From a Girl's Girl

We’re often told that when something painful happens, we must immediately find meaning. To stay positive. To believe everything happens for a reason. But what if asking “why me?” isn’t a lack of faith...what if it’s honesty?
In this episode, I open up about my recent painful health journey and the emotional toll of uncertainty. I talk about illness, unanswered questions, and the quiet pressure to be strong, grateful, and hopeful when your body and mind are overwhelmed.
I explore how toxic positivity can make pain heavier, why constantly searching for meaning can feel invalidating, and how acceptance is not the same as giving up. This conversation isn’t about turning suffering into a lesson; it’s about allowing yourself to be human.
If you’ve ever felt guilty for struggling, tired of being told to “just stay positive,” or stuck in a season that doesn’t make sense yet, this episode is for you. You don’t need answers right now. You don’t need to find the lesson. You’re allowed to sit with the questions.

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Happy New Year, guys!
In this episode I talk about old patterns, why they resurface, why you keep dating the same person, just different body and name, how these moments test our growth, and what healing really looks like in real life. I share my personal experiences with emotionally unavailable men, anxious attachment, and the moment I finally understood that attraction does not equal alignment.
This year isn't just about new goals and vision boards; it's also about new responses. Because if the year changes but the patterns don't, nothing really changes
Just because something or someone familiar shows up again doesn't mean you're meant to go back. Sometimes it's simply life asking you, "Do you still see yourself the same way?"
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December romance is often romanticised as fun and flirtatious, but for many, the festive season comes with anxiety, disappointment, ghosting, and hard relationship truths.
In this episode I unpack the realities of December romance: the unspoken rules, the festive personas we adopt, and why so many connections formed in December struggle to survive January. From premediated flings driven by fear of loneliness, to being the partner who doesn't get chosen for the holiday, this episode explores how scarcity mindset, alcohol, expectations, and festive pressure shape our dating decisions.
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We all know December has its own romantic ecosystem...LOL
Some people disappear from their relationships
Some get ghosted
Others prefer flings over anything serious
Some actually find love in December
Before I record the next episode on December Romance, I want to hear your do's and don'ts, your experiences, lessons, chaos, December drama, wisdom about December relationships and festive flings.
I'd love to hear from all sexualities, all genders, EVERYONE. Whether you are married, single, or in a long-term relationship, I want to hear your experiences.
You can submit your answers through IG stories (@fromagirlsgirl or @didi_masita) or TikTok stories (@didi_masita).
Your responses will be grouped into themes and shaped into a community-led episode.
Let's turn the last episode of the year into a mini "research study" together
RESPONSES WILL REMAIN CONFIDENTIAL

It's December! A whole lifestyle in South Africa, but before the vibes sweep us away, let's talk about why your 2026 goals should be set before January.
In this episode, I talk about why the best time to set your goals isn't January, it's right now. December comes with vibes, chaos, bonuses, and a whole lifestyle of its own, but it's also the month where we lose momentum without even realising it. I share how planning my year before January completely shifted my 2025, how my vision board came to life, and why strategy matters more than aesthetics.
Whether you had an amazing year or a painful one, this episode reminds you that your timeline is scared, your pace is valid, and you are not behind.