In this episode of A Latte to Learn, we unpack the female gaze- aka what women actually find attractive (hint: it’s not just abs and arrogance). We're talking presence over performance, emotional intelligence over ego, and style that says “I journal” not “I just showered.”Expect:A breakdown of why women love men with layersThe icks that instantly kill the vibeGreen flags that quietly scream “boyfriend material”Whether you’re the emotionally in-tune kinda type or the guy still figuring it out- this one’s for you.Grab your coffee and get ready to take notes. Because being a multifaceted man? That’s the new attractive.
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13. Hookups, Healing & the Hunger to Be Chosen: Craving Connection or Chasing Validation
Are we craving connection… or just trying to prove we’re still desirable?In this spicy and soul-searching episode, Nabbihun dives into the messy space between hookups and healing. From one-time flings to late-night “wyd?” texts, we’re asking the real question: Am I doing this because I want to… or because I need to feel chosen?Expect big sister honesty, a little humor, and a lot of heart as we explore validation, vulnerability, and the ache that sometimes lingers after the high fades.Grab your iced latte and let’s talk about it.
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12. Can Guys and Girls Really Be Just Friends: flirtship or friendship
Platonic or playing with fire? In this episode, we’re stirring the pot as we dive deep into one of the messiest, most debated questions of growing up: Can guys and girls actually be just friends?We’re talking emotional loitering, flirtships, late-night calls, third-wheel drama, and how to know if you’re genuinely platonic… or just delulu with a latte in hand. Plus, we get real about boundaries, jealousy, and what it takes to actually make it work.Expect honesty, humor, and just a dash of emotional chaos.If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Are we just friends... or just avoiding the truth?” — this one’s for you.
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11. May Your Mind Be Kind: Mental Health Awareness and Why It’s Okay to Not Be Okay
In this deeply personal episode of A Latte to Learn, Nabbihun opens up about her journey with anxiety, navigating mental health flare-ups, and finding strength in vulnerability. As we recognize Mental Health Awareness, she shares her own story of diagnosis, medication, and healing, while offering heartfelt advice on checking in with yourself and the people you love. If you've ever felt overwhelmed, alone, or unsure of how to ask for help—this one’s for you. 💛
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10. What to Do When People Let You Down: Without Losing Yourself
Not the episode I thought I’d record… but maybe the one I needed to.In this deeply honest (and long-awaited) Episode 10, Nabbihun opens up about what happens when someone you trusted doesn’t show up when it matters most — and how to pick up the pieces without becoming someone you’re not. It’s about disappointment, boundaries, healing, and choosing peace over pettiness (even when the Notes app revenge messages are right there).
Grab your favorite cup of coffee and join me, Nabbihun, as we navigate the chaos, beauty, and growing pains of life in your 20s. From surviving university and staying balanced to building friendships, studying smarter, and exploring faith, this podcast is about self-discovery. Whether you're dealing with breakups, finding your identity outside of being the "older sibling," or romanticizing your life, we’re in this together. Expect real talk, girly pop culture, and cozy chats that feel like catching up with your best friend. Let’s sip, share, and learn—there’s always a latte to learn!
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