9 Proven Tips to Finding the One from Top Love Scientist (+ How To Navigate Modern Dating & Relationships)
In today’s episode, I’m joined by the brilliant Logan Ury—behavioral scientist, dating coach, and author of How to Not Die Alone. We dive deep into the messy and sometimes painfully confusing world of modern dating. From the myths that keep us single to the science-backed truths about real lasting connection, Logan shares tons of actionable advice.
We chat about how vulnerability and timing play crucial roles in finding a great match, why dating apps feel so overwhelming, what people think they want versus what actually leads to a long-term partnership, her “Three Dating Tendencies” framework, and how to stop self-sabotaging when it comes to finding your forever person. Whether you’re single and swiping, newly partnered, or just relationship-curious, this conversation is packed with insights that will totally reframe how you approach dating, relationships, and yourself.
We will also be discussing the romantic comedy movie that just came out: The Materialist. If you don’t want to hear spoilers about the movie’s ending, stop listening when Liz gives a heads-up—around 44:40 on Spotify video or after the second ad break on Apple audio—and come back after you’ve seen it to hear Liz's and Logan’s different hot takes!
In this episode, we get into:
How to date like a scientist
Finding your true deal-breakers
Emotional intelligence & dating
Money & dating
Predictors of long-term success
The stress test
Physical expectations & dating
If love is enough
Modern masculinity & modern femininity
Relation shopping vs. relation shipping
Hot takes on the materialist movie
For more from Logan Ury, find her on Instagram @loganury or online at www.loganury.com to check out her newsletter and matchmaking services. Read her book, How To Not Die Alone.
Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz’s book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now!
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Formerly the Healthier Together Podcast.
This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.
The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 343.
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New Study: How Long It Takes To ACTUALLY Form A Habit (+ How To Make It Faster!)
How long does it truly take to form a lasting habit? I dive into a new, science-backed study and, let me tell you, the answer isn’t what you think. I share proven, actionable shortcuts to speed up habit formation in this episode jam packed with practical tips.
Whether you're struggling to adopt a new habit or looking to optimize your habit formation process, I promise this episode will give you the insights you need to succeed.
Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz’s book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now!
Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody or online at www.lizmoody.com. Subscribe to the substack by visiting https://lizmoody.substack.com/welcome.
To join The Liz Moody Podcast Club Facebook group, go to www.facebook.com/groups/thelizmoodypodcast.
This episode is brought to you completely free thanks to the following podcast sponsors:
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The Liz Moody Podcast cover art by Zack. The Liz Moody Podcast music by Alex Ruimy.
Formerly the Healthier Together Podcast.
This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.
The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 342.
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Design Your Dream Life: Habits For Wealth, Work, & Relationships You Won't Hear Anywhere Else
I’m joined by Raffi Grinberg who is the Co-Founder of The Constructive Dialogue Institute (with Jonathan Haidt), an educator who created the wildly popular Adulting 101 course at Boston College, and an author who wrote How To Be A Grown Up, which was recommended by Oprah. We discuss juicy hacks on how to excel in life, in your career, in your relationships, with money, and so much more.
These tips and advice will change how you view yourself and the world in this super inspiring conversation. Raffi also shares the most comforting perspective I’ve heard if you’re feeling like the world today is getting more chaotic and scary.
In this episode, we get into:
Building a meaningful life
Relationship tips
An easy way to earn more money
Finding your best career
How to talk to people with different political views
Why you shouldn’t be afraid of AI
Networking hacks
Navigating a new dynamic with your parents
How to love rejection
For more from Raffi Grinberg, visit raffigrinberg.com. Check out Raffi Grinberg’s popular book, How to Be a Grown Up: The 14 Essential Skills You Didn’t Know You Needed (Until Just Now) .
Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz’s book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now!
Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody or online at www.lizmoody.com. Subscribe to the substack by visiting https://lizmoody.substack.com/welcome.
To join The Liz Moody Podcast Club Facebook group, go to www.facebook.com/groups/thelizmoodypodcast.
This episode is brought to you completely free thanks to the following podcast sponsors:
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The Liz Moody Podcast cover art by Zack. The Liz Moody Podcast music by Alex Ruimy.
Formerly the Healthier Together Podcast.
This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.
The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 341.
