Something Shifted with Sean Loots

Zuraida was the last person to see her dad alive. The last person to speak to him. She was also the last person to comfort him. She was 13 years old. This traumatic event affected her deeply, leading to feelings of abandonment and a tendency towards hyper-independence. Zuraida discusses how her grief impacted her career and influenced her parenting style. She speaks freely about the importance of open communication and emotional expression with her children, contrasting it with her own upbringing, which was characterized by silence. Zuraida Jardine is a beloved South African media personality and over the course of her career, has had an audience with the likes of Beyoncé, Will Smith, Sir Anthony Hopkins, Ryan Gosling, Shaquille O'Neal, and many more. But enrolling in university at the age of 40 and breaking the generational cycle is what she is most proud of. Zuraida holds three degrees and numerous certifications to her name, and she continues to pursue higher education. This story highlights themes of resilience, the impact of trauma on personal growth, and the transformative power of sharing one's story. QUOTES: 'I am a huge proponent of not being a victim. My dad's passing could easily have made me a victim, but it didn't because I chose for that not to happen." "I use to write letters to my mom all the time becasue I just did not feel heard." GUEST: Zuraida Jardine https://www.zuraidajardine.com https://www.instagram.com/zuraidajardine/ UCOOK: https://ucook.co.za/ - use the code #SHIFT50 at check out. PODCAST: https://somethingshifted.co.za https://www.instagram.com/seanloots https://321shift.beehiiv.com/subscribe Youtube · Instagram · Website · 3-2-1 Shift Newsletter

Sean shares his personal journey through a lifequake, detailing the challenges and transformations that come with raising a child with profound disabilities. He reflects on a critical incident involving his daughter Zoe, the emotional turmoil of hospital visits, and the lessons learned about resilience, empathy, and the importance of community support. The conversation emphasizes the profound shifts in perspective that can arise from unexpected life events and the ongoing journey of personal growth and empowerment. QUOTES: "Seven minutes changed our reality." "Watching Zoe's chest rise and fall as I breathed life into her body is something I can't unsee." "It starts with one more breath." LINKS: https://somethingshifted.co.za https://www.instagram.com/seanloots https://321shift.beehiiv.com/subscribe CHAPTERS: Introduction to Life Quakes (00:00:00) Sean introduces the concept of "life quakes" and shares his personal story. First Aid Training Experience (00:01:41) Sean recalls his first job teaching swimming and the importance of first aid training. Zoe's Medical Emergency (00:04:27) A pivotal moment when Zoe stops responding during bath time, leading to panic and action. Rushing to the Hospital (00:05:24) Sean describes the tense drive to the hospital, filled with silence and worry. Emergency Room Experience (00:06:54) Sean and his partner navigate the emergency room, anxiously waiting for news about Zoe. Life in the Hospital (00:10:37) Sean reflects on the challenges and routine of spending 50 days in the hospital. Understanding Zoe's Diagnoses (00:11:59) Sean discusses Zoe's profound disabilities, including epilepsy and developmental delays. Zoe's Resilience and Growth (00:13:33) Sean shares how Zoe's determination inspires hope and joy despite challenges. Looking Ahead to Season Three (00:14:46) Sean outlines the upcoming season's focus on significant life shifts and personal transformations. Youtube · Instagram · Website · 3-2-1 Shift Newsletter

Join me for the new season of Something Shifted, the podcast that asks some of South Africa’s most interesting people to share how significant life shifts, perceived as devastating, can lead to profound personal transformation and empowerment. Something Shifted with Sean Loots leans into the joy and discomfort of unexpected change, and tries to answer the question of what it takes to bounce back. Something changes your life today. How will it shift your life tomorrow? What does it take to conquer the new path? Listen to heartfelt conversations every other week and become part of a community that believes in the power of possibility! Get ready for all of the feels. Season three starts November 2024. PODCAST: https://somethingshifted.co.za https://www.instagram.com/seanloots https://321shift.beehiiv.com/subscribe Youtube · Instagram · Website · 3-2-1 Shift Newsletter

Zola Nene shares her journey of leaving law to pursue a career in the culinary arts, overcoming imposter syndrome, and finding joy in her work. She discusses the impact of her parents on her mindset and the inspirations that shaped her. Zola also reflects on her experiences with Gordon Ramsay and the significance of her cookbooks. Tune in for a heartfelt reflection on the significance of personal satisfaction and evolution in one's life path. Quotes from Zola: "I've taken opportunities and made the best of them" "Seeing somebody who genuinely loved what they did, I understood what that meant, and I grew up knowing that that was possible. "I want to leave a legacy behind. Even long after I'm gone, the books and the recipes exist, being passed down through generations." https://www.zolanene.com PODCAST: https://somethingshifted.co.za https://www.instagram.com/seanloots https://321shift.beehiiv.com/subscribe CHAPTERS Imposter Syndrome (00:00:59) Zola Nene discusses her experience with imposter syndrome and how she overcame it. Decision to Quit Law (00:02:30) Zola Nene reflects on her decision to quit law school and pursue a career in the culinary arts. Influences and Inspirations (00:03:38) Zola Nene talks about the inspirations that have shaped her, including her parents' work ethic and their support for her career change. Interest in Culinary Arts (00:05:27) Zola Nene shares her shift from studying law to her interest in food and cooking, leading to her decision to pursue a career in culinary arts. First Job in the UK (00:08:31) Zola Nene describes her first job as a commis chef in the UK and how it prepared her for her career in the culinary industry. On Set with Gordon Ramsay (00:10:47) Zola Nene talks about her experience working with Gordon Ramsay on Uncharted, sharing her culture and the positive connection they formed. Cooking with Gordon Ramsay (00:14:18) Zola Nene shares her experience of cooking with Gordon Ramsay in front of a hippo, including the potential danger and the dramatic moments on set. Managing Future Commitments (00:17:10) Zola Nene and Sean Loots discuss making decisions based on how they will feel in the future, and the pressure of declining social and work invitations. Pride in Cookbook Awards (00:22:01) Zola Nene expresses her pride in winning cookbook awards and the significance of leaving a food legacy through her recipes. Watching Kids Open Gifts (00:23:53) Zola Nene shares the joy of watching her niece and nephew open gifts at Christmas. Youtube · Instagram · Website · 3-2-1 Shift Newsletter