A Latte to Learn

Can friendships survive when two people don’t feel equally secure in themselves?

In this episode of A Latte to Learn, we explore the quiet tension that happens when growth, confidence, and insecurity collide within friendships. From subtle shifts in energy to the guilt of outgrowing people you love, this conversation unpacks what it really means to navigate relationships in different seasons of self-worth.

This episode is for anyone who has ever felt like they had to dim themselves, hesitate before sharing good news, or question whether they’re outgrowing someone or themselves.

Feeling uninspired? You’re not lazy, you might just be outgrowing the version of yourself that relied on motivation to get through life.

In this episode, I share my three-month struggle with overwhelm, creative blocks, and questioning my own spark. We talk about why motivation is fleeting, why showing up consistently matters more, and how identity (not inspiration) drives real growth.

If you’ve ever felt stuck or flat, this episode is your reminder that shedding old versions of yourself is uncomfortable… but necessary for what’s next.

In this finale of season one, I’m spilling the realness: the struggles, the wins, the quiet joys, and everything I learned this year. No resolutions, just small life goals, big lessons, and a whole lot of gratitude.

From anxiety and friendships that shifted, to music, matcha lattes, and moments that kept me steady- this episode is for anyone ending 2025 tired, hopeful, or somewhere in between.

Grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and join me for the last sip of 2025.

In this episode, Nabbihun shares her family’s story of losing her aunty to gender-based violence. She unpacks South Africa’s femicide crisis, the failures of our justice system, and the urgent need for community action. This episode discusses themes of violence and may be distressing to some listeners.
If you or someone you know is affected by GBV:
​GBV Command Centre: 0800 428 428 / SMS “HELP” to 31531
​LifeLine SA: 0861 322 322
​POWA (People Opposing Women Abuse): 011 642 4345

Why is everyone in a situationship? In this episode of A Latte to Learn, we’re spilling the coffee on the messy middle ground between “just friends” and “officially dating.” Situationships can feel cozy and exciting, but underneath, they’re often just cracked mugs- leaking energy, time, and self-worth.
We’ll unpack:
​What a situationship really is (and why it’s not as casual as it looks)
​Why our generation clings to “almost relationships”
​The emotional toll of living in limbo
​The red flags you might be ignoring (yes, ghosting counts)
​How to stop settling for crumbs and ask for the clarity you deserve
This episode is your gentle nudge to stop auditioning for a role you already deserve. Because crumbs aren’t a meal, and you’re not asking for too much, you might just be asking the wrong person.