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  • Heart of Dating

    S18 E301: Emotionally Intelligent vs Emotionally Healthy

    2026/07/29 | 43 mins.
    Today we’re diving into the difference between emotional intelligence and emotional health, why this distinction is critical for dating, and how to spot the traits that really matter for healthy relationships!

    Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching

    Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz

    Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating

    Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

    Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest

    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library

    Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

    https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

    Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast

    Come hang with us on the gram:

    http://instagram.com/heartofdating

    http://instagram.com/kaitness

    https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

    Interested in advertising on this show? Learn more here! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/16V_c91F1iIYNZOVvrEinrB9h2dsZq-kZFqYYEDQ4A60/viewform?edit_requested=true

    . . . . .

    A quick thank you to one of our friends!

    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

    http://compassion.com/heartofdating
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  • Heart of Dating

    S18 Ep300: How Do You Know When to Stop Trying With Someone?

    2026/07/22 | 24 mins.
    Today we break down the main reasons we stay in unhealthy relationships, from dating for potential to the sunk cost fallacy, and give practical questions to help you know when it’s time to move on!

    Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching

    Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz

    Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating

    Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

    Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest

    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library

    Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

    https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

    Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast

    Come hang with us on the gram:

    http://instagram.com/heartofdating

    http://instagram.com/kaitness

    https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

    Interested in advertising on this show? Learn more here! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/16V_c91F1iIYNZOVvrEinrB9h2dsZq-kZFqYYEDQ4A60/viewform?edit_requested=true

    . . . . .

    A quick thank you to one of our friends!

    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

    http://compassion.com/heartofdating

    Check out the transcript!!: https://docs.google.com/document/d/16WAGp3C0exLxzi7WuEtbf66A7ZduwHtt0E_FFxuANBM/edit?usp=sharing
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  • Heart of Dating

    S18 E299: But What If I'm Not Attracted?

    2026/07/15 | 31 mins.
    Today we're digging into the myth of instant chemistry as Kait and JJ unpack why moderate attraction matters, challenge Disney-style romance expectations, and share stories (including their own) about how attraction can genuinely grow over time!

    Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching

    Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz

    Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating

    Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

    Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest

    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library

    Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

    https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

    Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast

    Come hang with us on the gram:

    http://instagram.com/heartofdating

    http://instagram.com/kaitness

    https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

    Interested in advertising on this show? Learn more here! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/16V_c91F1iIYNZOVvrEinrB9h2dsZq-kZFqYYEDQ4A60/viewform?edit_requested=true

    . . . . .

    A quick thank you to one of our friends!

    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

    http://compassion.com/heartofdating

    . . . . .
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
  • Heart of Dating

    Heal the Part of You That Keeps Choosing the Wrong People

    2026/07/10 | 9 mins.
    Explore emotional healing, forgiveness, and understanding attachment styles that influence your dating choices. It’s time to reset what you’re attracted to and open your heart to a new kind of relationship.

    Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching

    Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz

    Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating

    Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

    Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest

    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library

    Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

    https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

    Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast

    Come hang with us on the gram:

    http://instagram.com/heartofdating

    http://instagram.com/kaitness

    https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

    Interested in advertising on this show? Learn more here! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/16V_c91F1iIYNZOVvrEinrB9h2dsZq-kZFqYYEDQ4A60/viewform?edit_requested=true

    . . . . .

    A quick thank you to one of our friends!

    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

    http://compassion.com/heartofdating

    . . . . .
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
  • Heart of Dating

    S18 E298: Should Women Make the First Move?

    2026/07/08 | 35 mins.
    Today we’re diving into the big question of whether women should initiate in Christian dating as JJ and Kait break down biblical perspectives, cultural shifts, and practical advice for making the first move!

    Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching 

    Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz

    Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating  

    Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating

    Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw

    Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest 

    Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

    https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

    Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

    https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ

    Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast 

    Come hang with us on the gram:

    http://instagram.com/heartofdating

    http://instagram.com/kaitness

    https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

    Interested in advertising on this show? Learn more here! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/16V_c91F1iIYNZOVvrEinrB9h2dsZq-kZFqYYEDQ4A60/viewform?edit_requested=true 

    . . . . . 

    Check out this week's sponsor:

    Better Help: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HOD and get on your way to being your best self.

    . . . . . 

    A quick thank you to one of our friends!

    Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

    We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

    http://compassion.com/heartofdating

    . . . . . 
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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About Heart of Dating
The purpose of this podcast, Heart of Dating, is to unmask the ever-so-ambiguous world of dating in the Christian world. While there are resources spread out over the years, there are not many centralized areas where Christians can access dating advice, help, and guidance easily and in a fashion that is accessible. The ultimate hope is that Heart of Dating Podcast will start a healthy conversation for men and women and provide wise input and direction as we answer some tough questions and uncover some transformative ways to develop a healthy attitude and approach to dating as a Christian.
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