A Life-Long Lesbian's Journey to Self Love with Michele Flamer-Powell
Keywords:
relationships, identity, breakups, motherhood, family dynamics, love, healing, self-discovery, validation, twin flames
Summary:
In this conversation, Michele shares her journey of self-discovery, relationships, and the complexities of love and motherhood. From coming out and navigating breakups to the challenges of starting a family, Michele reflects on her experiences and the lessons learned along the way. The discussion also touches on the importance of validation in friendships and the spiritual journey of finding true love and connection.
Takeaways:
Michele realized her sexual identity through experiences with her college softball team.
The relationship with Eve was profound and taught Michele a lot about love and family.
Michele prioritized her desire to become a mother, leading to a difficult breakup with Eve.
The journey of motherhood is filled with challenges, especially for same-sex couples.
Michele's relationship with Carrie was marked by red flags that she initially overlooked.
Healing and self-discovery are ongoing processes that require intentionality and effort.
Validation in friendships is crucial for emotional support and growth.
Michele's spiritual journey led her to understand the concept of twin flames and soulmates.
The importance of being authentic and true to oneself in relationships.
It's never too late to pursue happiness and make changes in life.
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The Trauma Syndrome, by Tia Dayton is the book we refer to in this episode. Its a must read for anyone who grew up in a highly dysfunctional family, with addiction or mental illness, or is partnered with someone who grew up in this type of family.
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Celebrating Bisexuality with Heidi Savell
Keywords:
bisexuality, polyamory, relationships, identity, community, internalized homophobia, queer, support, self-discovery, belonging
Summary:
In this conversation, Samantha Fox and Heidi Savell explore the complexities of bisexuality, relationships, and identity. They discuss their personal experiences with internalized homophobia, the journey of self-discovery, and the challenges of navigating relationships in a heteronormative society. The conversation highlights the importance of community, support, and celebrating one's identity, especially for those who identify as bisexual and are in monogamous relationships. They also touch on the significance of professional guidance when opening up relationships and the need for spaces where bisexual individuals can feel accepted and understood.
Takeaways:
Heidi's early experiences with bisexuality began in her teens.
Internalized homophobia can manifest early in life.
Heidi's journey of self-discovery included dating both men and women.
Compulsory heterosexuality influenced Heidi's marriage decisions.
Opening up relationships can reveal underlying issues.
Authenticity in relationships is crucial for personal happiness.
Cis men often dominate dating dynamics, affecting women's desires.
Creating space for personal desires is essential in relationships.
Community support is vital for those navigating bisexuality.
Click here to learn more about The Bi Life , A Community for Bisexual Women in Hetero Monogamous Relationships
Find Heidi on IG @steadypolyamory and the program she runs for those new to ENM Steady Your Poly Wobbles
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Unboxing 'Expectation'
Keywords:
expectations, self-acceptance, relationships, communication, personal growth, societal norms, parental influence, intimacy, self-exploration, emotional landscape
Summary:
In this conversation, Samantha Fox explores the concept of expectations, particularly how they shape our identities and relationships. She shares her personal journey of grappling with parental expectations and societal norms, leading to an 'allergic reaction' to expectations. The discussion emphasizes the importance of communication in relationships, highlighting how unspoken expectations can create distance and disappointment. Fox encourages listeners to engage in self-exploration and to express their needs and desires openly, rather than imposing expectations on others.
Takeaways:
Expectation can create a burden that weighs heavily on individuals.
Parental expectations can shape our paths in life, often leading to misalignment with our true selves.
Breaking free from societal norms can be a liberating experience.
Expectations in relationships can lead to misunderstandings and disappointment.
Clear communication is essential to avoid the pitfalls of unspoken expectations.
Self-exploration is key to understanding our own expectations and needs.
Expectations can distance us from intimacy in relationships.
We should not assume others know our expectations; communication is vital.
Understanding the narrative behind our expectations can lead to personal growth.
Expressing needs and desires openly fosters healthier relationships.
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The Grass IS Greener on the Other Side
Keywords:
sexuality, self-acceptance, LGBTQ, coming out, therapy, relationships, authenticity, personal growth, visibility, community
Summary:
In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox interviews Wendy Faith, a former participant in Unbox Your Sexuality®: A 12-week Sexuality Liberation Program.
Wendy shares her transformative journey of self-discovery after coming out later in life. Wendy discusses her experiences with betrayal, therapy, and the importance of embracing authenticity. She reflects on the challenges of navigating fears as a late bloomer about new relationships, the healing power of community, and the significance of visibility in both personal and professional realms.
