Feeling uninspired? You’re not lazy, you might just be outgrowing the version of yourself that relied on motivation to get through life.
In this episode, I share my three-month struggle with overwhelm, creative blocks, and questioning my own spark. We talk about why motivation is fleeting, why showing up consistently matters more, and how identity (not inspiration) drives real growth.
If you’ve ever felt stuck or flat, this episode is your reminder that shedding old versions of yourself is uncomfortable… but necessary for what’s next.
17. The Last Sip: Spilling the Lessons of 2025
2025/12/30 | 18 mins.
In this finale of season one, I’m spilling the realness: the struggles, the wins, the quiet joys, and everything I learned this year. No resolutions, just small life goals, big lessons, and a whole lot of gratitude.
From anxiety and friendships that shifted, to music, matcha lattes, and moments that kept me steady- this episode is for anyone ending 2025 tired, hopeful, or somewhere in between.
Grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and join me for the last sip of 2025.
16. She Deserved Better: the Deadly Reality of GBV in South Africa 💜
2025/11/13 | 17 mins.
In this episode, Nabbihun shares her family’s story of losing her aunty to gender-based violence. She unpacks South Africa’s femicide crisis, the failures of our justice system, and the urgent need for community action. This episode discusses themes of violence and may be distressing to some listeners. If you or someone you know is affected by GBV: GBV Command Centre: 0800 428 428 / SMS “HELP” to 31531 LifeLine SA: 0861 322 322 POWA (People Opposing Women Abuse): 011 642 4345
15. Why Is Everyone in a Situationship?
2025/09/22 | 15 mins.
Why is everyone in a situationship? In this episode of A Latte to Learn, we’re spilling the coffee on the messy middle ground between “just friends” and “officially dating.” Situationships can feel cozy and exciting, but underneath, they’re often just cracked mugs- leaking energy, time, and self-worth. We’ll unpack: What a situationship really is (and why it’s not as casual as it looks) Why our generation clings to “almost relationships” The emotional toll of living in limbo The red flags you might be ignoring (yes, ghosting counts) How to stop settling for crumbs and ask for the clarity you deserve This episode is your gentle nudge to stop auditioning for a role you already deserve. Because crumbs aren’t a meal, and you’re not asking for too much, you might just be asking the wrong person.
14. Men, Meet the Female Gaze
2025/07/23 | 24 mins.
In this episode of A Latte to Learn, we unpack the female gaze- aka what women actually find attractive (hint: it’s not just abs and arrogance). We're talking presence over performance, emotional intelligence over ego, and style that says “I journal” not “I just showered.”
Expect: A breakdown of why women love men with layers The icks that instantly kill the vibe Green flags that quietly scream “boyfriend material”
Whether you’re the emotionally in-tune kinda type or the guy still figuring it out- this one’s for you.
Grab your coffee and get ready to take notes. Because being a multifaceted man? That’s the new attractive.
Grab your favorite cup of coffee and join me, Nabbihun, as we navigate the chaos, beauty, and growing pains of life in your 20s. From surviving university and staying balanced to building friendships, studying smarter, and exploring faith, this podcast is about self-discovery. Whether you're dealing with breakups, finding your identity outside of being the "older sibling," or romanticizing your life, we’re in this together. Expect real talk, girly pop culture, and cozy chats that feel like catching up with your best friend. Let’s sip, share, and learn—there’s always a latte to learn!
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