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Comparison is sneaky, and if we’re honest, it’s something none of us ever fully graduate from. In today’s episode, we’re having a real conversation about how comparison shows up in our lives—even in adulthood, friendships, motherhood, and ministry.

We share some vulnerable stories from our own friendship and from building Delight together, including moments when comparison tried to creep in and steal our joy. But here’s the good news: we truly believe freedom from comparison is possible.

We walk through seven practical ways to combat comparison—from calling it out and checking your lane to celebrating others and committing to gratitude. These aren’t just theories; they’re lessons we’ve had to learn (and relearn) over the years.

If you’ve ever found yourself spiraling after scrolling social media, questioning your gifts, or feeling like someone else is doing life “better,” this episode is for you. Our prayer is that you walk away feeling lighter, freer, and more confident in the unique way God designed you. 💛

In This Episode

[02:30] Comparison in Close Friendships
[05:30] Call It Out
[07:00] Where Comparison Shows Up Today
[10:00] The Hidden Lies Behind Comparison
[14:00] Check Your Lane
[20:00] Catch It Early
[24:00] When Our Minds Start Spiraling
[28:00] Cut the Feed
[33:00] Celebrate Others
[38:00] Connect With Yourself
[42:00] Commit to Gratitude
[44:30] Finding Freedom from Comparison

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In today’s episode, we’re getting real about what it actually looks like to live on mission with your spouse — not just talk about it, but truly build a marriage centered on the Kingdom of God. But before we dive deep, we’re starting with some hilarious (and slightly dramatic) marriage fight stories — because let’s be honest… marriage isn't always easy. 😅

What if marriage isn’t just about comfort, date nights, vacations, and building a cozy life… but about building the Kingdom together?

If you’ve felt distant from your husband…
If your marriage feels good but maybe a little stagnant…
If you’ve secretly wondered, “Is there more for us?”

This conversation is your invitation to step into it.

In This Episode

[01:00] Marriage Fails & Fight Stories

[05:00] When Conflict Reveals the Deeper Issue

[18:00] Passion, Personality & Marriage Dynamics

[20:00] From Fighting to Calling: Living on Mission Together

[24:00] The Comfort Trap in Modern Marriage

[28:00] Why Mission Deepens Attraction & Intimacy

[32:00] Shared Experiences Create Depth

[35:00] Saying Yes When It’s Inconvenient

[39:00] Serving United, Not Separate

[43:00] What If Your Spouse Isn’t There Yet?

[45:00] Discovering Your Spiritual Gifts Together

Mentioned Resources

Practical Guide for Living on Mission

The #1 Thing That Changed Our Marriage - Episode with Mac and Tyler

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Okayyyy this one was FUN. 💌 In the spirit of our Valentine’s series, we brought in the real experts — our husbands — to answer your dating questions. And let’s just say… they did not hold back.

From slow texters and “is he into me?” confusion, to crushes that might be idols (yikes 😅), to dating your ex’s best friend (double yikes??), we covered it all. We talked about insecurity, confidence, communication, rejection, equal yoking, and what healthy pursuit actually looks like.

The boys shared honestly about what it means to pursue with clarity, why you should never have to guess how a guy feels about you, and how important community and character really are.

If you’re dating, thinking about dating, healing from dating, or just trying to not overthink dating — this episode is for you. We laughed a lot and hopefully left you feeling a little more confident, a little more grounded, and a lot more at peace.

In This Episode

[00:00] Welcome to the Valentine’s Series + Meet the Husbands
[00:01:00] The Snowstorm Valentine’s First Date Story
[00:04:00] Valentine’s Expectations in Marriage
[00:08:00] Situation #1: Slow Texting & Mixed Signals
[00:16:45] Situation #2: The Social Media “Celebrity” Crush
[00:19:30] When a Crush Becomes an Idol
[00:25:45] Situation #3: “Unequally Yoked” or Just Uncertain?
[00:31:00] Is It Fear of Commitment or Just Not Right?
[00:33:20] Situation #4: He Flirts But Says He’s Not Ready to Date
[00:37:45] Situation #5: Liking Your Ex’s Best Friend
[00:42:20] Writing Out What You’re Actually Looking For
[00:44:30] What Healthy Dating Actually Looks Like (Tyler’s Advice)
[00:51:00] Being Fully Yourself in Dating
[00:53:30] Different Love Stories, Same Faithfulness

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In this episode, we sit down with the incredible Christian Bevere to talk all about what it looks like to pray for your future husband — before you even know his name. We dive deep into faith, singleness, and what it really means to contend in prayer for the love story God is writing.

Christian shares her whirlwind love story, but more importantly, she walks us through how praying for her husband transformed her heart long before she walked down the aisle. We talk about awkward prayers, husband Bibles, singleness as a gift, and how to navigate dating in today’s world without losing your peace or your standards.

If you’re single and waiting, dating and discerning, or even married and reflecting on how God moved in your story — this conversation will remind you that God hears every prayer, sees every tear, and is wildly intentional with your timeline.

In This Episode

[00:00] Galentine’s Vibes & Valentine’s Day Stories

[04:00] Meet Christian Bevere

[08:00] The Husband Bible Begins

[12:00] The DM That Changed Everything

[17:00] Praying Before You Know His Name

[21:00] The Three F’s: Friends, Family & Faith

[25:00] Visions, Confirmation & Discerning “The One”

[30:00] Singleness Is a Gift (Even When It Doesn’t Feel Like It)

[34:00] Dating in Today’s World

[38:00] Faith Over Fear in the Waiting

[41:00] Encouragement for the Single Girl

Guest Resources


Future Husband, Present Prayers – by Christian Bevere


Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal – by Christian Bevere

Dear Future Husband Podcast


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We are so excited about this one! With Valentine's Day just around the corner, we wanted to bring another episode of encouragement and insight to all our single ladies—and who better to hear from than two amazing single Christian men? We sat down with Jamey and Nikolai to talk all things dating, singleness, and what they're actually looking for in a godly woman. From bold dating stories to the struggles of Christian singleness, these guys brought the fun, the wisdom, and the honesty we LOVE.

Whether you're feeling discouraged in the dating scene, wondering how to shoot your shot, or just curious where the good guys are hanging out—this episode is for YOU. Get ready for laughs, vulnerability, and a whole lot of truth about how to pursue Jesus and love in today’s world.

In This Episode

01:50 – Most unpopular dating opinions
04:00 – Embarrassing stories & creative first dates
07:00 – What they’re actually looking for in a woman
10:30 – Living full lives while single
14:00 – Where they hope to meet someone
16:00 – The “why am I still single?” convo
18:00 – Can girls make the first move?
22:30 – What a great first date actually looks like
25:00 – Why these guys aren’t dating much right now
28:00 – The Christian girl + guy disconnect
30:40 – Things girls worry about that guys don’t
33:00 – Major turnoffs an icks
35:00 – Real struggles guys face in singleness
38:00 – Their “elevator pitch” to the single ladies

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Meet Nikolai

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