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  • Guided Self Care with Steve Anderson
    The return of Mr. Anderson! Steve Anderson brought a special treat for our listeners—his Guided Journal for Dads Volume 1: From Vision to Action has been released. Steve has put together thoughtful and provocative writing prompts to challenge men into asking deeper, more introspective questions. Whether you are new to journaling or have been doing it for years, this journal will help you better understand both the ruts you may be in as a parent and what you are doing well. Many of us don’t take the time to dig deep or ask ourselves what self care even looks like. Steve’s journal will have men asking themselves generative questions to uncover the men and fathers that live with intention, leadership, and exemplification for their families and communities. You definitely don’t want to miss this week’s episode of The ADHDads with our special guest Steve Anderson. The Artist's Way by Julie Cameron
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  • Dishonest Harmony
    Today, the Dads discuss dishonest harmony—the avoidance of uncomfortable or difficult topics in order to maintain a false sense of harmony. Here's a breakdown of why dishonest harmony is bad, incorporating insights from various perspectives: Individual Level: Stifles Growth: Avoiding conflict prevents individuals from learning to address challenges, resolve disagreements, and develop stronger coping mechanisms. Erodes Trust: Dishonesty creates a foundation of mistrust, hindering authentic connections and open communication within relationships. Builds Resentment: Suppressing true feelings leads to a build-up of resentment, which can manifest in passive-aggressive behavior or emotional outbursts. Hampers Problem-Solving: Ignoring underlying issues prevents finding solutions and addressing the root causes of conflict. Relationship Level: Creates Distance: Dishonesty erodes intimacy and creates emotional distance between partners or family members. Fosters Misunderstandings: Unresolved issues fester and lead to misinterpretations and assumptions, further damaging the relationship. Limits Support: Partners are less likely to offer genuine support when they don't fully understand the other person's needs and struggles. Societal Level: Hinders Progress: Societal issues cannot be effectively addressed if individuals and groups are afraid to speak up or challenge the status quo. Perpetuates Injustice: Ignoring systemic problems or injustices in the name of harmony allows them to continue unchecked. Weakens Communities: Dishonesty erodes trust within communities, making it difficult to collaborate and achieve shared goals. While the desire for harmony is understandable, prioritizing it over honesty can have detrimental consequences for individuals, relationships, and society as a whole. Open communication, even when difficult, is essential for building strong, healthy, and just connections. Thanks always for your support. For more episodes, and to contact us, visit theadhdads.com.
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  • Loudest In the Room
    Being yelled at can have significant negative psychological effects, particularly when it's a recurring pattern. Today, the Dads discuss the dangers of being the loudest in the room, as well as strategies to being the lowest heartbeat in the room. Here are some common outcomes of being yelled at: Stress Response: Yelling triggers the body's stress response, releasing hormones like cortisol and adrenaline. This can lead to increased heart rate, blood pressure, and muscle tension. Emotional Turmoil: Feelings of anger, fear, humiliation, or confusion can arise immediately after being yelled at. Difficulty Focusing: The heightened emotional state can make it challenging to concentrate or think clearly. Low Self-Esteem: Repeatedly being yelled at can erode a person's self-worth and lead to feelings of inadequacy or worthlessness. Anxiety and Depression: Chronic exposure to yelling can contribute to the development of anxiety and depressive disorders. Trust Issues: Difficulty trusting others, especially in authority positions, can develop. Relationship Problems: Communication difficulties and strained relationships can arise due to the negative emotional patterns associated with being yelled at. Interpersonal Issues: Difficulty asserting oneself, setting boundaries, or maintaining healthy relationships can occur. Children are particularly vulnerable to the effects of being yelled at. It can lead to behavioral problems difficulty forming attachments academic struggles increased aggression It's important to note that the impact of being yelled at can vary depending on factors such as the frequency, intensity, and context of the yelling, as well as the individual's resilience and coping mechanisms. Resource: How to Stop a Meltdown
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  • Screen-Free Summer Strategies
