In this episode, I’m talking about what it’s really like to go into December single not the Instagram version, but the honest, emotional, surprisingly empowering reality of it. I share the deeper mindset shifts, the things people never say out loud, and the ways this season can actually feel lighter, calmer, and more grounding when you’re on your own. Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - patreon.com/ComingUpForAir Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show
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Your Self Worth Following A Breakup.
In today’s episode, I’m opening up about the deeply personal journey of rebuilding my self-worth after being broken down by someone I loved. I talk about the difference between who I truly am and what someone else once made me feel, and how I’ve had to remind myself that my value isn’t defined by another person’s choices. I share the small steps, the emotional shifts, and the daily acts of care that helped me slowly reclaim the parts of myself I lost along the way. If you’ve ever felt abandoned, replaced, or “not enough,” I hope my experience helps you feel less alone.If you’re struggling to believe you matter, this episode is for you. We’ll walk through it together honestly, gently, and with the reminder that our worth has always belonged to us.Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - patreon.com/ComingUpForAir Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show
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My Yearly Birthday Reflection Episode. Going Into Being 33 Single & Aligned.
Every year I do a birthday episode. This year has been interesting and hard but I have managed to reflect on why its been a tough year. I also knew that my 32s were going to be a year of growth in every area of my life. I have had to apply so much of the work I did in therapy to different areas of my life too. I share my mindset shifts with you & why I feel like the year of being 33 will be the best year I have had since I turned 29 and went through my break up. I’m sharing the lessons that changed me, the mindset shifts I’m bringing into this next chapter, and the things I’m leaving behind for good. If you’ve ever felt like you were rebuilding your life piece by piece, this episode is for you. Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - patreon.com/ComingUpForAir Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show
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Blocked Not Broken. When Your Ex Blocks You.
In this episode, I’m talking about what it really means when someone blocks you the confusion, the silence, and the way it can shake your sense of worth. I’ll share my own reflections and what I’ve learned about the psychology behind it why people cut others off completely, what it says about their emotional state, and how to shift the focus back to yourself instead of taking it personally. This episode isn’t about anger or blame. It’s about awareness, mindset, and reclaiming your peace. Because being blocked doesn’t mean you’re the problem it means your presence touched something they weren’t ready to face. Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - patreon.com/ComingUpForAir Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show
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*Halloween Edition* What Is Scarier Than Being Single?...
This Halloween, I’m not talking about ghosts, I’m talking about something scarier: being with the wrong person. In this episode, I open up about what it feels like to be used, overlooked, and underappreciated and why that’s so much more haunting than being single.Because being single isn’t the fear.Losing yourself in someone who doesn’t value you is.Want More Like This - https://stan.store/Loula My New Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/move.with.lou/Join Us on Patreon - patreon.com/ComingUpForAir Youtube - https://youtu.be/uf90Uc_owUw Support the show
Your post-breakup survival guide in podcast form. I healed from my breakup, now I want to help you heal yoursThis podcast is your go-to guide for rebuilding your confidence following a breakup, and stepping into your best self. No sugar-coating—just real talk, mindset shifts, and the tough love you need to heal, grow, and thrive.Because moving on isn’t just about forgetting them—it’s about remembering you.🩷
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