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Rabbi Doron Perez on Courage, Zionism, and Holding Grief and Joy After October 7
In this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast with Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein, we interview Rabbi Doron Perez, executive chairman of World Mizrachi and president of the World Zionist Organization, about Jewish identity, Zionism, and faith after October 7. Perez describes his South African upbringing, growing observance, deep Zionist family ties, and making Aliyah twice. He argues anti-Zionism that denies Jewish self-determination “between the river and the sea” is a modern metamorphosis of antisemitism, while noting some opposition stems from ignorance, and stresses Jews must develop courage. He recounts how his sons Yonatan and Daniel fought at Nahal Oz; Yonatan was wounded and Daniel was killed on October 7 and taken hostage. He explains the family’s decision to proceed with Yonatan’s wedding while Daniel was missing, and his teachings on living with pain without escaping it, yearning as ongoing connection, authentic leadership, rejecting despair, and Daniel’s motto “Im lo ani, az mi?”

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Rachel’s Promise: An Evening of Music, Connection & Hope. This evening for women and girls is in honor of Rochel Imeinu’s Yahrzeit (11 Cheshvan). It features Rabbi Joey Haber, emcee Chani Gottlieb, Miriam Lakritz Susna, Koleinu, and Echoes.
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CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction
04:44 Doron Perez journey
12:14 What Zionism means
27:24 Courage and Nahal Oz
33:20 Rhodes Pesach promo
36:30 Wedding amid crisis
42:06 Holding grief and joy
47:28 Carrying Grief Forward
50:08 Yearning After Hope Ends
54:35 Yearning as Presence
58:15 Rochel Promise Event
59:43 Im Lo Ani Az Mi
01:09:24 Leading Through Pain
01:14:16 No Despair Only Hope
01:22:59 Wisdom to Live By
01:28:57 Final Blessings

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Avi & Sam Rosenfeld on Losing Their Son Natan in Gaza: Faith, Pride, and Choosing Light After October 7
In this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast with Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein, we talk to Avi and Sam Rosenfeld, who lost their son Natan, a combat engineer soldier killed in Gaza on June 29, and reflects on the rupture of Simchat Torah 2023 and October 7 for the Jewish people. They share Natan’s personality, aliyah from London to Israel when he was seven, and how his friends and community honor him through gatherings, stickers, Torah scrolls, naming newborns, and projects like a pergola in Yerucham and a flower gemach. Avi describes Natan’s death in an RPG incident that he views as involving miracles, and both parents discuss grief, resilience, and their differing relationships with emunah and Hashem, including ongoing struggle, simple faith, and gratitude. They explain why they would make aliyah again, support their son Zevi’s upcoming combat enlistment, and emphasize choosing light, doing good, and living fully in Natan’s memory.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction
04:32 Meeting the Rosenfelds
06:03 Birthdays After Tragedy
08:38 Natan Birthday Tribute
11:37 Keeping Home in Light
12:31 Aliyah and Service Pride
15:04 Holocaust to Jewish State
18:29 Who Natan Was
22:42 The Day Natan Fell
27:38 Avi Emunah Rollercoaster
34:52 Sam Simple Faith Path
38:44 Finding Gratitude in Tragedy
40:17 Faith and Daily Rituals
43:24 When Will We Dance Again
48:20 Community and Support Networks
53:42 Turning Pain Into Purpose
56:56 Choosing Light Over Darkness
01:00:05 Living Legacy Through Good Deeds
01:06:32 Lessons From Torah and Parsha
01:09:41 Live Like No Tomorrow
01:12:30 Life Is a Gift Farewell

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From the Inside Out: Rebbetzin Esti Hamilton on Emunah, Purpose, and Rosh Hashanah Clarity
In this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast with Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein, we share a Rosh Hashanah episode featuring Rebbetzin Esti Hamilton,  Esti recounts growing up in a Torah-teaching family, beginning to teach in Israel, and how her life changed when her first son, Daniel, was born profoundly disabled and hospitalized for two years, leading her to speak publicly about faith and to teach spiritual growth. She describes shifting from a transactional “spiritual slot machine” view of Hashem to a mature relationship, embracing paradigm shifts where circumstances may not change but perception does, and seeing purpose through hashgachah pratit and the holiness of the present. She discusses Rosh Hashanah as crowning Hashem rather than vidui, cultivating forgiveness, avoiding autopilot in mitzvot through kavanah, curating the “diet of the mind” with Torah learning, and offers practical tools from Mesilat Yesharim: awareness, holistic cheshbon hanefesh, and choosing one area to add intention.

