Listen To Your Footsteps

When Ringo Madlingozi lost his mother, his grief led him to an uncomfortable realisation: he had never truly asked his sons how losing their own mothers had felt.
In Episode 150 of Listen To Your Footsteps, recorded at Sony Music Africa in Johannesburg, Kojo Baffoe sits down with the Afro-soul icon and his sons, singer and actor Phila Madlingozi and ThandaMusic. Their EP, Uthando Ngundoqo (Love Is Essential), grew from a simple instruction from father to sons: talk to your mother. Say what you would say if she were here.
This is a conversation about family, inheritance and the everyday work of love. You will hear:
How one father became "the thread" holding together children from different mothers and different cities
On being treated as "the celebrity kid", and dreading father's visits because he knew Ringo would leave again
Finding your own voice when people hear you as "hip hop Ringo"
Three distinct definitions of love: a responsibility, a charge, and the feeling of being complete
Why recording the songs felt like therapy, and what they hope the EP offers anyone carrying their own grief

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In this special episode of Listen to Your Footsteps from 2025, host Kojo Baffoe becomes the guest and Melanie Bala the host. From a devastating injury that ended his Olympic dreams to the last words he shared with his father, these ten moments trace a life built on resilience, identity, and the quiet trust that the universe has you.
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Ntosh Madlingozi has never wanted children. Some people, he reflects, have children because they grew up without a father, and that is how they heal. "So the only way I could heal myself," he says, "was to be a great father to myself."
In this episode of Listen To Your Footsteps, Kojo Baffoe sits down with the South African stand-up comedian and actor for an unhurried conversation about self-knowledge, independence and the path that led him to comedy. Raised in his great-grandmother's house in KwaZakhele, Port Elizabeth, where "there was always laughter", Ntosh studied marketing, worked at an independent record label and spent two years in financial services before an open-mic night in Norwood in 2004 showed him where he belonged.

You'll hear him discuss:
Choosing not to have children, and the people who question that choice
Why he wants to be a more present uncle
How his comedy became fulfilling once it became personal
Stepping back from film and television over pay and working conditions
Working outside comedy cliques and on his own terms

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Singer, songwriter, and activist Simphiwe Dana sits down with host Kojo Baffoe to reflect on the moments that shaped her life and two-decade career. From childhood freedom by a river in Butterworth, to the night a friend unknowingly led her to the rest of her life, to the grief she still carries - this compilation of memorable moments explores purpose, vulnerability, and the spiritual weight of music.
Simphiwe speaks candidly about taking the biggest risk of her life, navigating fame as an introvert, raising children while recording her first album, and why she refuses to let artists die poor. It ends where she stands now — at the precipice of something new.
To hear the full conversation, listen to Listen to Your Footsteps Episode 84 - Simphiwe Dana, Raising Voice, Raising Children, Raising Spirit - wherever you get your podcasts.

What happens when the life you build refuses to follow a pattern?

South African writer, creative consultant, talent manager and producer Mahlatse James joins Kojo Baffoe for a conversation about fashion, identity and finding your way through a creative life.

From growing up in Lebowakgomo and attending school in Polokwane to navigating Johannesburg’s fashion and media spaces, Mahlatse reflects on learning to adapt without always knowing what comes next. He shares how conversations opened doors to writing and styling, what launching Lucky Boy Clothing taught him, and why a five-year plan could never have predicted the person he would become.

Together, Mahlatse and Kojo explore the versions of ourselves we bring into different rooms, the friendships that change as we grow, and the tension between creative enjoyment and earning a living. There is also a spirited exchange about personal style, familiar clothes and the possibility of finding more things that work.

As the questions begin travelling in both directions, the conversation becomes as much about how we live as what we do.

In this episode:

Growing up between different social worlds and learning to belong.
Building a creative career through relationships and unexpected opportunities.
Fashion writing, personal style and the lessons of Lucky Boy Clothing.
Working with image-makers and producing commercials.
Writing for money, changing media models and the value of reputation.
Returning to study and making room for another version of yourself.

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