    Let's be real. Screens can take away from quality time, fun in the sun, and the joy of being in the outdoors. Not only does our health experience compromise, but so do our relationships. How do we connect in the summer, and what can we do to take advantage of the outdoors with our neurodiverse family and friends? The dads discuss strategies, and provide some of their favorite activities for the summer, as well as other times of the year. Structure and Planning: Create a Schedule: While you can ditch the super strict routine, having a loose framework for the day with planned activities helps kids with ADHD feel secure and know what to expect. This can include outdoor play time, creative projects, chores, and downtime for reading. Involve your child: Let your child participate in planning some of the activities. This gives them a sense of ownership and makes them more likely to be excited. Embrace the Outdoors: Nature Play: Parks, playgrounds, and backyards are full of opportunities for exploration, climbing, running, and imaginative play. Pack a picnic lunch and make a day of it! Water Activities: Beat the heat with sprinklers, slip-and-slides, or a trip to the pool or beach. Creative Activities: Arts and Crafts: Stock up on art supplies like paints, construction paper, and playdough. Channel their energy into creating masterpieces! Building and Making: Legos, building blocks, or even cardboard boxes can become anything from spaceships to robots. Fort Building: Sheets, blankets, and pillows turn into epic forts for reading, playing, or just relaxing. Active Play: Sports and Games: Backyard games like frisbee, tag, or jump rope get them moving. Consider enrolling them in a sports camp or league. Bike Rides and Scootering: Exploring the neighborhood on wheels is a great way to burn energy and have fun. Other Ideas: Board Games and Puzzles: Classic board games and challenging puzzles are stimulating and provide quality family time. Themed Days: Have a pirate day, a dinosaur day, or a space exploration day. Let their imagination run wild with costumes and themed activities. Volunteering or Helping Others: Helping at a local animal shelter, community garden, or food bank can give them a sense of purpose and responsibility. Camping: If you're feeling adventurous, a camping trip is a chance to unplug and connect with nature. Remember: Be Patient: There will be bumps along the road. Be prepared with some alternative activities if something doesn't hold their interest. Celebrate Successes: Acknowledge their efforts and good behavior, especially when they're struggling to stay engaged without technology. Make it Fun: Focus on creating positive memories and fostering a love for learning through play and exploration. With a little planning and creativity, you can have a fantastic tech-free summer that your child with ADHD will love! Some of our favorite things (that may involve some screen time): Magic Puzzles Osmo ABC Mouse Geocaching Hiking Camping Movie Night Biking Wiffle Ball Swimming Lemonade Stand Bake Sale Build Cardboard spaceship Imaginative play (create a dinosaur park with dinosaur toys) Check out Screamfree Parenting for strategies on communicating in constructive ways as you work toward screen-free summertime with your family.
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  • To Clean or Not to Clean: Essential Tips for a Clean and Happy Home
    Life is messy. WE are messy. What does it look like to be responsible for ourselves and each other, and how do we get to we over me, as it relates to a clean home, a happy and healthy family environment, and more? The Dads dive into their own personal experiences, and discuss essential tips for a clean and happy home. It can be tough when those you live with have different ideas of "clean." Here are some tips to have a productive conversation: Find Common Ground: Shared Vision: Instead of focusing on blame, discuss the benefits of a cleaner space. Maybe it's reduced stress, easier to find things, or a healthier environment. Respect Differences: Acknowledge that everyone has their own comfort level with cleanliness. Open Communication: "I" Statements: Use "I" statements to express how the messiness makes you feel, e.g., "I feel stressed when the dishes pile up in the sink." Avoid accusatory statements like, "You always leave your mess everywhere!" Active Listening: Listen to their perspective too. Maybe they didn't realize how much the mess bothered you, or they have a time crunch for cleaning. Finding Solutions: Cleanliness Standards: Discuss what "clean" means to everyone. Maybe it's not about a spotless house, but having clear pathways and surfaces for essential tasks. Chore Delegation: Work together to create a chore chart that assigns tasks based on preferences and abilities. Maybe someone hates dishes but loves vacuuming. Compromise: Be flexible. Maybe some areas are kept tidier than others, or cleaning schedules are adjusted. Additional Tips: Focus on Teamwork: Frame cleaning as a team effort to maintain a happy and healthy home environment. Positive Reinforcement: Acknowledge and appreciate each other's efforts when someone cleans up. Make it Fun: Play music while cleaning, turn it into a competition, or make it a family activity. Remember, the goal is to find a system that works for everyone. Be patient, understanding, and open to compromise. There are resources online and in libraries about chore charts and creating a cleaning routine for families. We Over Me by Khadeen and Devale Ellis
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As loving fathers directly influenced and empowered by ADHD, we live out a mission of focus on emotional intelligence and empathy toward our families, and in our daily walk. Join us in our journey as we stumble, laugh, reflect, and grow. We started the ADHDads movement to share our stories with ADHD and life to strengthen our relationships, and gain knowledge and wisdom along the way. As we expand our library, we will grow our network of experts to dive deep into the superpower of ADHD, and sharpen our skills to care for our loved ones—those gifted with neurodivergence, and the “normies."
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