Come Curious

What does it actually mean to be a “better man” today?

This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by Jerry Xzeng for a powerful conversation about masculinity, identity, and the pressures men are facing right now.From the rise of red-pill culture to the quiet crisis of male loneliness and mental health, they unpack why so many men feel lost and what needs to change.

Jerry shares his personal journey growing up in a traditional household, how he’s redefined masculinity on his own terms, and why emotional accountability is at the heart of being a better partner, friend, and human.

They also explore:

– The impact of toxic online spaces on young men

– Cultural expectations and masculinity across different backgrounds

– Why awareness is the first step to change

– Rethinking responsibility in relationships (including Jerry’s decision to get a vasectomy)

This episode is honest, nuanced, and an essential listen for anyone thinking about what masculinity could - and should - look like today.

Come get curious 💫

online and check out his series on IG about Being a Better Man IG: @jerryxzeng

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Tickling… but make it kinky?

This week on Come Curious, Reed gets personal as she opens up about her own tickle fetish — what it is, how it feels, and why it’s so often misunderstood.

From the difference between kinks and fetishes to the shame that can come with desires we don’t always choose, this episode is all about destigmatising pleasure and owning what turns you on.

Reed dives into:
– What a tickle fetish actually is
– Why it can feel so intense (and confusing)
– The language of the community (lur, lee, switch 👀)
– How to find others safely
– Why consent and communication are EVERYTHING

Plus, how she’s building community through her own event Ticklethusiasm.
Check it out on IG ⁠@ticklethusiasm⁠ and get in touch if you're interested in coming along on 13th June. 

If you’ve ever felt unsure, curious, or a little ashamed of what turns you on - this one’s for you.

Come get curious 💫

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What does it actually mean to be a man in the kink scene?

This week on Come Curious, Reed is joined by Kryron Kruger - latex-loving, boundary-pushing content creator who’s redefining what it means to be a man in sex work. Together they unpack male etiquette in BDSM from communication and consent to performance pressure and what it really takes to show up respectfully in kink spaces.

Kyron shares how he found himself in the industry through fetish communities, why being a male sex worker is far more than just sex, and how emotional intelligence, trust, and reputation are everything.

Expect to hear ALL the juice on:
– Why men need to stop expecting people to read their minds
– The truth about performance anxiety (and why erections ≠ good sex)
– How to respectfully approach dominatrixes (and why your DMs aren’t it)
– The importance of serving your partner — even as a dom
– Breaking down shame around men, desire, and vulnerability

This episode is honest, eye-opening, and essential listening for anyone navigating kink, dating, or sex with more awareness.Follow Kyron on IG @the_kyron_kruger and see his latex loving side @king_kruger_

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This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed dive headfirst into your dirtiest, most unhinged, and secretly-held confessions — and let’s just say… we were not prepared.

From:

Golden showers & cum curiosities

CNC fantasies & breeding kinks

Sock fetishes & used shoe obsessions

Watching yourself back for pleasure

Fantasies that feel better than reality

And the question… are we all just a little bit queer?

We also get real about shame, desire, and where they collide and why your fantasies don’t define you (but they do deserve exploring).

Plus, Florence opens up about pregnancy, body changes, and feeling finally at home in her body - while Reed shares a very honest “get f*cked” about performative sex and Viagra culture.

This episode is chaotic, validating, shocking, and weirdly comforting because no matter how “dirty” your secret feels… you are definitely not alone.

Come get curious 💫

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Swiping, ghosting, endless chatting… and still no actual dates?

This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by Marsha Goei, co-founder of dating app Breeze, where love is worth the leap! We're talking no chat, just REAL dates.

Marsha tells us about why modern dating feels so exhausting — and how to actually get OFF the apps and back into real-life connection.

Breeze flips the script on traditional dating:

No endless messaging

Real dates organised for you

Safe, public locations

No time-wasting — just meet

We dive into why dating apps are leaving so many of us burnt out, how over-chatting can actually sabotage connection, and what happens when you skip straight to meeting in person.

Marsha also shares her best tips for dating success:

– How to build a profile that actually reflects you

– Why authenticity matters more than perfection

– The mindset shift that makes dating feel fun again

– How to stop treating dates like interviews

If you’re tired of swiping and ready for something real, this episode might just change the way you date.

Come get curious 💫

Breeze is available on all app stores

You can follow them on IG @breeze.social

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