Heart of Dating

Today we're digging into the myth of instant chemistry as Kait and JJ unpack why moderate attraction matters, challenge Disney-style romance expectations, and share stories (including their own) about how attraction can genuinely grow over time!

Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching

Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz

Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating

Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:

https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest

Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library

Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

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Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!

https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast

Come hang with us on the gram:

http://instagram.com/heartofdating

http://instagram.com/kaitness

https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

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Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

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Explore emotional healing, forgiveness, and understanding attachment styles that influence your dating choices. It’s time to reset what you’re attracted to and open your heart to a new kind of relationship.

Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching

Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz

Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating

Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:

https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest

Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library

Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!

https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast

Come hang with us on the gram:

http://instagram.com/heartofdating

http://instagram.com/kaitness

https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

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A quick thank you to one of our friends!

Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

http://compassion.com/heartofdating

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Today we’re diving into the big question of whether women should initiate in Christian dating as JJ and Kait break down biblical perspectives, cultural shifts, and practical advice for making the first move!

Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching 

Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz

Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating  

Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:

https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest 

Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!

https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast 

Come hang with us on the gram:

http://instagram.com/heartofdating

http://instagram.com/kaitness

https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

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Check out this week's sponsor:

Better Help: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HOD and get on your way to being your best self.

. . . . . 

A quick thank you to one of our friends!

Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

http://compassion.com/heartofdating

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Today’s episode dives deep into the realities of the Christian dating scene, unpacking why quality men may feel scarce, exploring shifts in church attendance, and offering hope, challenge, and compassion to singles navigating modern relationships.

Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching 

Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz

Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating  

Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:

https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest 

Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!

https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast 

Come hang with us on the gram:

http://instagram.com/heartofdating

http://instagram.com/kaitness

https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

Interested in advertising on this show? Learn more here! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/16V_c91F1iIYNZOVvrEinrB9h2dsZq-kZFqYYEDQ4A60/viewform?edit_requested=true 

. . . . . 

A quick thank you to one of our friends!

Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

http://compassion.com/heartofdating
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Today we’re diving into the gray zone of Christian dating, tackling whether dating apps are too worldly and breaking down the real pros and cons of online dating for those seeking godly relationships!

Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching 

Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz

Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating  

Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:

https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest 

Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!

https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast 

Come hang with us on the gram:

http://instagram.com/heartofdating

http://instagram.com/kaitness

https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

Interested in advertising on this show? Learn more here! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/16V_c91F1iIYNZOVvrEinrB9h2dsZq-kZFqYYEDQ4A60/viewform?edit_requested=true 

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Check out this week's sponsor:

Better Help: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HOD and get on your way to being your best self.

. . . . . 

A quick thank you to one of our friends!

Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

http://compassion.com/heartofdating
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