Mother U with Rachel Norman

Many parents try to treat their kids equally in order to be fair. But equal does not always mean just. When we respond to every situation the same way, we ignore context, responsibility, age, and intent. Over time, this can actually harm kids instead of helping them.
In this episode, we talk about why fair parenting is not about equal rules or identical consequences. It is about discernment. You will learn why blanket equality often robs children of agency, minimizes real harm, and creates resentment in families.
This episode covers:
Why equal consequences can be unfair
How to handle sibling conflict wisely
When age and maturity should change expectations
How privileges should match responsibility
Why victims need different responses than initiators
How to parent with fairness without constant arguments
If you have ever felt torn between being fair and being wise, this episode will help you parent with clarity and confidence.
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It's All My Fault (weekly quiet time resource for the Christian people-pleasing, over-functioning, guilt-ridden mama) https://learn.mother-u.com/iamf
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c@motheru
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Why do good plans fall apart even when you care, try hard, and start with the best intentions?
In this episode, we unpack why follow-through keeps failing for so many capable mothers and why the problem isn’t discipline, motivation, or organization. 
It’s the internal pressure most moms carry without realizing it.
We talk about how invisible rules, constant self-monitoring, and the mental weight of “doing motherhood right” quietly drain capacity, making even simple routines hard to sustain. You’ll learn why knowing what to do doesn’t automatically make it easier to do and what actually needs to change before new plans, routines, or goals can stick.
If you’re tired of repeating the January cycle and want a steadier, lighter way to approach family life, this episode will help you see exactly where things break down and where to start instead.
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Mother U https://mother-u.com
Life School At Home (my community that helps prepare kids for life!) https://www.lifeschoolathome.com
It's All My Fault (weekly quiet time resource for the Christian people-pleasing, over-functioning, guilt-ridden mama) https://learn.mother-u.com/iamf
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c@motheru
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/motheruwithrachel/

Moms often reach December feeling overwhelmed, rushed, and guilty. The truth is that most of the stress comes from doing things you never wanted to do in the first place. This episode walks you through a simple and honest look at the things you want for Christmas this year and the things you do not want to repeat.
You will hear how to be more present with your kids, how to limit screen time, how to set a spending plan you can stick to, and how to keep your home peaceful without running yourself into the ground. You will also learn how to make room for generosity, spiritual grounding, and real connection instead of mindless busyness.
This episode helps you:
Protect your time and energy during the holidays
Create clear yes and no choices ahead of the season
Build meaningful memories with your kids without burning out
Limit overspending with a plan you make now
Add simple traditions that actually matter to your family
Involve your kids in giving and holiday prep
Enjoy your own home instead of rushing through it
If you want a Christmas that feels peaceful, intentional, and connected, this episode will help you decide what stays and what goes.
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Mother U https://mother-u.com
Life School At Home (my community that helps prepare kids for life!) https://www.lifeschoolathome.com
It's All My Fault (weekly quiet time resource for the Christian people-pleasing, over-functioning, guilt-ridden mama) https://learn.mother-u.com/iamf
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c@motheru
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/motheruwithrachel/

14 Day Bedtime Blueprint: https://learn.mother-u.com/14-day-bedtime-181729
If bedtime at your house feels like a circus of stalling, bargaining, and meltdowns, this episode will help you see why. It’s not about “easy kids” or “hard kids”—it’s about mindset.
In this episode, we’ll unpack the real difference between moms whose kids go to bed peacefully and those who struggle night after night—and how one simple shift in how you think about bedtime can change everything.
You’ll learn:
Why bedtime chaos isn’t about your kids’ personalities
The hidden habits that make bedtime feel harder
What calm, confident moms do differently
The mindset shift that makes follow-through easier
How to start leading bedtime instead of surviving it
If bedtime feels out of control, this episode will help you take your peace—and your evenings—back.
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Mother U https://mother-u.com
Life School At Home (my community that helps prepare kids for life!) https://www.lifeschoolathome.com
It's All My Fault (weekly quiet time resource for the Christian people-pleasing, over-functioning, guilt-ridden mama) https://learn.mother-u.com/iamf
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c@motheru
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/motheruwithrachel/

Most moms head into the holidays already carrying a full mental load and Christmas just adds fifty more tabs to your brain. You’re managing gifts, meals, school events, travel, and emotions while trying to make it all meaningful. It’s no wonder you’re exhausted before it even starts.
In this episode, we’re naming the invisible mental load of the holidays and talking about how to lighten it without dropping the joy or meaning of the season.
You’ll learn:
What the invisible mental load looks like for moms in December
Why you feel like you’re doing everything (and no one sees it)
How to share the load without nagging or guilt
Practical ways to simplify, delegate, and pre-decide what matters
A faith-based reminder that peace doesn’t come from doing more
If you’re already feeling the weight of the season, this episode will help you name it, share it, and finally breathe again.
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Mother U https://mother-u.com
Life School At Home (my community that helps prepare kids for life!) https://www.lifeschoolathome.com
It's All My Fault (weekly quiet time resource for the Christian people-pleasing, over-functioning, guilt-ridden mama) https://learn.mother-u.com/iamf
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c@motheru
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/motheruwithrachel/