Doug unpacks the importance of emotional intelligence in marriage. He defines emotional intelligence, and identifies 5 core components: self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills. Doug also explains what to do if your spouse lacks emotional intelligence which includes avoiding sarcasm and sharing how you truly feel. Listener questions and comments: Deedee - I've been married and divorced twice. Should I consider a third marriage if the man lacks emotional intelligence? (45:51) Resources: Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/ 13 phrases that show low emotional intelligence Calm down, you’re overreacting. It’s not that big of a deal. I’m just being honest. You’re lucky that’s all you have to deal with. You always do this. That’s not what I meant. Why are you being so dramatic? Well, that’s just who I am. It’s not my fault you feel that way. Stop being so negative. You’re reading too much into this. It’s not my problem. I don’t care.
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Reducing divorce and supporting the abandoned
Bai Macfarlane joins Doug to discuss Mary's Advocates, where she works to reduce unilateral no-fault divorce and support those who have been unjustly abandoned. They unpack the history of no-fault divorce in the United States, Church teaching on divorce, and the challenge of annulments. Listener questions and comments: Joe - How do I get the Church to intervene with separation in my situation. (41:21) Anthony - I'm very happy to hear about help for the abandoned spouse and I feel I'm in that category. We are civilly divorced with no annulment. (46:05) Resources: Mary’s Advocates https://marysadvocates.org/ The Gift of Self https://marysadvocates.org/services/gift-of-self-book/ Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle
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Proceed with Caution
Doug shares 9 "pink flags" to pay attention to when dating. Doug discusses how success often depends on what flaws and defects you can live with and speaks to the importance of standing firm with your non-negotiable standards. PLUS: The Friday Rant! Listener questions and comments: Mary - How do you tell as an older woman that a man isn't just dating you for your money? (36:47) Mark - I lost my wife five years ago. I met a woman who is ten years younger than me. She still wears her wedding ring. Should I back off? (39:10) 9 “pink flags” to pay attention to when dating. You’ve never had an argument. You show affection in different ways. You sense that they’re hiding something. They aren’t reliable or consistent. Technology is a big distraction. They avoid defining your relationship. Emotional safety is compromised. There is a history of betrayal. Your relationship has changed for the worst. Resources: Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle
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Raising Happy Children
Are you worried that you have an unhappy child? Are you curious how to help a child who is unhappy? Today, Monica Hinderer joins Doug discussing how to raise happy children. Listener questions and comments: Greg - I disagree a little. It doesn't seem like you had a hard enough stance on when a child says he's gay. (37:20) Marissa - I have two sons in their twenties and they are moving back home. What rules should we have? I fear conflict with them. (40:20) Resources: Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle
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Faith & Fianances
What should a husband do when he discovers his wife is reading sexually explicit books? What should a wife do when her husband stops practicing the faith? Doug tackles these questions and more. Listener questions and comments: Rose - Advice about annulments. Take it at one hour a day. (23:38) Mary Anne - I've been through an annulment. I spoke to a priest who said to focus on the one way that it had a bad effect on you. Focus on that and try to keep your and his dignity. Try not to be cruel. (26:35) Todd - I just got married. It’s been great so far. what is the conversation that needs to happen when one of us is ready for children and the other isn’t? (40:11) Tom - I have to comment on the guy that disagreed with you. If both spouses are making money, it should be combined and after the bills are payed then the left over should be split equally for the kids and things. (45:28) Resources: Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle
Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.
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