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Confidence, Leadership & Belonging | The Lessons Every Woman Needs with Noel Roberts Coley
2026/07/15 | 59 mins.Do you ever feel like you've been making yourself smaller just to fit in? In this episode, I sit down with entrepreneur and Diamonds All-Stars founder Noel Roberts Coley to talk about the confidence, resilience, and self-worth every woman deserves. We dive into how embracing your uniqueness helps you attract the right people, why disappointment is one of life's greatest teachers, and the leadership lessons that come from building a business and mentoring young athletes. Noel also shares advice for parents, entrepreneurs, and anyone who wants to stop living for other people's approval. Get ready to own who you are, celebrate your growth, and confidently take up the space you were made for.
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HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 Meet Noel Roberts Coley, Founder and Owner of Diamonds All Stars.
06:45 How taking one day at a time helped Noel build a multimillion-dollar business.
08:30 The mindset shift every entrepreneur needs when business starts to feel overwhelming.
12:00 How remembering your "why" helps you reconnect with the business you love.
16:15 How do you create a space where people feel safe enough to become themselves?
20:15 Can quiet leaders be just as powerful as outspoken ones?
22:30 The parenting advice that helps kids discover who they really are.
29:00 How do you start a tough conversation?
31:15 How do you lead when you know not everyone will understand you?
34:15 The philosophy that transformed Noel's business from getting bigger to getting better.
37:30 The beautiful qualities women struggle to see in themselves.
38:30 The red lipstick story that completely changed Noel's confidence.
43:45 The "b*tch in the back" mindset that's keeping you from showing up fully.
47:30 The timeline trap that keeps so many women feeling behind in life.
51:00 How celebrating the little wins changes your perspective on life.
52:45 The self-worth mindset that helps women heal after heartbreak.
55:15 How do you raise confident kids in today's digital world?
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HIGHLIGHTS
Why podcast guesting can outperform social media as a sales channel.
The "trust transfer" strategy that helps audiences become buyers faster.
What separates podcast guests who make six figures from those who get no results.
Dan Martell's mindset shifts for taking action even when business feels hard.
Adley's simple hook strategy that instantly makes content more compelling.
Maria Wendt's advice for creating consistent leads with as little as $5/day in ads.
Why taking action immediately creates momentum and changes your future.
RESOURCES
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Apply for the Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE!
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Earn up to 4.30% APY with Wealthfront’s high-yield cash account for a limited time: https://wealthfront.com/earnThis experience may not be representative of other Wealthfront clients, and there is no guarantee of future performance or success. Experiences will vary. The host of Earn Your Happy podcast, Lori Harder (“Media Partner”), is not a client of Wealthfront. The Media Partner receives cash compensation from Wealthfront Brokerage for this paid endorsement placed in their podcast, creating a conflict of interest. More details available via the referral link. The Direct Deposit Plus Investing Program from Wealthfront Advisers LLC and Wealthfront Brokerage LLC provides eligible clients a 0.25% APY increase above the base APY on eligible Cash Account balances (up to an overall boosted rate of 4.30% for a limited time when including the three month 0.75% APY boost for new clients) when you direct deposit $1,000 a month, plus open, fund, and maintain an investing account. Wealthfront may change or end the program at any time and determine eligibility at its discretion. Terms apply. Full details at wealthfront.com/promo-terms.The Cash Account, which is not a deposit account, is offered by Wealthfront Brokerage LLC ("Wealthfront Brokerage"), Member FINRA/SIPC. Wealthfront Brokerage is not a bank. The Annual Percentage Yield ("APY") on cash deposits as of January 30, 2026, is representative, requires no minimum, and may change at any time. References to the APY for the Wealthfront Cash Account, including any APY increase, are to the APY paid by insured depository institutions that participate in our cash sweep program (the "Program Banks”). Wealthfront Brokerage does not pay interest. Wealthfront Brokerage sweeps cash balances to Program Banks, where they earn the variable APY.Same-day withdrawal or instant payment transfers may be limited by destination institutions, daily transaction caps, and by participating entities such as Wells Fargo, the RTP® Network, and FedNow® Service. New Cash Account deposits are subject to a 2-4 day holding period before becoming available for transfer. Fees & Eligibility requirements may apply to certain checking features. Investing involves risk, including the possible loss of principal. Securities investments are not bank deposits, bank-guaranteed or FDIC-insured, and may lose value. Product images are for illustrative purposes and do not reflect individual experiences, account balances, or performance. - Do you find yourself having the same arguments over and over with your partner, family member, friend, or business partner? In this episode, Chris and I share the rules of engagement that have helped us communicate better, resolve conflict faster, and remember we're on the same team during disagreements. We talk about the mindset shifts and tools that can help you move through conflict with less defensiveness, more understanding, and greater empathy. Tune in to learn how to handle conflict in a way that builds more trust, deeper connection, and healthier relationships.
