Why do some players stay in cricket for years… while others quietly drift away?
In this episode of The Cricket Mind Podcast, Nathan Wood and Briony Brock are joined by coach Laura de Silva and player Charlotte Bernstein for a powerful conversation about confidence, pressure, enjoyment, and the environments that keep players coming back.
This episode offers a unique perspective from both sides of the same environment — a coach working to build meaningful relationships and supportive cultures, and a young player experiencing those environments firsthand.
The conversation explores girls’ cricket, but the lessons apply across the game for players, parents and coaches alike.
In This Episode:
Why players really drop out of cricket
The importance of confidence and enjoyment
Why “unlucky” is banned in Laura’s coaching environments
Building strong coach–player relationships
Pressure, expectations and performance
The difference between boys’ and girls’ cricket environments
How coaches can create environments players want to return to
Why support matters more than frustration
Managing cricket alongside GCSEs, school and life
The role friendships play in long-term engagement
Why great environments help players perform better
Timestamps:
00:00 – Are we still losing too many players from cricket?
01:01 – Introducing Laura de Silva & Charlotte Bernstein
02:56 – What makes players want to keep turning up?
06:01 – What great coaches do differently
14:11 – What makes a strong coach–player relationship?
22:44 – Building real confidence in players
27:32 – Why “unlucky” is banned
30:06 – Pressure, expectations and performance
38:15 – Have you ever thought about quitting cricket?
45:06 – Why there still aren’t enough female coaches in cricket
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