence on self-optimisation
07:13 I feel so ME with my somatic and daily routines
14:43 action vs. intellectualising
17:11 soft muscles = emotional growth
21:12 getting out of your mind to get into yourself; breaking intellectual thought loops
23:47 taming perfectionism and self-doubt
25:11 action vs. inaction: lessons from the Gita
28:09 the pleasure of simple mindfulness practices: disrupting the mental loop
31:32 bridging the knowing and the doing through embodied values
32:25 final thoughts and farewell, miss you dearly
Babes, welcome to No Deep Dives, where we journey through life’s biggest (and smallest) questions with just enough depth to inspire—without the analysis paralysis. I’m Flex, best-selling author and decade-long internet thinker, here to unpack the things we all wonder about but don’t always have answers for.
This is where intuition meets intention, blending philosophy, psychology, astrology, self-discovery, and those cosmic nudges that help you decode the art of living mindfully. For ruminators, seekers, and anyone ready to embrace life’s synchronicities, this podcast won’t solve everything—but it’ll help you see the magic in each moment. Think of it as your personal GPS for navigating life’s twists with purpose.
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