61. You Can’t Escape Yourself ft. MJ Gray | Power, Pretty Things & The Fallacy of “Rich Men”
Your mind is being programmed—so the question is, who’s doing the programming?In this episode, Kim sits down with MJ Gray, cult leader and the internet's favorite “spoiled girlfriend,” to explore what happens when you chase external highs to fix internal wounds. From subconscious beliefs to designer distractions, they unpack why no apartment, partner, or Chanel will save you from yourself.Together, they dive into the hidden patterns controlling your life, the consumer cycles women are trapped in, and why you can’t manifest what you’re not aligned with. MJ shares lessons from dating, the value of attention as currency, gratitude as a gateway, and why “getting what you want” starts with knowing who you are.Kim’s biggest takeaway? Reality sucks when you’re living in someone else’s.THE GOOD STUFFFollow MJ Gray - TIKTOK & IGSubmit Your Confessions - HERELET'S BE FRIENDS STEP 1 : Give us a 5-STAR reviewSTEP 2: Follow RLBG on Instagram - HERESTEP 3: Join the RLBG Community for access to exclusive events & LIVE girl talks - HERESTEP 4: Follow the host, Kimberly Bizu on TikTok & Instagram
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60. Slow The F*ck Down | Stop Chasing, Start Attracting
Kim is back in New York and moving differently — slower, softer, more intentional. In this episode, she’s trading burnout for balance and learning that power isn’t about how fast you go, it’s about how precise you move.She’s filling her weekends with art, culture, and connection, and being more discerning about the people she lets into her world. Because friendship, like anything else, should be chosen with care. Kim shares how she curates her circle: if someone can’t challenge themselves, they can’t challenge you.For anyone feeling stuck in the hustle or lonely in the building phase, this is your sign to slow the f*ck down and zoom out. Less chasing. More attracting.Kim’s biggest takeaway? Pace does not equal power. Move from intention, not impulse.Submit Your Confessions - HERELET'S BE FRIENDS...STEP 1 : Give us a 5-STAR reviewSTEP 2: Follow RLBG on Instagram - HERESTEP 3: Join the RLBG Community for access to exclusive events & LIVE girl talks - HERESTEP 4: Follow the International Pop Star "SlimKim" on TikTok & Instagram
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59. Your Self-Worth Is Your Net Worth ft. Kailani Raye | Reframe Your Beliefs & Stop Limiting Yourself
Scarcity mindsets don’t build abundant lives. In this episode, Kim sits down with Kailani Raye, a clinical hypnotherapist, life coach, and sound healer, to unpack how the stories we tell ourselves—consciously and subconsciously—shape the lives we live.Together, they explore how women internalize scarcity without even realizing it: through the media we consume, the people we watch, and the beliefs we absorb without question. Starting from childhood programming, Kim and Kailani break down how your inner monologue might be quietly convincing you to expect less, settle early, or wait to feel worthy.They dive into why so many women limit love, money and support to one source—and overlook the abundance that already exists in their friendships, community, and within themselves. They talk about what it really takes to shift from a place of limitation to a life of flow—how to get to the root of your desires, reframe your beliefs, and rewrite the story you’ve been living on loop.Kim’s biggest takeaway? Being “realistic” is often just code for expecting the worst.THE GOOD STUFFFollow Kailani Raye - HEREWork With Kailani - HERESubmit Your Confessions - HERELET'S BE FRIENDS STEP 1 : Give us a 5-STAR reviewSTEP 2: Follow RLBG on Instagram - HERESTEP 3: Join the RLBG Community for access to exclusive events & LIVE girl talks - HERESTEP 4: Follow the International Pop Star "SlimKim" on TikTok & Instagram
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58. The Deep End: Meet Jackie Aina | The Power of Personal Branding, Playing the Long Game & Unlearning Perfection
Meet Jackie Aina Asamoah, entrepreneur, creator, and cultural icon. She’s spent over a decade breaking beauty standards and building a brand that doesn’t just sell — it speaks. But before the campaigns, candles, and viral truth-telling, there was the climb. The unseen sacrifices and quiet moments of choosing herself.A lot of us know Jackie as the glamorous force behind FORVR Mood or as the voice who made space for Black women in the beauty industry. But in this episode, you’ll meet her as a woman first. Sharp, self-aware, and unafraid to say the hard thing out loud.We talk identity, legacy, and the pressure to perform perfection. Jackie opens up about confidence, compromise, and the backlash that comes with taking up space.From the private doubts to the public wins, Jackie tells all in The Deep End.THE GOOD STUFFFollow Jackie - HEREShop FORVR Mood - HERESubmit Your Confessions - HERELET'S BE FRIENDS STEP 1 : Give us a 5-STAR reviewSTEP 2: Follow RLBG on Instagram - HERESTEP 3: Join the RLBG Community for access to exclusive events & LIVE girl talks - HERESTEP 4: Follow the International Pop Star "SlimKim" on TikTok & Instagram
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57. Last Single Summer | Tequila, Tan Lines & Tasting The Rainbow
We all know people can get weird about their “single” status — so in this episode, Kim is redefining what it means to be single and setting the tone for a “Taste the Rainbow (while you still can)” summer, because this may very well be your Last Single Summer. She’s soft-launching her bi-coastal era, and for serial monogamists like herself, being single feels like ethical non-monogamy. No ties, no tears, and no one telling you to turn on your location.She unpacks the Last Single Summer rules of engagement — from Rule #3: No Pen Pals to Rule #5: Never Cancel on Your Girls for a Guy —and makes it her mission to guarantee you have the most liberating (and feral) summer ever. And for the girls who can’t get out of their own way, she offers a gentle reminder: the only opinion that matters is from the person paying your bills.Kim’s biggest takeaway? Everyone needs to take a well-lit, long look in the mirror before projecting their insecurities onto strangers.Submit Your Confessions - HERELET'S BE FRIENDS...STEP 1 : Give us a 5-STAR reviewSTEP 2: Follow RLBG on Instagram - HERESTEP 3: Join the RLBG Community for access to exclusive events & LIVE girl talks - HERESTEP 4: Follow the International Pop Star "SlimKim" on TikTok & Instagram
This is a love letter to women defining their womanhood and the never-ending process of 'figuring it out.' Whether you plan on finding "true love" and building the next Skims or marrying filthy rich like a Real Housewife—we’re not here to judge. In this podcast, Kim figures it out with special guests and talks to women on their path to the top, down the aisle, or through tough times. Tune in every Wednesday for unfiltered advice, unbelievable stories, and certified tips for the girls.
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