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HIGHLIGHTS
The "1 to 10" scale that helps end unnecessary arguments.
Why taking a pause can completely change the outcome of a conflict.
How the "same team" mindset strengthens every relationship.
The question that helps you understand instead of criticize.
Why ownership statements are more effective than blame.
The 5-minute listening exercise that helps both people feel heard.
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Follow glōci: @getgloci - Have you ever felt like your offer is great, but your marketing just isn't converting? In this episode, I sit down with marketing strategist Melissa Dlugolecki to share the messaging shifts that help businesses stand out, attract the right clients, and convert more consistently. We talk about why clarity beats cleverness, how to speak in the language your audience understands, and why more traffic won't fix confusing marketing. Melissa also shares how she built a 7-figure business with just 4,000 followers and why you probably don't need a new offer, you need better positioning. Get ready to simplify your marketing, build a brand people trust, and grow your business with confidence.
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Indeed - Indeed is giving Earn Your Happy listeners a $75 SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to help get your job the premium status it deserves. Just go to http://Indeed.com/podcast right now and support our show by saying you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy.
HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 Why your ideal clients don't understand what you actually do.
04:00 What is marketing?
06:15 How Melissa built a 7-figure business with only 4,000 followers.
10:15 The "top of funnel" mistake that leaves clients disappointed after they buy.
12:30 Why talking about your client's symptoms converts better than talking about their pain.
14:00 Are you speaking your customer's language or your own?
16:15 How your messaging could be attracting the wrong clients.
23:15 How to know if your offer is actually solving a problem people want solved.
27:00 The 2 biggest marketing problems Melissa solves for entrepreneurs.
29:30 How to become the first person people think of when they're ready to buy.
31:00 What types of social media posts actually convert into sales?
35:45 Melissa's honest take on AI, authenticity, and the future of marketing.
40:00 The AI mistakes entrepreneurs are making with their content.
43:45 Why storytelling is still your greatest marketing advantage.
45:15 Melissa's advice for entrepreneurs who want to grow faster.
47:00 Why repositioning your marketing often works better than creating a new offer.
49:30 Who Melissa's ideal clients are and how she helps them grow faster.
51:15 What’s exciting for you right now?
RESOURCES
Build an authentic AI brand voice that sounds like YOU and get $250 OFF with code LORI HERE! http://buildmybrandvoice.com
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Earn up to 4.30% APY with Wealthfront’s high-yield cash account for a limited time: https://wealthfront.com/earnThis experience may not be representative of other Wealthfront clients, and there is no guarantee of future performance or success. Experiences will vary. The host of Earn Your Happy podcast, Lori Harder (“Media Partner”), is not a client of Wealthfront. The Media Partner receives cash compensation from Wealthfront Brokerage for this paid endorsement placed in their podcast, creating a conflict of interest. More details available via the referral link. The Direct Deposit Plus Investing Program from Wealthfront Advisers LLC and Wealthfront Brokerage LLC provides eligible clients a 0.25% APY increase above the base APY on eligible Cash Account balances (up to an overall boosted rate of 4.30% for a limited time when including the three month 0.75% APY boost for new clients) when you direct deposit $1,000 a month, plus open, fund, and maintain an investing account. Wealthfront may change or end the program at any time and determine eligibility at its discretion. Terms apply. Full details at wealthfront.com/promo-terms.The Cash Account, which is not a deposit account, is offered by Wealthfront Brokerage LLC ("Wealthfront Brokerage"), Member FINRA/SIPC. Wealthfront Brokerage is not a bank. The Annual Percentage Yield ("APY") on cash deposits as of January 30, 2026, is representative, requires no minimum, and may change at any time. References to the APY for the Wealthfront Cash Account, including any APY increase, are to the APY paid by insured depository institutions that participate in our cash sweep program (the "Program Banks”). Wealthfront Brokerage does not pay interest. Wealthfront Brokerage sweeps cash balances to Program Banks, where they earn the variable APY.Same-day withdrawal or instant payment transfers may be limited by destination institutions, daily transaction caps, and by participating entities such as Wells Fargo, the RTP® Network, and FedNow® Service. New Cash Account deposits are subject to a 2-4 day holding period before becoming available for transfer. Fees & Eligibility requirements may apply to certain checking features. Investing involves risk, including the possible loss of principal. Securities investments are not bank deposits, bank-guaranteed or FDIC-insured, and may lose value. Product images are for illustrative purposes and do not reflect individual experiences, account balances, or performance. - Can you clearly explain what you do in 10 seconds, 60 seconds, or five minutes? If not, you could be missing opportunities before they ever have a chance to happen. In this episode, I share why learning to pitch yourself is one of the most valuable business skills you can develop. I break down the 3 pitches every entrepreneur needs, my simple PITCH framework for communicating your value with clarity and how to stop overexplaining so people instantly understand what you do. Get ready to sharpen your message, pitch yourself with confidence, and become the person people can't wait to work with.
