Brit invites Eli Vasquez, a personal development and dating coach, to
discuss the patterns of self-sabotage in relationships and how to break free from them. Eli shares his journey from being a self-proclaimed 'reformed fuckboy' to becoming a coach who helps individuals heal their inner child and establish healthy boundaries in love and dating. They delve into the dynamics of seeking validation, the differences between men and women in relationships, and the societal expectations that shape these behaviors.
Eli offers practical advice on how to navigate the modern dating landscape, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection, setting boundaries, and holding space for emotional growth. The discussion also touches on generational shifts in emotional openness, the male loneliness epidemic, and the transformative power of facing one's vulnerabilities with compassion.
— and follow him on Tiktok and Instagram (@itselivazquez).
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Why your divorce attorney should go on your next first date with Michele Locke & Jake Deptula
Michele Locke, a divorce attorney, and Jake Deptula, an advocate for
survivors of toxic relationships and host of the podcast 'LoveLustFear,'
join Brittani Ard to talk about love and relationships, red and green flags,
effective communication, and how to date wisely at any stage of life. The three also explore the dynamics of dating after traumatic relationships and the resilience of individuals who have endured toxic relationships.
Make sure to check out Michele and Jakes upcoming podcast, LovelLustLaw.
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Madison McGhee | When closure is a myth and justice is hard won
Madison McGhee from Ice Cold Case joins Brittani Ard to talk about something we don't discuss enough: how social media makes grief feel performative and what that pressure does to families dealing with tragedy.
Madison gets real about why her dad's murder is still unsolved, the wild misconceptions people have about the case, and the power of public pressure. Madison also catches Brit up on what she's been up to—her tour, Teen Vogue Op-Ed , and her new podcast L.A. Crimes with the L.A. Times.
It's an honest conversation about turning your worst moment into something that might help other people, and all the messy stuff that comes with that.
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Gina and Viv | Road trips & moving in together
Brittani Ard catches up with Gina and Viv, whose journey from broken trust to renewed connection captivated listeners in season 2. In this intimate follow-up conversation, they reflect on their deliberate approach to rebuilding their relationship—establishing boundaries, embracing vulnerability, and finding patience in the healing process. Gina and Viv share how they've navigated the delicate balance between honoring past wounds and creating new foundations, offering insights into the subtle yet profound work of restoring trust after betrayal.
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Introducing The Secret Room
We will be back next week with another episode of You Probably Think This Story's About You. In the meantime enjoy this episode of The Secret Room.
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The Secret Room: “On the Backs of Turtles.”
Dustin reveals a childhood secret he kept from his father for thirty years. The story centers on a regrettable and cruel act Dustin committed as a child, which, unbeknownst to his father, had a profound impact on their relationship. Despite the initial harm caused by Dustin's actions, the secret unfolds into a heartwarming tale of reconciliation and the enduring bond between father and son. The story is an exploration of guilt, redemption, and the complexities of familial relationships, culminating in a touching moment that underscores the power of forgiveness and understanding.
Host: Ben Hamm
Producer: Susie Lark
Website: secretroompod.com
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This isn’t your typical true crime story.
Brittani Ard steps back into the shadowy labyrinth of memories, scars, and fragile ties that bind us to our past. Where wounds still ache and the bonds of connection blur between salvation and entrapment. After revealing her own story in the first 8 chapters, she’s pulling at the threads of the past—threads so delicate they threaten to unravel everything.
This time, it’s not just her story. It’s the stories of others whose lives intertwine with hers in ways no one could have predicted. A woman searches for a photograph of her abusive ex, but the picture holds more than just memories. A foster youth exchanges black trash bags for a voice that refuses to be silenced anymore, revealing a haunting past that demands to be heard. And a story of rekindled love, as strength and vulnerability collide to reveal what was always meant to be.
You Probably Think This Story’s About You is raw, haunting, and achingly human—a tapestry of messy, beautiful lessons stitched together by the lives we touch and the stories we share. The secrets we carried no longer have power over us
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