Every Child Belongs

• Foster Care Impacts the Whole Family : Daniela Coats

  On this episode, Kim Botto welcomes licensed clinical social worker Daniela Coats—founder of With Siblings and a powerful advocate for birth children in foster and adoptive families. Daniela brings a deeply personal and professional perspective, having grown up as a “bio kid” in a foster family and now parenting children through both birth and adoption. She’s also the author of a beautiful children’s book, The Day Lily Turned Uninvisible, which shines a light on a group often overlooked in caregiving spaces: the biological children in foster and adoptive homes. Daniela shares how growing up with foster siblings shaped her identity and led to moments of feeling invisible—not just at home, but also in church and community spaces. She recalls the emotional confusion and social challenges of adapting to new family dynamics, often without guidance or validation. These early experiences sparked a passion to make sure bio kids don’t feel left out or silenced in the midst of their family’s calling to foster or adopt. In the conversation, Kim and Daniela explore practical ways families, churches, and caregivers can better support biological children. Whether it’s giving bio kids space to express their feelings, empowering them with language to navigate difficult conversations, or simply remembering to include them in prayers, gifts, or church programming, Daniela offers compassionate, insightful ideas for honoring every child’s voice. If your family fosters, adopts, or supports families who do, this episode is essential listening. Daniela’s perspective reminds us that seeing every child—adopted, fostered, or biological—builds stronger families and more compassionate communities. Her wisdom will help churches and caregivers create a culture where no one feels unseen. "Boundless Hope for Every Child" by Kim Botto https://amzn.to/3Uj0MKg (affiliate links) Every Child Belongs explores how we can create spaces where every child feels heard and valued, whether neurodivergent, differently abled, or they've experienced trauma. We'll hear from educators, parents, professionals, and more. Kim Botto is an adoptive mom, grandma, an advocate for kids and teens with disabilities, as well as a long-time leader of kids in student ministries.

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• ADHD, Autism & Church: A Dad's Honest Perspective : Chris Heaslip

  In this episode of Every Child Belongs, Kim Botto talks with entrepreneur and dad Chris Heslip, founder of PushPay and CEO of Amazing Life. Chris shares how his passion for creating welcoming church spaces for all kids stems from personal experience—raising two sons, one with ADHD and the other with autism. Through vulnerability and vision, Chris opens up about the grief, learning, and breakthroughs that shaped his family’s journey and deepened his commitment to inclusive ministry. Chris and Kim discuss the practical and emotional challenges families face when their children are neurodivergent. From being turned away at churches to finding joy in small acts of kindness, Chris shares powerful stories that reveal the urgent need for empathy, preparation, and thoughtful ministry environments. They also explore how churches can innovate—not by chasing trends, but by doing the basics exceptionally well. Whether it’s a simple buddy system, sensory-friendly accommodations, or just remembering a child’s name, Chris offers inspiring, actionable insight for any leader who wants to better serve every family who walks through the doors. If you’ve ever wondered how to make church feel like home for kids who learn, feel, or behave differently, this episode will challenge and encourage you with a renewed sense of mission. Amazing Life EveryChild Free Course and Curriculum https://www.joinamazing.com/EveryChild "Boundless Hope for Every Child" by Kim Botto https://amzn.to/3Uj0MKg (affiliate links) Every Child Belongs explores how we can create spaces where every child feels heard and valued, whether neurodivergent, differently abled, or they've experienced trauma. We'll hear from educators, parents, professionals, and more. Kim Botto is an adoptive mom, grandma, an advocate for kids and teens with disabilities, as well as a long-time leader of kids in student ministries.

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• Why Families with Mental Health Challenges Avoid Church (and How to Change That)

  In this episode of Every Child Belongs, Kim Botto welcomes Dr. Steve Grcevich, a child and adolescent psychiatrist and founder of Key Ministry. With decades of experience and a deep passion for inclusion, Dr. Steve shares his journey from medical practice to ministry, focusing on helping churches welcome families impacted by hidden disabilities and mental health conditions. Dr. Steve unpacks eye-opening data showing that families raising children with mental health challenges—like anxiety, ADHD, and autism—are significantly less likely to attend church. He explains the barriers these families face, from stigma and social isolation to sensory processing issues and previous negative church experiences. Together, Kim and Dr. Steve explore practical steps churches can take to become more welcoming, inclusive spaces where every child and family can belong. You’ll hear actionable ideas rooted in compassion, research, and lived experience—whether you’re a church leader, parent, or advocate. Discover how small changes in your church culture and environment can have a lasting impact on families who need it most—and why this work is not just important, but a calling. Key Ministry https://keyministry.org/ "Boundless Hope for Every Child" by Kim Botto https://amzn.to/3Uj0MKg (affiliate links) Every Child Belongs explores how we can create spaces where every child feels heard and valued, whether neurodivergent, differently abled, or they've experienced trauma. We'll hear from educators, parents, professionals, and more. Kim Botto is an adoptive mom, grandma, an advocate for kids and teens with disabilities, as well as a long-time leader of kids in student ministries.

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• Summer Reflection 2 : Kim Botto

  It's the summer! Our routines change, the way we do things change, and so we're changing up Every Child Belongs for the month of July with a couple of mini-episodes.  When we started this podcast in January 2025, one in 36 kids were being diagnosed with autism. Just a few months ago, the CDC, Center for Disease Control, released new research which shows that one in 31 kids are being diagnosed with autism. And it made Kim think back on a couple episodes that we had with two moms who are parenting kids who are autistic.   Our very first episode was with Larah Roberts. She shared all kinds of great insight on how we can talk to our kids who are neurodivergent about things of faith.  One of the things I love that she talked about was God created us to know him. So the fact that somebody has a diagnosis or a difference, that doesn't change the fact that God created them to know him so we can march forward confidently. Larah's Episode:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/raising-autistic-disciples-larah-roberts/id1788322535?i=1000682404450 Larah's Book "How to Advocate & Stay Christian: For Parents of Special Kids" https://amzn.to/4mcTT9b The second episode by a mom raising an autistic kid is my friend, Kari Baker. Her son, Brady, is a teenager, and she shares how they navigated getting the diagnosis. And one of my favorite quotes in her book is she talks about how the first couple years, they were very much swimming in a private pool. Like they weren't sharing it with anybody. They weren't even using the term autism. She talks about how she navigated that, how she started being vulnerable and how God used that to really build her community. Kari's Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/kind-families-kari-baker/id1788322535?i=1000685147742 Kari's Book "Finding KIND: Discovering Hope and Purpose While Loving Kids with Invisible Neurological Differences" https://amzn.to/451GV79 So if you are somebody who is parenting an autistic kid, loves an autistic kid, has a family in your circle that has an autistic kid, and you want to better understand what these families might be going through or how you can better support them, give those both a listen. Everybody have a great summer!   "Boundless Hope for Every Child" by Kim Botto https://amzn.to/3TL4tIf (affiliate links)

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• Summer Reflection 1 : Kim Botto

  It's the summer! Our routines change, the way we do things change, and so we're changing up Every Child Belongs for the month of July with a couple of mini-episodes.    As Kim has been reflecting, a recent episode that stands out was with Dr. Dwonna Thompson Lenoir and the three things she said we could do in order to be a safe place for kids.   One is, be curious. Like if a kid is behaving in a way that you don't understand, be curious.    Second thing is have a conversation. Talk with the child, not at the child.    Third is consistency. We've got to do what we say we're going to do. When we don't do what we say we're going to do, then trust is broken and the kid doesn't feel like they can depend on us.   Everybody have a great summer!

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