Why People Don’t Like You? #1 Dating Coach - Blueprint for Modern Relationships
In this episode, Codie and Matthew unpack the messy world of modern love. They explore how politics, emotional intelligence, and personal ambition shape relationships today. From navigating heartbreak to using AI for dating advice, this conversation digs into what it really takes to find and keep a meaningful connection.
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Chapters
00:00 The Challenge of Finding Love
01:31 The Current Dating Landscape
04:49 Political Views and Relationships
09:59 The Importance of Curiosity in Relationships
14:00 Staying Married Happily
19:50 Emotional Buttons in Relationships
30:03 Navigating Support in Relationships
36:39 Navigating Personal Dreams and Relationships
38:12 Honesty in Dating: Avoiding Settling
40:30 Understanding Heartbreak: Acute vs. Chronic
43:28 The Importance of Choosing the Right Partner
47:48 Intelligence and Relationships: A Double-Edged Sword
51:12 Understanding Gender Dynamics in Relationships
54:22 Overcoming Personal Walls in Relationships
01:01:25 The Role of AI in Modern Dating
01:12:43 The Future of Love and AI
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1:15:36
How To Get Paid More: The Problem Size Framework
Codie discusses the importance of identifying and solving big problems in business to drive significant profits, emphasizing the ability to prioritize problems effectively leading to greater financial success.
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Chapters
00:00 Identifying Big Problems for Big Profits
07:04 The Problem Prioritization Matrix
11:47 Using the Rice Score for Decision Making
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The Step by Step Guide to Making Money: From Broke to Millionaire - Lewis Howes
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In this episode, Codie and Lewis delve into the intricate relationship individuals have with money. They touch on practical strategies for setting financial goals, mapping out plans, and monetizing hidden skills. They also discuss the importance of financial education in fostering a healthy relationship with wealth.
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Chapters
00:00 Understanding Your Money Story
02:52 The Emotional Connection to Money
05:47 Levels of Financial and Emotional Wealth
09:00 Practical Steps for Financial Growth
11:49 Healing Money Wounds
15:01 The Relationship with Money
17:59 Transforming Your Money Mindset
21:02 Creating a Healthy Money Dialogue
23:56 The Power of Money Conversations
35:40 The Pursuit of Money and Emotional Freedom
38:01 Understanding Personal Values and Money Goals
41:49 Healing and Money: The Connection
42:18 Generosity as a Mindset Habit
54:00 Mapping Your Financial Goals
56:25 Monetizing Hidden Skills and Assets
58:17 The Importance of Financial Education
01:00:14 Building Self-Worth and Confidence in Money Matters
01:02:04 Gender Perspectives on Money and Investment
01:09:22 Conclusion: Embracing Your Money Journey
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1:12:08
If I wanted to Become a Millionaire in 2025, I’d Do These 7 Things (Step by Step)
Codie discusses the importance of commitment, accountability, and action in achieving success. She explores the NPC ladder concept, encouraging you to take charge of your life and business(es), including insights on the power of partnership and the importance of sharing knowledge and resources.
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Chapters
00:00 Going All the Way
03:08 The Importance of Reps and Results
06:01 Promises and Accountability
08:53 Fixers vs. Freeloaders
12:12 Climbing the NPC Ladder
14:55 Action Before Opportunity
18:13 The Power of Partnership
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19:43
The Business Expert: The Truth About the Economy! SBA Head - Kelly Loeffler
Codie interviews Kelly Loeffler, a successful entrepreneur and the administrator of the US Small Business Administration, who shares her journey from humble beginnings on a family farm to becoming a billionaire and a leader in the business world. Loeffler emphasizes the need for small businesses to access capital and navigate regulations, while also highlighting the potential for a manufacturing renaissance in America.
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Chapters
00:00 From Humble Beginnings to Billionaire Success
03:08 The Power of Partnership in Business
05:47 Overcoming Setbacks and Embracing Tenacity
09:05 Lessons from Sports: Leadership and Decision Making
11:53 The Future of Small Business: Opportunities and Challenges
15:06 Unlocking Hidden Resources for Small Businesses
17:52 The Importance of Community and Collaboration
20:46 Navigating Regulations and Accessing Capital
23:47 The Made in America Initiative and Manufacturing Renaissance
26:54 Final Thoughts: Empowering Small Businesses for Success
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You can change your life and make a dent on the world. This podcast uncovers the unfiltered lessons from the smartest minds straight to you, in conversations so honest you feel guilty listening in. We believe the current way of thinking is not working. The average person has become unhappy, unhealthy and financially struggling. You are not that person. This podcast will kick you in the shin with truth and tactics they should have taught us but gatekept. Hosted by Codie Sanchez, entrepreneur, investor and reformed journalist. You are a BigDeal to us.