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4 Hacks That Finally Decreased My Screen Time—After Nothing Else Worked
Are you constantly checking your phone without even realizing it? In this powerful and personal episode, I’m diving deep into the addictive nature of screen time and how it quietly consumes our days—and our lives. You can expect practical tips (as always) to cut back on phone usage, my own screen time habits, how to track yours, and the simple but profound power of turning your phone off. Along the way, you’ll get a heartfelt story (trigger warning included) that will make you rethink how you spend your time.
Whether you're burned out, tired of the endless scroll, or just looking to be more present in your life, this episode offers gentle motivation and clear strategies to help you reconnect with what really matters—because your life is too precious to waste on a screen.
Check out the previous episodes of The Liz Moody Podcast discussed today:
Unlocking the Happiness Formula: How the Most Joyful People Manage Their Time With Cassie Holmes, PhD
How To Hack Your Dopamine To Stop Reaching For Your Phone & Experience More Pleasure With Dr. Anna Lembke
Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz’s book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now!
Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody or online at www.lizmoody.com. Subscribe to the substack by visiting https://lizmoody.substack.com/welcome.
To join The Liz Moody Podcast Club Facebook group, go to www.facebook.com/groups/thelizmoodypodcast.
This episode is brought to you completely free thanks to the following podcast sponsor:
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The Liz Moody Podcast cover art by Zack. The Liz Moody Podcast music by Alex Ruimy.
Formerly the Healthier Together Podcast.
This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.
The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 340.
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Chronic Disease Is On The Rise. Here’s Why + What We Can Do (MCAS, Long Covid, Autoimmune Disease, & More)
If you’ve felt like chronic illnesses are on the rise, you’re right. I’m joined by Michelle Shapiro, an integrative and functional registered dietitian, to dive into why this is happening, what we can do to prevent chronic illnesses and autoimmune diseases, how we can manage symptoms if we are ill with practical steps and tools, and what treatment options we should be exploring.
We also discuss the science of exactly what’s happening in our bodies and how our immune system, nervous system, diet, and environment are all connected.
In this episode, we get into:
The Rise of Chronic Diseases & Autoimmune Diseases
Managing Chronic Conditions
Treatment Options
Practical Advice for Managing Symptoms
Handling the “It’s All In Your Head” Skepticism
Long COVID, Mast Cell Activation Syndrome (MCAS), POTS, Hashimoto's Disease, Crohn's Disease, Parasites, Mold, SIBO, Candida, Leaky Gut, Hypermobility, & Histamine Issues
For more from Michelle Shapiro, find her on Instagram @michelleshapirord or online at https://michelleshapirord.com/. Check out her podcast, Quiet the Diet and her Highly Sensitive Body Hub discussed in the episode.
Brain retraining programs for chronic conditions mentioned in this episode from Michelle include the Gupta Program and the Primal Trust Program.
Ready to uplevel every part of your life? Order Liz’s book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success now!
Connect with Liz on Instagram @lizmoody or online at www.lizmoody.com. Subscribe to the substack by visiting https://lizmoody.substack.com/welcome.
To join The Liz Moody Podcast Club Facebook group, go to www.facebook.com/groups/thelizmoodypodcast.
This episode is brought to you completely free thanks to the following podcast sponsor:
LMNT: go to DrinkLMNT.com/LIZMOODY to get a free LMNT sample pack with any order.
The Liz Moody Podcast cover art by Zack. The Liz Moody Podcast music by Alex Ruimy.
Formerly the Healthier Together Podcast.
This podcast and website represents the opinions of Liz Moody and her guests to the show. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for information purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.
The Liz Moody Podcast Episode 339.
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The Liz Moody Podcast, hosted by bestselling author and longtime journalist Liz Moody, is a research-backed wellness podcast all about helping you live your healthiest, happiest life. Each week, Liz sits down with some of the world's best functional doctors, researchers, authors, journalists and various other leaders in their field to answer all of health and wellness questions you want to know. In a world where wellness information is everywhere, this podcast aims at cutting through the noise and finding out what actually works. Come along with Liz as she uncovers the unknown hacks, tips, and tricks you need to know for making a healthier life easier—topics include what to eat to fight disease, how to take control of your finances, tips for fighting anxiety and depression, productivity and career advice, advice for making friends as an adult, the best skincare routine elements, healthy cooking secrets, and so much more. To get even more info, head to lizmoody.com and come hang out on Instagram @lizmoody to enter giveaways!
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