The Truth About Our BOP ERAS...(hookup culture, the chase & seeking validation)
In this episode of Trin Told Me, me and my boyfriend get real about the messy, complicated world of hookup culture. We share our own experiences, talk through stories from listeners, and unpack the difference between love, lust, and the chase.We get into how casual connections can give quick validation but often leave deeper wounds — and why learning to love yourself first is the real glow-up. From lessons learned in our “bop” eras to the power of emotional vulnerability, this one’s raw, honest, and a little bit spicy.If you’ve ever questioned your worth after a casual fling or wanted to understand hookup culture beyond the surface, this episode is for you.
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He HID A CAMERA during s3x & My Crush Knows I LIKE HIM...(Spooky Friday)
It’s Spooky Friday, babes — and we’re diving into some hilarious (and slightly terrifying) hookup horror stories. In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m sharing your wildest submissions, reflecting on my own messy moments, and breaking down what different hookup locations really say about someone’s personality. We also talk about the serious side of it all — from prioritizing safety and protecting your energy to handling rejection like a boss and building unshakable confidence. Because sometimes, the scariest thing isn’t a ghost… it’s dating in 2025. SUBMIT PODCAST SUBMISSIONS HERE- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialogINSTA- TRINYXOTIKTOK- TRINITY.BLAIR
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For The Boys... The Guide To Understanding WOMEN
In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m giving the guys some real talk on dating from a girl’s perspective. We’re breaking down everything from how to approach women with confidence to reading body language, asking for consent, and keeping your cool on first dates.I share personal stories, green flags, red flags, and little communication secrets that actually make a difference. It’s not about being perfect — it’s about being genuine, confident, and respectful.If you’ve ever wished you could get inside a girl’s head and understand what we really mean when we say “we’re fine”… this episode’s for you.
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Our Spooky Tales & Terrifying Experiences with Males...(stalked, recorded & threatened)
In this episode of Trin Told Me, me and my sister KJ are diving straight into spooky season! We’re swapping ghost stories, laughing about how men can sometimes be scarier than actual ghosts 👻, and sharing our favorite mythical creatures.We also mix in some real talk about crushes and dating — from how to shoot your shot with confidence to why creating a cozy, safe vibe matters more than you think. It’s light-hearted, a little creepy, a lot funny, and totally perfect for October vibesSUBMIT PODCAST QUESTIONS HERE- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4SUs6-mRnrR17Pr1P4rXSzKRHZzmBgK0QXQwMYwxRwO3EPg/viewform?usp=dialogINSTA- trinyxoTIKTOK-trinity.blair
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Falling Inlove With Yourself...in 7 steps
In this episode of Trin Told Me, I’m talking all about self-love and confidence as we head into fall, because this season isn’t just about cozy vibes, it’s about stepping into your power. I share my own journey of learning to love myself, the lessons I’ve picked up along the way, and how confidence is really a practice, not something you’re just born with.I break down my 7-step plan to help you fall in love with yourself — from defining your ideal self and romanticizing your life to practicing positive self-talk, celebrating your wins, and surrounding yourself with people who lift you higher.This episode is your reminder that confidence is something you can build, grow, and own — and that living authentically is the real glow-up.
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