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Dr. John Delony on Anxiety, Marriage, and Turning Insight into Action
In this episode of From The Inside Out Podcast with Rivkah and Eda, we welcome Dr. John Delony to discuss how lasting change requires action, not just insight. Delony connects his approach to lessons from his father, a homicide detective and hostage negotiator who moved toward crisis, and his mother, who began college at 42 and earned a PhD at 57. He argues anxiety is an internal alarm system and that money, anger, and relationship problems often signal deeper issues beneath surface labels. Delony critiques cultural narratives that prioritize feelings and overload romantic partners amid widespread loneliness, urging couples to build friendship, service, and practical “repair” strategies. He recommends choosing reality through honest inventories, building trusted connections (including “outsourcing” perspective to reliable people), and prioritizing health, sleep, and faith. The episode includes sponsorship messages for Colel Chabad’s Pushka app and Shefa Living’s Mountain View community.
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Colel Chabad
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Shefa Living
If you’ve been craving more space, more calm, and more community, Mountain View by Shefa Living is a master-planned Frum community in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina, designed for families who want a slower, more connected pace of life. As shared in the episode, the vision includes community infrastructure like a shul, mikvah, women’s wellness center, and a K–12 yeshiva—all built around wholesome, joyful Torah living. Learn more (and explore whether it’s a fit for your family) at ShefaLiving.com.
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Dr. John Delony
Dr. John Delony is a bestselling author, mental health expert, and one of today’s most trusted voices on anxiety, emotional wellness, and marriage. Known for his blend of clinical depth and straight-talk clarity, he helps people understand anxiety as an internal alarm system—and teaches practical, relationship-saving tools for building emotional safety, connection, and real change. In this conversation, Dr. Delony brings both wisdom and humility as we unpack the patterns underneath stress and conflict, and what it actually looks like to stop outsourcing our emotions and start showing up with intention in our closest relationships.
You can find John and hear more of his wisdom here: https://www.instagram.com/johndelony
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