We often talk about knowing our worth in romantic relationships, setting boundaries, walking away from mistreatment, and refusing to shrink ourselves just to be loved. But what happens when we forget to carry the same self-worth into our friendships?In this episode, I explore 'selective people pleasing' - when you've healed enough to have boundaries in relationships but still struggle to choose yourself in friendships. If you're tired of performing, overextending, or being the only one trying..this episode is for you. IG: fromagirlsgirl
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Being Wanted
Have you ever entertained someone you knew you weren't compatible with, just because it felt good to be wanted? Especially after a dry season where no one was pursuing or chasing you?In this episode, I unpack the intoxicating feeling of being desired and how the need for attention can lead us into place holder relationships. I talk about why attention feels like validation, how it can blur our judgment, and the emotional labour that comes from settling for someone who simply filled a dry season,IG: fromagirlsgirl
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Chasing The Woman of Your Dreams
Remember when you were a little girl, and there was a woman you admired, maybe she lived in your neighbourhood, or maybe you saw her on TV. You admired her style, her career, the way she carried herself, and the life she created for herself. Looking at her, you saw a glimpse of your own future. Do you remember her, the woman of your dreams?Society often tells us a woman's true success is measured by whether she gets married or has children. So, many of us grow up chasing 'the man of our dreams' adjusting our behavior to fit what we think he would want or approve of. Along the way, we lose sight of the WOMAN OF OUR DREAMS; the version of ourselves we once imagined becoming. In this episode, I talk about how to reconnect with the vision of the woman of your dreams, and why it's time to chase her, instead of the man of your dreams IG: fromagirlsgirl
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It's Not Your Loss: Not Being Fought for Doesn't Mean You're Not Enough
When someone ghosts you, walks away, or doesn't fight to keep you in their life, it's easy to feel like you've taken a loss. You start questioning your worth, wondering what's wrong with you, and comparing yourself to people whose partners "fought for them". But the here's the truth: their lack of effort is not a reflection of your value. In this episode, I break down why not being fought for doesn't mean you're not enough, how social media fuels this false narrative, and how to reclaim you power when someone doesn't show up. It's not your loss...it's their loss.
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Is Emotional Safety a Real Thing?
Are emotional needs important in a relationship? In this episode I explore what emotional safety means, how it impacts intimacy, femininity, and self-worth. If you've ever felt unseen, unheard, or like you're walking on eggshells with your partner, this episode will help you understand why.
From a Girl's Girl is a self-love podcast for the girlies in their healing era, the girlies learning to love themselves, the girlies committed to becoming the best versions of themselves, and the girlies leveling up emotionally and mentally. Here the girlies are reminded of their worth and value. The podcast focuses on self-development, relationships, mental health, and self-love. The podcast is hosted by self-love advocate Modiehi Masita, known as Didi Masita, on the socials. Welcome to, From a Girl's Girl!
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