A Latte to Learn

In this episode, Nabbihun shares her family’s story of losing her aunty to gender-based violence. She unpacks South Africa’s femicide crisis, the failures of our justice system, and the urgent need for community action. This episode discusses themes of violence and may be distressing to some listeners.If you or someone you know is affected by GBV: ​GBV Command Centre: 0800 428 428 / SMS “HELP” to 31531​LifeLine SA: 0861 322 322 ​POWA (People Opposing Women Abuse): 011 642 4345

Why is everyone in a situationship? In this episode of A Latte to Learn, we’re spilling the coffee on the messy middle ground between “just friends” and “officially dating.” Situationships can feel cozy and exciting, but underneath, they’re often just cracked mugs- leaking energy, time, and self-worth.We’ll unpack:​What a situationship really is (and why it’s not as casual as it looks)​Why our generation clings to “almost relationships”​The emotional toll of living in limbo​The red flags you might be ignoring (yes, ghosting counts)​How to stop settling for crumbs and ask for the clarity you deserveThis episode is your gentle nudge to stop auditioning for a role you already deserve. Because crumbs aren’t a meal, and you’re not asking for too much, you might just be asking the wrong person.

In this episode of A Latte to Learn, we unpack the female gaze- aka what women actually find attractive (hint: it’s not just abs and arrogance). We're talking presence over performance, emotional intelligence over ego, and style that says “I journal” not “I just showered.”Expect:​A breakdown of why women love men with layers​The icks that instantly kill the vibe​Green flags that quietly scream “boyfriend material”Whether you’re the emotionally in-tune kinda type or the guy still figuring it out- this one’s for you.Grab your coffee and get ready to take notes. Because being a multifaceted man? That’s the new attractive.

Are we craving connection… or just trying to prove we’re still desirable?In this spicy and soul-searching episode, Nabbihun dives into the messy space between hookups and healing. From one-time flings to late-night “wyd?” texts, we’re asking the real question: Am I doing this because I want to… or because I need to feel chosen?Expect big sister honesty, a little humor, and a lot of heart as we explore validation, vulnerability, and the ache that sometimes lingers after the high fades.Grab your iced latte and let’s talk about it.

Platonic or playing with fire? In this episode, we’re stirring the pot as we dive deep into one of the messiest, most debated questions of growing up: Can guys and girls actually be just friends?We’re talking emotional loitering, flirtships, late-night calls, third-wheel drama, and how to know if you’re genuinely platonic… or just delulu with a latte in hand. Plus, we get real about boundaries, jealousy, and what it takes to actually make it work.Expect honesty, humor, and just a dash of emotional chaos.If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Are we just friends... or just avoiding the truth?” — this one’s for you.