The Attitude Lounge Podcast

In this episode of The Attitude Lounge Podcast, I sit down with Arielle Arbushites, MSW, LSW, CPLC, ACHP-SW, a poet, published writer, and social worker whose work beautifully brings together storytelling, connection, grief, and the experiences that shape our lives.

As a writer, Arielle’s poetry collection, Toast While the World Burns, was recently published by Bottlecap Press, and her work has also appeared in professional journals. Her first book "cracking at the Heels" was her first poetry collection sold in 2024. She has two more books being published by two different presses later this year (2026). Poetry is one of the ways she gives voice to thoughts, emotions, and lived experiences. She also brings her voice and perspective to The Cozy Corner Counseling Services as a blog writer, using the written word to explore topics that connect with everyday life and emotional well-being.

As a social worker specializing in hospice and grief, Arielle supports individuals and families through some of life’s most tender moments. That same compassion carries into her community service work with seniors at Heather Glen Assisted Living, where she spends time listening to residents, helping preserve their life stories, memories, and reflections, and even writing personalized poetry for some of the residents. Through stories, letters, and poetry, she helps turn their experiences into meaningful words that can be treasured and shared.

We talk about the intersection of writing, grief, memory, purpose, and legacy, and the importance of slowing down, listening, and creating space for people to tell the stories that matter to them.

Because every life holds a story, and your story matters.

Arielle's book, Toast While the World Burns, is availableto order through Bottlecap Press.

Be sure to follow Arielle's work on socia media to stay connected with her writing, poetry, and latest projects  ⁨@Writingthewayhome⁩ Youtube, Instagram and Facebook. 
B-Roll Photo Credits:
Photography and video featured in this episode courtesy of @girldadcolin and @writingmywayhome
Remember: Asking for help is not a sign of weakness. Knowing when you need support, and taking the step to seek it, is part of honoring your mental health and staying true to yourself.
If you are in need of immediate assistance, please contact your local crisis county hotline, go to your nearest emergency room, or call 911. 
County Resources:
Lehigh County Crisis Intervention: 610-782-3127
Northampton Country Crisis Intervention: 1-610-252-9060
Carbon County Crisis Intervention: (610) 377-0773
Monroe County Crisis Intervention: (570) 421-2901
Pikes Country Crisis Intervention: (570) 296-6484
National Resources:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255
National Crisis Text Line: Text741741
Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call/Text 988
The Attitude Lounge experience is made even more special through the generosity of our amazing community partners; Earthshine Holistics, Halo Scent Fragrance Bar, Panchita’s Kitchen, and Bea’s Baked Art! 💛

Thank you for being part of The Attitude Lounge family and helping us make every guest feel welcomed, valued, and celebrated!
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Tiffany Castillo is the owner of The Cozy Corner Counseling and a licensed Pennsylvania counselor with a heart for helping people. She has created a warm, welcoming space where individuals, couples, and families can feel heard, supported, and encouraged as they work through life's challenges.

Tiffany is passionate about helping people build healthier relationships, set boundaries without guilt, improve communication, and learn to care for themselves just as much as they care for everyone else. Her approach is down-to-earth, compassionate, and centered on meeting people where they are, reminding us that healing and growth happen one step at a time.

In this episode of The Attitude Lounge, I'm joined by Tiffany. Together, we explore the importance of setting healthy boundaries, recognizing the relationships that help us grow, and finding the courage to stay true to who you are, even when it's difficult. We also discuss how self-awareness, communication, and personal growth can transform the way we connect with others and with ourselves.

