Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Your sex life shouldn't be the one area of marriage you never discuss.
It's awkward—we get it. And you probably don't think talking about it will help. But research shows that talking about sex is strongly associated with a more thriving sex life. So, how do you actually have the conversation?
This week, Juli walks through five conversations couples should be having about sex. If you've ever thought, "We should probably talk about this…" this episode is for you.
Co-hosts: Hannah Nitz & Josiah Bogue
 
Follow-up Resources:
Hot Topic Kit: Building a Great Sex Life
God, Sex, and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery
Research cited in this episode is from The Secrets of Sex in Marriage by Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn.

What do you do when your child tells you something that changes everything?
What constitutes abuse? And, when should you report it? 
This week, Juli sits down with trauma expert Dr. Debi Grebenik to talk about how parents can respond when a child has experienced sexual abuse. They discuss what signs to watch for, how trauma affects children, why empathy is more powerful than panic, and how parents can protect their kids while raising them with confidence—not fear.
Guest: Dr. Debi Grebenik
 
Follow-up Resources:
National Children's Advocacy Center
Java #460, How to Have Mini and Many Conversations About Sexuality with Your Kids
God's Healing Stinks by Dr. Juli Slattery (blog)
Follow Debi at @drdebigrebenik
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After eight weeks away, Juli is back—and she's sharing what really happened on her sabbatical.
This week, Juli opens her journal and shares the biggest lessons God taught her about burnout, rest, leadership, and learning to live within the limits He designed for us. We also talk about why so many of us struggle to slow down, how Sabbath is more than a day off, and what it looks like to build rhythms of rest into everyday life.
Plus, you'll get a first look at an exciting new vision for Authentic Intimacy and what's ahead for the ministry.
If you've been feeling exhausted, spiritually dry, or like you're running on empty, this conversation is for you.
Guest: Hannah Nitz
Follow-up resources:
Encountering the Radical Love of Jesus by Dr. Juli Slattery (blog)
5 Secrets to Intimacy With God by Dr. Juli Slattery (blog)
Satisfy My Thirsty Soul by Linda Dillow

This week, Juli and her husband, Mike, share lessons they've learned about navigating disagreements, understanding each other's perspectives, avoiding manipulation, and seeking God's wisdom together. 
Whether you're newly married or decades into your relationship, this conversation will encourage you to build healthier patterns for making decisions as a team.
Follow-up Resources:
Java #603 5 Ways to Navigate Differences & Build a Stronger Marrige with Juli & Mike Slattery
Cruise with Juli on the Love Like You Mean It Cruise! Save $600 per couple on regular cabins or $400 per couple on suites with code JAVAWITHJULI27.
The Very Important Difference Between Conflict & Fighting by Dr. Juli Slattery (blog)
Finding the Hero in Your Husband by Dr. Juli Slattery
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When you're on the brink of divorce, could separation save your marriage? 
This week, Juli sits down with Dr. Gary Chapman to hear how intentional separation can be an act of love rather than a sign of giving up. You'll learn when separation may be appropriate, why outside counsel matters, and how hope can be rekindled (even in relationships that seem beyond repair).
Whether you're personally facing a difficult marriage or walking alongside someone who is, this conversation offers wisdom, practical guidance, and a reminder that God is always in the business of redemption.
Guest: Dr. Gary Chapman
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Follow-up Resources: 
Hot Topic Kit: Healing After an Affair
One More Try by Dr. Gary Chapman
Learn more about a marriage Intensive with Hope Restored
Video Q&A: How do I know if my spouse is repentant after a betrayal?
Video Q&A: How do I know if I'm in an emotionally abusive relationship or marriage?