
Dating Mistakes Anxious Attachers Make w/ Guest Valerie Rubin
2025/12/19 | 56 mins.
On this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily welcomes anxious attachment coach Valerie Rubin to discuss common mistakes anxious attachers make in dating and relationships and the importance of doing somatic work in healing anxious attachment!Find Valerie's instagram hereValerie's podcast is called: The Anxiety Recovery Podcast.Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Sh*t Women Say to Justify Red Flags
2025/12/08 | 36 mins.
Common things women say when they're trying to justify red flags! Do you ever find yourself doing or saying these things? If you do, don't worry - Emily has been there, too! But it's time to make the decision to walk away and stop settling for red flags!The Art of Secure Dating starts THIS Saturday, December 13th! Read more and register here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Frustrated that he wasted your time?
2025/12/07 | 17 mins.
If you're frustrated that a guy led you on and wasted your time, this episode is for you! Emily provides a helpful reframe on how to view situations like this with more peace and less frustration!The Art of Secure Dating is currently enrolling now through Dec. 12th! Read more and submit your application here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Subtle Ways You Self Abandon in Dating
2025/12/06 | 27 mins.
Emily breaks down 9 subtle ways you might be self abandoning in dating in this episode! The Art of Secure Dating is currently enrolling (orientation call Dec. 13th!).Ready to date more securely & attract men who are emotionally available?Read more & apply for TASD here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

How to Stop Attaching So Quickly
2025/11/22 | 34 mins.
In this episode, Emily invites Ana Eve back on the podcast to talk about why we attach so quickly and common mistakes to avoid that cause you to attach more quickly!They also announce the re-opening of the Art of Secure Dating with Black Friday bonuses! Read more via the link below!Read more and register for the Art of Secure Dating HereApply to work with Emily 1-1



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