We Talk Back

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a hilarious debate over South Carolina slang, arguing whether “bo” belongs to Charleston or Columbia before recapping their weekends and teasing the Patreon with details from AJ’s latest date. The conversation turns to Young Thug’s court-ordered school appearance, where the hosts react to reports that he told students “fame is the most important thing” and debate the potential impact of that message on young people. AJ and TamBam also unpack the complicated case of a surrogate who reportedly traveled to Texas to give birth after refusing to follow an abortion provision in her agreement when the baby was diagnosed with serious heart conditions, sparking a nuanced discussion about bodily autonomy, surrogacy contracts, parental expectations, and quality of life.
After the break, the hosts lighten things up with “Smash or Pass: Lifestyle Edition,” putting modern dating, relationships, money, and everyday habits under the microscope. AJ and TamBam weigh in on dating someone with children, large age gaps, living together before marriage, long-distance relationships, separate bedrooms, joint bank accounts, splitting bills, quick engagements, prenups, lending partners money, and navigating major income differences. They also debate designer spending and financing, quitting a job while in a relationship, GLP-1 medications, Botox, long voice notes, bonnets in public, and plenty more. Funny, candid, and relatable, the episode explores which lifestyle differences are worth compromising on—and which ones are an automatic pass.
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap an emotional and eventful weekend, from AJ attending Dolly Bishop Litticker’s wedding to Tam celebrating her best friend Janae’s birthday with a day on the water. The hosts then dive into “Stupid Internet News,” reacting to a viral conversation about male educators navigating puberty and appropriate boundaries with young girls while emphasizing that adults are responsible for protecting children and maintaining clear boundaries. They also discuss a disturbing case involving a police officer who pleaded guilty to sexually abusing handcuffed male detainees and debunk a bizarre TikTok myth surrounding menstruation and women’s health.
The episode shifts into “Biohazard,” as AJ and TamBam take on modern dating, dating apps, and some of the wildest profile bios the internet has to offer. From demands involving sex, money, jealousy, control, vaccination status, and co-parenting to profiles that raise immediate safety concerns, the hosts debate the difference between refreshing honesty and undeniable red flags. Along the way, they unpack dating-app fatigue, relationship expectations, personal boundaries, and why meeting someone organically can feel more authentic than turning romance into a job interview. Funny, candid, and relatable, this episode explores the realities of dating in the digital age while reminding listeners that sometimes a bio tells you everything you need to know.
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after an emotional weekend, with AJ reflecting on attending a friend's son's funeral before the conversation shifts to several of the week's biggest headlines. The hosts react to the arrest of reality TV personality Sidney Starr on multiple felony charges involving a minor, discussing the importance of protecting children while cautioning against broad assumptions about entire communities based on the alleged actions of an individual. They also weigh in on Ariana Grande stepping back from public scrutiny, conversations surrounding celebrity wellness and privacy, and broader discussions about the pressures of fame, public perception, and internet speculation.
The conversation then turns to culture, economics, and power, sparked by reactions to Jim Jones' comments about dating and nightlife, before diving into the public debate surrounding Jay-Z's Target partnership. AJ and TamBam explore capitalism, consumer spending, Black economic empowerment, corporate influence, and the importance of building sustainable institutions within Black communities. They also examine wealth disparities, the effectiveness of boycotts, and why financial literacy, informed decision-making, and community support remain essential to creating long-term economic opportunities.
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a recap of a relaxing weekend in Charlotte, including dinner at Dean's Steakhouse, before diving into several of the week's biggest headlines. The hosts react to the tragic death of TikTok creator Sarah Duffy in an alleged murder-suicide involving her estranged husband despite an active protective order, prompting AJ to share a deeply personal story connected to a former high school resource officer whose decades-old murder case recently came to a close. They also discuss a viral moment from an Usher concert after a fan appeared uncomfortable during an onstage interaction, along with social media personality ATL Tay's controversial claims from jail following a probation violation.
The conversation shifts into a broader discussion about hip-hop, accountability, and the responsibility of artists versus parents, sparked by the backlash surrounding Yung Miami's latest release, "Spin That." AJ and TamBam examine whether music should be blamed for influencing behavior, debate the double standards women in hip-hop often face, and unpack conversations around "frequency," messaging, and personal responsibility. Blending current events, pop culture, and thoughtful commentary, the hosts challenge listeners to think critically about the media they consume while closing with a practical reminder to protect both their peace and their pockets: "Hold your money—don't spend it."
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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their weekends, from AJ's unforgettable time at Jeezy's Black Tie Affair in Las Vegas—where she enjoyed performances from Mary J. Blige and reflected on the influence women have in relationships—to TamBam's birthday celebration in Washington, D.C., complete with a visit to the National Museum of African American History and Culture, a full day of self-care at the spa, and brunch with her sisters. The hosts also dive into this week's biggest headlines, including a class-action lawsuit alleging Workday's AI hiring technology discriminates based on race and age, growing concerns over airport facial recognition and biometric data collection, a viral catfishing story involving stolen photos, and a widow's shocking discovery after reading her late husband's emails.
The conversation expands into discussions about cultural accountability, reacting to controversy surrounding an Argentina restaurant named "Big Nigga Burger" before exploring why so many people feel unfulfilled despite pursuing success. AJ and TamBam unpack the pressures of debt, subscription culture, inflation, and constant comparison in the social media era, while emphasizing the importance of gratitude, therapy, discipline, and protecting your peace.
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