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Q&A! Confessing To Cheating A Decade Later & Crushing On Your BFF's Boyfriend - Ep 489
2026/09/10 | 1h 20 mins.It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions!
You're happily married with kids but you carry a secret from a decade ago, before starting a family. Is it worth rocking the boat to tell the truth all these years later? If you like your coworker but hate how she ALWAYS cuts you off, what's the best way to fix her social faux-pas? Your mother-in-law keeps cornering you to trauma dump—how do you draw the line between being her daughter-in-law and an accidental therapist? And what to do when you can't stop crushing on your best friend's dashing boyfriend? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:48 - Q1: My Coworker Always Cuts Me Off—How Do I Handle This?
11:30 - Q2: It Has Been 10 Years Since I Cheated—To Confess Or Not To Confess?
37:35 - Q3: I Have A Crush On My Best Friend’s Boyfriend—Help!
58:53 - Q4: My Mother-In-Law Treats Me Like Her Therapist—Help!
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See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.- Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the Reunion, aka Episode 11.
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Time stamps...
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:43 - Ciara & Ajay
10:33 - Cuba & Ryan
22:23 - Sophie & Taylor
26:20 - Francesca & Joseph
29:35 - Yasmin & Jordan
34:18 - Faye & Jack
44:14 - Reviewing Shandy’s Predictions
45:41 - Who We Would Go For
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See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. - Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand Finale, aka Episodes 9 & 10.
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Time stamps...
0:00 - Housekeeping
2:20 - Episode 9
29:53 - Episode 10
58:00 - Shandy’s Reunion Predictions
1:02:04 - Who We Would Go For
If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com
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Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. - Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 5-8.
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Time stamps...
0:00 - Housekeeping
2:34 - Episode 5
20:57 - Episode 6
56:50 - Episode 7
1:14:42 - Episode 8
1:33:02 - Shandy’s Predictions
1:40:21 - Who We Would Go For
If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com
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More Sharleen
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Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com
More Andy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. - Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-4.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
3:31 - Episode 1
22:42 - Episode 2
37:16 - Episode 3
57:11 - Episode 4
1:04:41 - Ibiza
1:09:54 - Shandy’s Predictions
1:12:52 - Who We Would Go For
If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com
Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy
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More Sharleen
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt
Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com
More Andy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental & honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership.As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to deliver what are hands-down the best Reality TV recaps in the business. They interview reality TV (or reality-adjacent) couples in double-date style episodes called Love Fests. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during TV seasons, twice a week.
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