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Esti Hamilton is an international speaker and Torah teacher whose own journey through faith and heartbreak — after her son Daniel was born with profound disabilities — has shaped 25 years of teaching women around the world on emunah and spiritual growth. For over 25 years, she has taught women around the world — from intimate shiurim to international stages — on emunah, spiritual growth, and what it really means to live a connected life. 
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CHAPTERS

00:00 Welcome & Elul Introduction
03:46 Meet Esti Hamilton
07:34 Her Son's Birth and a Crisis of Faith
12:50 The Transactional Faith Trap
20:47 A Paradigm Shift
26:05 Finding Your Tafkid
31:40 Learning to Accept, Learning to See
39:08 Crowning Hashem King on Rosh Hashanah
49:49 Bechira, Ego & Hard Choices
01:00:24 Forgiveness and Midos
01:08:45 Elul Soul Accounting
01:12:37 Purpose, Ratzon & Public Speaking
01:19:48 Turning Off Autopilot
01:27:04 Kotel Connection Stories
01:31:01 New Light for Rosh Hashanah & Asking for Clarity
01:36:38 Lost at Sea: Finding Your Compass
01:39:56 From Self Help to Transcendence
01:46:14 Tzedakah and Reward
01:52:39 Doing Enough? Spiritual Growth Tools
02:05:37 Closing Thoughts & Blessings

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Finding Meaning Through Viktor Frankl, Chabad Chassidus & Therapy
In this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast with Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein, we interview Rabbi Daniel Schonbuch, a therapist and author of "Viktor Frankl and the Psychology of the Soul," about integrating CBT, marriage/family therapy, Viktor Frankl’s logotherapy, and Chabad Chassidus. Schonbuch explains Frankl’s core idea that humans are driven by meaning, not pleasure or power, and outlines three ways to find meaning: purposeful work, love/experience, and changing one’s attitude when suffering can’t be avoided. He describes creating TorahPsychology.org, holding Hakhel conferences inspired by the Rebbe’s encouragement and a message sent to Frankl, and using a 30-day logotherapy workbook to reduce depression and anxiety. The conversation also covers shared meaning in marriage, rising divorce and estrangement, parenting tools (I=QR, connection/communication/reduced control), reflective listening, trauma and meaning, and incorporating Mitteler Rebbe  teachings and “Tracht gut vet zein gut.”
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Rabbi Daniel Schonbuch is a therapist, Chabad rabbi, and author who has spent decades helping individuals, couples, and families achieve emotional wellness by integrating psychological and spiritual principles. Trained in CBT, EMDR, and marriage and family therapy, he is best known for bringing Viktor Frankl's logotherapy — the psychology of meaning — into his clinical work, alongside the teachings of the Mitteler Rebbe and Chabad Chassidus. He is the founder of TorahPsychology.org, where he has trained thousands of coaches and counselors, and the author of several books, including At Risk: Never Beyond Reach, Think Good Will Be Good, and his newest work, Viktor Frankl and the Psychology of the Soul. Rabbi Schonbuch lives in Crown Heights and works with clients from all walks of life and faiths around the world.
You can find Rabbi Schonbuch and his books here: https://torahpsychology.org/about-us/

