Religious Guilt, The BEST METHOD FOR GETTING OVER YOUR EX, & The Lost Art of Fingering
In this episode of Trend Told Me, I go from laughing about awkward dates to opening up about the deeper things — religious guilt, desire, breakups, and figuring out what I actually want. I talk about the art of fingering (yes, really), why knowing your own body matters, and how learning to communicate your desires can change everything.I share stories about getting over an ex, letting go of the version of myself that lived for someone else’s approval, and finding closure on my own terms. There’s humor, there are uncomfortable truths, and there’s a whole lot of honest girl talk.For me, this episode is about growing into myself — learning that pleasure isn’t shameful, that faith and desire can coexist, and that every relationship teaches you something important. It’s a soft rebellion against guilt and a celebration of self-discovery.If you’ve ever felt torn between who you were raised to be and who you’re becoming… this one’s for you.
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the art of gratitude and the history of black friday
In this Thanksgiving-inspired episode of Trin Told Me, I’m diving deep into the magic of gratitude — not just the cute Pinterest version, but the real psychological power it holds. I share some of my favorite family traditions, the true (and kind of chaotic) history of Thanksgiving and Black Friday, and how gratitude has shaped my mental health, my relationships, and the way I see myself.We talk about how gratitude literally rewires your brain, why it makes you calmer and happier, and how it can shift your entire reality from scarcity to abundance. I share simple ways to bring more gratitude into your daily life, stories from my own Thanksgiving table, and the quiet lessons hidden in the holiday season.This episode is cozy, vulnerable, and full of little reminders that gratitude is a superpower — one that can change the way you love, grow, and move through the world.
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Being Mean Is Not Hot... (psychology behind mean girls)
In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m getting real about the whole “mean girl” mentality — not in a call-out way, but in a look-within way. I talk about how insecurity can twist itself into attitude, how easy it is to slip into mean behavior without realizing it, and why self-awareness is such a powerful form of personal growth.I share the moments where I had to check myself, the role models who shaped my moral compass, and the uncomfortable truth that most people never stop to question why they act the way they do. This episode is a gentle dive into the roots of our behavior, the patterns we inherit, and the ones we choose to break.If you’re on a journey toward softness, accountability, and emotional maturity… this one is for you.
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I Faked Relationships, Don't Know my Kiss Count & Have Daddy Issues...(21 Confessions for my 21st Bday)
In this very special episode of Trin Told Me, I’m ringing in my 21st birthday with Capital P by my side! 🎉✨ We get into everything — the chaos, the glow-up, the gratitude, and of course… the crazy birthday stories that only I could somehow end up in.We kick things off with all the excitement of turning 21, then dive into a hilarious and revealing round of “21 Confessions” (yes… I exposed myself a little 😭). We talk zodiac signs, wild memories, unexpected lessons, and how much can truly change in one year. The episode wraps up with a sweet birthday serenade and a reminder that every year can transform you if you let it.This one feels like a sleepover, a confession booth, and a birthday party all in one — and I’m so happy you’re celebrating with me.
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The Secret Sauce To Having & Maintaining a Healthy Relationship
In this episode of Trin Told Me, Capital P and I sit down and get real about what it actually takes to build a healthy relationship. We talk about communication (the real kind), how we navigate our different love languages, and how we keep our friendship alive inside our relationship. It’s light, it’s funny, it’s honest — and we definitely spill a little tea on the moments where we had to grow, learn, and choose each other all over again.We break down why balance matters, why accountability is sexier than defensiveness, and why healing before your next relationship is the biggest gift you can give yourself. If you’ve ever wondered how to love better — or how to be loved better — this episode is your soft little map.
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