Q & A: Let's Build an Episode on December Romance, Flings, and the Do's and Don'ts Together
We all know December has its own romantic ecosystem...LOLSome people disappear from their relationshipsSome get ghostedOthers prefer flings over anything seriousSome actually find love in DecemberBefore I record the next episode on December Romance, I want to hear your do's and don'ts, your experiences, lessons, chaos, December drama, wisdom about December relationships and festive flings.I'd love to hear from all sexualities, all genders, EVERYONE. Whether you are married, single, or in a long-term relationship, I want to hear your experiences.You can submit your answers through IG stories (@fromagirlsgirl or @didi_masita) or TikTok stories (@didi_masita).Your responses will be grouped into themes and shaped into a community-led episode.Let's turn the last episode of the year into a mini "research study" togetherRESPONSES WILL REMAIN CONFIDENTIAL
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December is a Lifestyle, but your Goals Still Matter
It's December! A whole lifestyle in South Africa, but before the vibes sweep us away, let's talk about why your 2026 goals should be set before January. In this episode, I talk about why the best time to set your goals isn't January, it's right now. December comes with vibes, chaos, bonuses, and a whole lifestyle of its own, but it's also the month where we lose momentum without even realising it. I share how planning my year before January completely shifted my 2025, how my vision board came to life, and why strategy matters more than aesthetics. Whether you had an amazing year or a painful one, this episode reminds you that your timeline is scared, your pace is valid, and you are not behind.
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Build Yourself Before You Build with Him
Too many women give up their dreams, lower their standards, or lose themselves trying to be chosen by men. In this episode, I talk about the importance of building your identity, your dreams, and your foundation before you build with a man. From societal pressure to timelines, to women abandoning their goals for relationships, I explore why prioritising yourself isn't selfish, but necessary. I dive into self-worth, standards, financial independence, emotional grounding, and why being single is no longer seen as a "tragedy". It's a reminder that men are additions, not definitions, and that the life you build for yourself will always be your greatest power.
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Choosing Yourself in Friendships Too
We often talk about knowing our worth in romantic relationships, setting boundaries, walking away from mistreatment, and refusing to shrink ourselves just to be loved. But what happens when we forget to carry the same self-worth into our friendships?In this episode, I explore 'selective people pleasing' - when you've healed enough to have boundaries in relationships but still struggle to choose yourself in friendships. If you're tired of performing, overextending, or being the only one trying..this episode is for you. IG: fromagirlsgirl
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Being Wanted
Have you ever entertained someone you knew you weren't compatible with, just because it felt good to be wanted? Especially after a dry season where no one was pursuing or chasing you?In this episode, I unpack the intoxicating feeling of being desired and how the need for attention can lead us into place holder relationships. I talk about why attention feels like validation, how it can blur our judgment, and the emotional labour that comes from settling for someone who simply filled a dry season,IG: fromagirlsgirl
From a Girl's Girl is a self-love podcast for the girlies in their healing era, the girlies learning to love themselves, the girlies committed to becoming the best versions of themselves, and the girlies leveling up emotionally and mentally. Here the girlies are reminded of their worth and value. The podcast focuses on self-development, relationships, mental health, and self-love. The podcast is hosted by self-love advocate Modiehi Masita, known as Didi Masita, on the socials. Welcome to, From a Girl's Girl!
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