Wendy's story serves as an inspiring reminder of the beauty that comes from living one's truth and the ongoing journey of self-acceptance.
Takeaways
Wendy shares her journey of self-discovery after years of living in a heterosexual marriage.
The importance of therapy in unpacking past traumas and embracing one's true identity.
Grief is a natural part of the journey towards authenticity and self-acceptance.
Wendy's experience highlights the challenges of coming out later in life.
The significance of finding a supportive community during the transition.
Navigating new relationships can be both exciting and intimidating for those coming out later.
The UYS program provided Wendy with tools to explore her sexuality and build confidence.
Visibility in business is crucial for LGBTQ individuals, especially those overcoming past traumas.
Wendy emphasizes the importance of authenticity over perfectionism in personal and professional life.
The journey of self-acceptance is ongoing and requires patience and self-compassion.
Are you ready to Unbox Your Sexuality®? Learn more about the 12 Week Sexuality Liberation Program https://www.unboxyoursexuality.com/cohort
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Learn more about Wendy Faith...
Wendy Faith is a creative business coach and late-in-life lesbian who helps LGBTQ+ entrepreneurs unfreeze, unmask, and grow their revenue—without burning out or selling out. After a lifetime of navigating patriarchy, parenting, publishing, politics, perfectionism, AND people-pleasing, then finally coming out at 54, she’s here to remind you that it’s never too late to build something bold, brilliant, and completely your own.
https://www.wendyfaith.com/
https://www.facebook.com/WendyFaithCoaching
https://www.instagram.com/wendyfaithcoaching/
https://www.tiktok.com/@wendy_faith
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Unboxing Pleasure Toys
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Welcome to Season 2 of Unbox Yourself with Samantha Fox®
Keywords
sexuality, self-discovery, pleasure, intimacy, sex toys, queer identity, relationships, vulnerability, double-sided dildo, self-acceptance
Summary
In this episode of 'Unbox Yourself,' Samantha Fox delves into the journey of self-discovery and sexuality, exploring the importance of pleasure, intimacy, and the use of sex toys. She shares personal stories about her experiences with sexual exploration, the significance of breaking down societal norms, and the complexities of navigating queer identities. The conversation emphasizes the importance of vulnerability in intimacy and encourages listeners to embrace their desires without judgment.
Takeaways
Self-discovery is a lifelong journey that often begins with societal expectations.
Sexuality can be explored at any stage of life, regardless of past experiences.
Using sex toys can enhance personal pleasure and intimacy with partners.
It's important to communicate openly about desires and preferences in relationships.
Desiring penetration does not negate one's queer identity.
Pleasure should be prioritized over societal norms in sexual relationships.
Vulnerability is key to deepening intimacy with partners.
Exploring different sexual experiences can lead to greater self-acceptance.
There are many ways to experience pleasure beyond traditional methods.
Breaking down limiting narratives around sex can enhance personal and partner satisfaction.
As promised, this is the link to The Dollop Double Sided Dildo by Banana Split. https://bananasplitshop.com/products/dollop-bulb
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Unbox Yourself™ with Samantha Fox®
Do you ever feel trapped by expectations, conditioning, or fears that keep you from embracing your true self? Unbox Yourself™ with Samantha Fox® is your weekly dose of real, raw conversations to help you break free from those limitations and step into a life of full authenticity.
Each episode features guests who are navigating their own journey of self-discovery—especially those who have come out later in life or are questioning their sexuality after believing they were straight or bisexual. From struggles with shame, people-pleasing, and religious conditioning, to breaking free from compulsory heterosexuality, this podcast opens up honest dialogues about what it takes to live authentically.
As you listen, you’ll not only find yourself feeling less alone in your struggles, but you’ll also gain the tools, compassion, and curiosity to start your own journey toward self-acceptance and alignment. You’ll hear stories that inspire and encourage you to take your next steps toward the life you truly deserve.
And if you’re someone who’s navigating these challenges, we want to hear your story too! Unbox Yourself™ isn’t just a podcast; it’s a conversation—and you can apply to be a guest. Come share your experiences with Samantha, get support, and leave with new tools, insights, and a sense of empowerment to continue your journey.
Tune in weekly, and let’s unbox ourselves together. Your story could inspire others—and you may just find that your struggles are the keys to your own freedom.
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