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CHAPTERS
00:00 – Intro & Meet Rabbi Daniel Schonbuch
00:03 – How a Rabbi Became a Psychologist
00:06 – Who Was Viktor Frankl? Freud, Adler & the Birth of Logotherapy
00:09 – The Three Ways to Find Meaning
00:13 – Why This Generation Needs Frankl More Than Ever
00:14 – Was Viktor Frankl Religious? The Rebbe's Hidden Message
00:20 – The Mitteler Rebbe's Techniques for Going Deeper in Therapy
00:23 – Marriage, Gottman & the Power of Shared Meaning
00:26 – The Real Crisis Behind Today's Teens: The 3 C's
00:36 – Why Marriages Are Falling Apart So Fast
00:38 – Finding Your "Why" in Marriage
00:45 – The Crisis of Meaning, By the Numbers
00:47 – Finding Meaning in Suffering
00:52 – Why Meaning Doesn't Have to Be Big
00:58 – Meeting Your Teen in Their World, Not Lecturing Them
01:05 – The Three Tools That Changed His Career
01:14 – The Story of Yitzi Horwitz & Finding Chabad
01:22 – Think Good and It Will Be Good
01:29 – His Favorite Quote & Where to Find Him

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Somatic Healing, Emotional Safety & the 5 Foundations of Marriage | Miriam Racquel & Dovid Feldman
In this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast with Rivkah Krinsky and Eda Schottenstein, we welcome marriage helpers Miriam Racquel and Dovid Feldman, a Chabad couple who work with couples and individuals. They share their personal journey from meeting in college through different paths in Judaism, and how they now combine Dovid’s strength-based, solution-oriented therapy and 12-week Recreating Intimacy program with Miriam Racquel’s somatic mind-body healing. The conversation explores nervous system states in marriage, how to trust bodily signals while interpreting them wisely, and practical communication tools that avoid criticism and blame. They discuss rising divorce rates, social media’s anti-marriage bias, emotional regulation, “letting go” of expectations, emotional safety, receiving, and intimacy differences between men and women. They close with Torah- and Rebbe-based perspectives, quotes, and resources including their websites and books.

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Dovid Feldman
Dovid Feldman is a marriage coach and licensed therapist with over 30 years of experience — professionally and in his own marriage — helping couples rebuild trust, communication, and intimacy. His 12-week program works with each spouse individually and centers on his "five foundations of marriage": appreciation, communicating without criticism, compassionate listening, loving boundaries, and consistent intimacy. He hosts the "Building Great Marriages" podcast. Learn more at https://dovidfeldman.com/             

Miriam Racquel
Miriam Racquel is a somatic healer, marriage coach, and trauma & anxiety specialist who helps women access the wisdom of their body and intuition to create clarity, safety, and passion in their relationships. She's the author of "God Said What?!" and runs Your Marriage Magic, offering marriage and dating coaching for women. Learn more at https://www.miriamracquel.com/    

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CHAPTERS
00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro
04:06 Tzedakah Moment Pushka App
04:39 Meet Miriam and Dovid
05:24 Dovid Origin Story
07:28 Miriam Journey to Judaism
10:52 How They Work With Clients
13:08 Therapy Approach and Program
17:40 Somatics and Nervous System
20:55 Body Signals vs Interpretation
22:47 Everyday Trigger Example
27:45 Deep Patterns and Resentment
30:44 Why Divorce Rates Rising
32:46 Choosing Happiness in Marriage
37:03 Chuppah Doubts and Mind Stories
43:10 Why Receiving Feels Hard
43:25 Five Blocks to Receiving
44:50 Reopening After Hurt
46:59 Dating Like a Gentleman
47:58 Emotional Safety First
50:36 Five Foundations Begin
54:16 No Criticism Rule
55:15 Reframing Instead of Critique
58:05 Four Step Communication
01:04:28 Repeat Requests Without Nagging
01:08:58 Letting Go Expectations
01:13:02 Intimacy Story Let Go
01:18:01 When Traits Annoy You
01:18:41 Why Criticism Creates Distance
01:19:37 Reframing Differences as Growth
01:20:37 War Survivor to Baal Chessed
01:24:39 Five Foundations That Work
01:26:13 Tools Therapy and Their Books
01:29:05 Torah Advice for Newlyweds
01:32:31 Soulmate Mindset and Regulation
01:34:31 What Men and Women Long For
01:40:39 Intimacy Needs and Scheduling
01:46:27 Closing Quotes and Hope
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