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HIGHLIGHTS
The 3 pitches every entrepreneur should know and when to use each one.
My simple PITCH framework for communicating your value with clarity.
Why most businesses have a messaging problem, not a talent problem.
How to build trust without listing every accomplishment.
The missing ingredient that makes every great pitch unforgettable.
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Earn up to 4.30% APY with Wealthfront’s high-yield cash account for a limited time: https://wealthfront.com/earnThis experience may not be representative of other Wealthfront clients, and there is no guarantee of future performance or success. Experiences will vary. The host of Earn Your Happy podcast, Lori Harder (“Media Partner”), is not a client of Wealthfront. The Media Partner receives cash compensation from Wealthfront Brokerage for this paid endorsement placed in their podcast, creating a conflict of interest. More details available via the referral link. The Direct Deposit Plus Investing Program from Wealthfront Advisers LLC and Wealthfront Brokerage LLC provides eligible clients a 0.25% APY increase above the base APY on eligible Cash Account balances (up to an overall boosted rate of 4.30% for a limited time when including the three month 0.75% APY boost for new clients) when you direct deposit $1,000 a month, plus open, fund, and maintain an investing account. Wealthfront may change or end the program at any time and determine eligibility at its discretion. Terms apply. Full details at wealthfront.com/promo-terms.The Cash Account, which is not a deposit account, is offered by Wealthfront Brokerage LLC ("Wealthfront Brokerage"), Member FINRA/SIPC. Wealthfront Brokerage is not a bank. The Annual Percentage Yield ("APY") on cash deposits as of January 30, 2026, is representative, requires no minimum, and may change at any time. References to the APY for the Wealthfront Cash Account, including any APY increase, are to the APY paid by insured depository institutions that participate in our cash sweep program (the "Program Banks”). Wealthfront Brokerage does not pay interest. Wealthfront Brokerage sweeps cash balances to Program Banks, where they earn the variable APY.Same-day withdrawal or instant payment transfers may be limited by destination institutions, daily transaction caps, and by participating entities such as Wells Fargo, the RTP® Network, and FedNow® Service. New Cash Account deposits are subject to a 2-4 day holding period before becoming available for transfer. Fees & Eligibility requirements may apply to certain checking features. Investing involves risk, including the possible loss of principal. Securities investments are not bank deposits, bank-guaranteed or FDIC-insured, and may lose value. Product images are for illustrative purposes and do not reflect individual experiences, account balances, or performance.
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Where F*ck-Yes Dreams Come To Figure It Out. This is where your boldest dreams meet the raw, messy middle—the risks, the failures, and the “WTF am I even doing?” moments.
It’s funny, vulnerable, and real as hell, because chasing big goals isn’t a straight line—it’s a rollercoaster. Top 25 in Entrepreneurship on Apple Podcasts | Forbes Top 11 Female-Led Business Podcasts Hosted by Lori Harder, entrepreneur, podcast host, author and founder of CPG wellness & beauty company Glōci, and your go-to business bestie matchmaker. If you’re here, it’s because you’ve got big dreams and a million ideas, but you’re missing some pieces—and maybe some key people—to bring it all together. We got you.
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