Can't Afford Therapy

Antoinette got the breast reduction she'd wanted for years — then spiraled into the grief, judgment, and loss of control that came after. SaVon and Josh share their own battles with faith and patience, in a raw conversation about identity, expectations, and being mean to yourself when you're already down. [Trigger Warning]
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For the first time, everything in SaVon's life is going right — and it's making him deeply uncomfortable. SaVon, Antoinette, and Josh get into why peace can feel like a threat when chaos is all you've known, and what it takes to sit still without bracing for the next hit.
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A snapshot from this week's episode, When Therapy Language Becomes a Weapon.
What actually counts as gaslighting — and what's just a disagreement? SaVon, Antoinette, and Josh break down how therapy words get weaponized, why only 2% of people actually have NPD, and what it really feels like to get called a narcissist mid-argument. (Hint: it hurts worse than being called broke.)
This is just a piece of the conversation. Hear the full episode, When Therapy Language Becomes a Weapon, in the feed.
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INTRODUCING The Waiting Room... where the crew gets into whatever's on their mind before the real session starts.
This time: what starts as a debate about the Jaylen Brown trade turns into something real — what happens when someone more talented walks into your space and you have to make room. SaVon, Antoinette, and Josh get into the ego, the humility, and the quiet fear underneath it ("this was my team"), and how it plays out at work, in dating, and anywhere the old guard gives way to the new.
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SaVon, Antoinette, and Josh unpack how therapy language — gaslighting, narcissist, boundaries, love bombing — got pulled out of the therapist's office and turned into weapons we use to win arguments. They get honest about misusing these words themselves, and what it costs when naming something replaces actually feeling it.

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