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- Today, Heart of Dating coach Jayme Vainer breaks down the key differences between red flags, deal breakers, and non-negotiables in Christian dating, and shares how understanding these transformed her own journey to engagement!
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Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices - Today, Coach Michael walks us through how compassionate attunement can transform the way we show up in dating and singleness, offering practical steps and encouragement for navigating emotional pain with care and connection!
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Join the School of Dating Waitlist NOW! https://www.heartofdating.com/the-school-of-dating
Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching
Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz
Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating
Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating
Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw
Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest
Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library
Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:
https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ
Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!
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SEEDS: Download the free SEEDS app and take one small step today: plant your first seed and see what God can grow.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices - Today we’re diving into the basics of feminine energy with Alana Gibson as she unpacks what it really means, shares biblical foundations, and gives practical tips for embracing it in your dating life!
Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching
Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz
Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating
Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating
Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw
Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest
Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library
Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:
https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ
Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!
https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast
Come hang with us on the gram:
http://instagram.com/heartofdating
http://instagram.com/kaitness
https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en
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SEEDS: Download the free SEEDS app and take one small step today: plant your first seed and see what God can grow.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices - Today we’re diving into the three tiers of theological differences in dating, as JJ and Kait Tomlin unpack how to navigate convictions, preferences, and deal breakers when you and your partner don’t see eye to eye.
Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching
Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz
Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating
Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating
Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw
Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest
Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library
Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:
https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ
Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!
https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast
Come hang with us on the gram:
http://instagram.com/heartofdating
http://instagram.com/kaitness
https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en
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Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices - Today we’re diving into spiritual leadership in dating as we unpack what it really looks like in relationships, the red flags to watch out for, and how servant leadership changes the game!
Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching
Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz
Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating
Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating
Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw
Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest
Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library
Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:
https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ
Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!
https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast
Come hang with us on the gram:
http://instagram.com/heartofdating
http://instagram.com/kaitness
https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en
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Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?
We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.
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About Heart of Dating
The purpose of this podcast, Heart of Dating, is to unmask the ever-so-ambiguous world of dating in the Christian world. While there are resources spread out over the years, there are not many centralized areas where Christians can access dating advice, help, and guidance easily and in a fashion that is accessible. The ultimate hope is that Heart of Dating Podcast will start a healthy conversation for men and women and provide wise input and direction as we answer some tough questions and uncover some transformative ways to develop a healthy attitude and approach to dating as a Christian.
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