381: Rejection, Abandonment & Building More Confidence
In today’s episode, we’re digging into the real story behind rejection, abandonment, and the confidence it takes to shut down the negative narratives trying to shape your life.I share how my dad’s early years were marked by abandonment and self-rejection—and how everything changed when he met Jesus. I was raised in love and safety, but that same generational thread still tried to attach itself to my story.If you’ve ever felt like you’re fighting patterns you didn’t choose… this conversation is for you.What we cover:Why rejection and abandonment often feel “normal” in our thoughtsThe moment I realized those same narratives were knocking on my doorHow generational patterns try to repeat themselvesThe choice we all face when negative thoughts show upWhat it looks like to reject self-abandonment and stay connectedHow God actively orchestrates healing, confidence, and freedomConnect with Havilah:✨ havilahcunnington.com — Explore Havilah’s books, Bible studies, and upcoming events.📚 truthtotable.com — Join our free studies, online courses, and Truth Academy community.🎙️ havilahsauthorschool.com — Ready to write your book? Join Havilah’s Author School and get the clarity, structure, and support you need to finally finish your manuscript.
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380: God’s Voice is Calling You Forward
God’s voice doesn’t just speak to your present—it calls you from your future. He already sees the life He designed for you, and He’s inviting you to step into it.What does it look like to live a life you actually want to wake up to? How might unprocessed grief or disappointment be holding you back from pursuing your God-given dreams? In this episode, Havilah unpacks the power of Spirit-led living and how to partner with the future God has already written for you.Ask yourself:→ What is my future self trying to tell me?→ When I leave this earth, will I know I’ve fulfilled my God-given potential?It’s time to rise up, shake off the past, and move toward the future He’s calling you into.Stay Connected + Explore More:✨ havilahcunnington.com — Explore Havilah’s books, Bible studies, and upcoming events.📚 truthtotable.com — Join our free studies, online courses, and Truth Academy community.🎙️ havilahsauthorschool.com — Ready to write your book? Join Havilah’s Author School and get the clarity, structure, and support you need to finally finish your manuscript.
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379. Preaching Like You're In It For The Long Haul | The Art of Preaching
This week, I’m wrapping up our series on The Art of Preaching by talking about something that’s so close to my heart: sustainable preaching. After almost 30 years of ministry, I’ve learned that it’s not just about having a great message—it’s about protecting the rhythm of your life so you can last for the long haul. In this episode, I share practical ways to guard your energy, keep your connection with the Holy Spirit fresh, and even raise up others to carry the message with you. If you’ve ever felt the weight of burnout or wondered how to keep preaching with passion decade after decade, this conversation is for you!!
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378. Preaching Like It Matters | The Art of Preaching
This week on the podcast, I’m diving into what it really looks like to preach like it matters. After decades of communicating, I’ve realized how easy it is to fall into patterns and lose that sense of urgency and purpose. But when I sat with a pastor in Brazil who said, “I preach every message like it’s my last,” it stirred something in me. In this episode, I’m sharing the practical ways we can bring clarity, structure, and conviction to our messages so they actually transform lives—not just inspire in the moment. If you’ve been preaching for a while or are looking for fresh fire in your communication, this one’s for you.
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377. Preaching Like You're Not Afraid | The Art of Preaching
On this episode, I’m talking all about what it looks like to preach without fear. If you’ve ever found yourself holding back because you’re worried about what people might think, or editing your message to make it safer, you’re not alone—I’ve been there too. But the truth is, fear dulls our words and keeps us from carrying the authority God has given us. In this episode, I share my own journey of learning that boldness isn’t about volume or personality—it’s about obedience. My hope is that as you listen, you’ll feel both challenged and encouraged to bring your whole heart to the pulpit and trust God with the rest.Check out Havilah’s Preacher School - https://havilahspreacherschool.com/Learn more and connect with Havilah: + Havilah's Site: http://havilahcunnington.com + Truth to Table: http://truthtotable.com + Truth Academy: https://thetruthacademy.com/
Welcome to Havilah’s Podcast where we're breaking the mold, shaking things up, and keeping it real! As a full-time minister for over two decades, women’s pastor at Bethel Church, and the heart behind Truth to Table, Havilah's got some serious truth bombs to drop. Get ready for real talk on life, family, relationships, ministry and more - no fluff, just truth. Brace yourself for laughter, blush-worthy moments, and plenty of ""hey, same here!"" revelations.
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