Husband Material

"You are God's beloved son. In you He is well-pleased!" This is a powerful truth for outgrowing porn. But while that identity sounds beautiful, it often leaves us asking: What do I actually do with that? What does it look like to live like a beloved son in everyday life? 
This episode breaks down 14 practical, redemptive ways to step out of a performance-driven "slave" mindset and into the freedom of true sonship. If you're ready to heal the boy to free the man, this episode is your roadmap:
PLAY
REST
RISK
ASK
SHARE
FEEL
LOVE
HUG
GIVE
RECEIVE
PRAY
TRUST
WAIT
BE

Resources mentioned in this episode:
Why We Sexualize Emotions And How To Desexualize Them
Appropriate Touch Between Men
The Image Of God In You
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What is your heart hungry for? How  can you satisfy that hunger in a healthy way? Shawn Bonneteau unpacks how our thoughts and actions flow from the heart, a 5-second tool that can interrupt unwanted behavior, and how Christ transforms us without shame. 
Shawn Bonneteau is a Christian sexual recovery coach who has spent 14 years inside addiction and 8 years guiding men out of it for a total of over 3,000 sessions. Shawn is the founder of Secret Habit, where he guides Christian men to break free from pornography and destructive sexual habits so they can live with integrity, confidence and real freedom. Learn more at secrethabit.ca
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Take the Husband Material Journey...
Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy
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Instead of trying harder, what would it look like to try softer? Author and counselor Aundi Kolber guides us into compassionate attention so that we can reconnect with our bodies, heal from trauma, and outgrow porn. You'll also hear how God relates to us in the middle of our mess  with in-process miracles along the way.
Aundi Kolber is a licensed professional counselor (MA, LPC) and bestselling author of the critically acclaimed "Try Softer" as well as "Strong like Water." She has received additional training in her specialization of trauma-and body-centered therapies and is passionate about the integration of faith and psychology. As a survivor of trauma, Aundi brings hard-won knowledge about the work of change, the power of redemption, and the beauty of experiencing God with us in our pain. Learn more at aundikolber.com
Buy Aundi's books:
Try Softer: A Fresh Approach to Move Us out of Anxiety, Stress, and Survival Mode—and into a Life of Connection and Joy
Strong like Water: Finding the Freedom, Safety, and Compassion to Move through Hard Things—and Experience True Flourishing
Take What You Need: Soft Words for Hard Days
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Take the Husband Material Journey...
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Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy
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Hear a vulnerable, powerful breakup letter written to pornography.
If this resonates with you, write your own “dear porn” breakup letter and share it in the Husband Material Community, which you can join at husbandmaterial.com
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Take the Husband Material Journey...
Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy
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Discover the differences between "Egypt Sexuality" and "Promised Land Sexuality" based on insights from Deuteronomy 11:10-12. You'll be challenged to trust God with your life instead of trying to control your life. 
This sermon was originally preached on Sunday, April 26, 2026 at the Husband Material Spring Retreat in Georgia. See upcoming retreats at husbandmaterial.com/retreat
Previous sermons from HM Retreats:
You Are Not Too Much (Mark 6:30-56)
Excluded & Emasculated (Acts 8:26-40)
David's Sexual Story (2 Samuel 11-12)
The Beauty Of Brotherhood (Psalm 133)
How Jesus Reverses The Curse (John 21)
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Take the Husband Material Journey...
Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy
Thanks for listening!