Whether you're navigating friendships, family dynamics, romantic relationships, or simply learning to prioritize your own well-being, this conversation offers meaningful perspective, practical insight, and heartfelt encouragement to remind you that protecting your peace isn't selfish, it's an important part of living authentically. 
Mental Health Disclaimer:
The Attitude Lounge and Tiffany are here to create a safe space for conversation, awareness, encouragement, and connection. However, Tiffany is not your therapist, and The Attitude Lounge does not provide professional mental health counseling or therapy.
The conversations shared on this episode are intended for educational and informational purposes and are not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you are experiencing emotional distress or feel that you need additional support, we encourage you to connect with a licensed mental health professional or explore community-based mental health resources and services available in your local area.
Remember: Asking for help is not a sign of weakness. Knowing when you need support, and taking the step to seek it, is part of honoring your mental health and staying true to yourself.
If you are in need of immediate assistance, please contact your local crisis county hotline, go to your nearest emergency room, or call 911. 
County Resources:
Lehigh County Crisis Intervention: 610-782-3127
Northampton Country Crisis Intervention: 1-610-252-9060
Carbon County Crisis Intervention: (610) 377-0773
Monroe County Crisis Intervention: (570) 421-2901
Pikes Country Crisis Intervention: (570) 296-6484
National Resources:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255
National Crisis Text Line: Text741741
Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call/Text 988
The Attitude Lounge experience:
The Attitude Lounge experience is made even more special through the generosity of our amazing community partners; Earthshine Holistics, Halo Scent Fragrance Bar, Panchita’s Kitchen, and Bea’s Baked Art! 💛
Thank you for sharing your sample products and gifts with our guests and helping us create a thoughtful goodie bag filled with little touches of love, self-care, creativity, and community. Your generosity adds an extra layer to the Lounge experience and reminds us that when we support one another, we create something truly special. ✨
Thank you for being part of The Attitude Lounge family and helping us make every guest feel welcomed, valued, and celebrated!
You may support this podcast by following us on Instagram, Facebook, and subscribe to YouTube 
Thank you,
AdDiTude

Step into a world where fragrance becomes an experience with Mildred Shehab, founder and experience curator of Halo Scent Fragrance Bar. More than a mobile perfume station, Halo Scent Fragrance Bar transforms celebrations into immersive sensory experiences where guests discover, blend, and create signature scents that capture the essence of life's most meaningful moments.
With a passion for connection, creativity, and intentional details, Mildred has designed an elevated fragrance experience that invites guests to explore carefully curated scent notes and craft personalized perfumes, and room sprays. Halo Scent Fragrance Bars create memorable, interactive guest experiences that combine personalization with luxury. 
Halo Scent Fragrance Bar offers bespoke experiences for:
*Weddings and bridal showers
*Baby showers and birthdays 
*Corporate and networking events 
*Brand activations and private parties
*Pop-up experiences
*Community gatherings and so much more 
Every activation is thoughtfully curated to reflect each host's vision, ensuring every detail from scent selections to packaging and presentation feels unique and unforgettable.
At the heart of Halo Scent Fragrance Bar is Mildred's belief that scent has the power to evoke memories, spark emotion, and create meaningful connections. Through her expertise and creativity, she transforms ordinary events into unforgettable moments that guests can literally take with them long after the celebration ends.
You may contact Mildred via her Halo Scent Fragrance Bar social platforms:
Facebook       Instagram      TikTok
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In this episode of The Attitude Lounge, we sit down with Taisha (Tai) Alonzo, the heart behind Earthshine Holistics, to talk about wellness, intentional living, and creating a brand rooted in purpose.

* Essential oils
* Candles
* Teas
* Soaps
* Body Scrubs
* Breath Work

Taisha shares how she uses creativity and mindfulness to create products and experiences that encourage people to slow down, reset, and reconnect with themselves. She also opens up about the intentionality she pours into every product she makes, making sure each item carries calming energy, care, and meaning. We dive into the balance she carries as a mother, wife, employee at From Lino, and entrepreneurship, while discussing self-care, discipline, and staying grounded through it all.

This episode is filled with peaceful energy, inspiration, conversation, community connection, and a reminder that passion, healing, and purpose can beautifully coexist.

Please show her some love and follow her social media platforms on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok @earthshineholistics

If you would like to purchase any of Earthshine Holistics wellness products, they are available on the website here.

If you would like to schedule a Breathwork session, you may do that through the website here. If you have any questions, contact Earthshine Holistics here.

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When Lili Nieves of Simply Lili steps into The Attitude Lounge, she brings more than a story, she brings:
Truth,
Resilience,
and heart. 
As a former teenage single mom, Lili shares how she refused to let her circumstances define her. She went back to school and earned her associate’s and bachelor’s degrees, proving that it’s never too late to rewrite your story. 
In this deeply moving conversation, Lili opens up about the unimaginable loss of her son, the ongoing journey of forgiveness, and what healing really looks like when life doesn’t go as planned. She also speaks candidly about the strength it takes to navigate her daughters’ health challenges, while still showing up with faith, purpose, and intention; because through God everything is possible.
For years the idea of starting a podcast lived in her heart, but it wasn't until she fully embraced it, that she realized there will never be a "perfect" time. And so, Simply Lili was born. What started as a calling became her purpose:
A space to share her stories,
Healing is spoken into existence,
 and women are reminded that their voice still matters. 
This episode speaks directly to women, especially those in their 50s, who are rediscovering themselves, reclaiming their voice, and realizing it’s never too late to live with meaning. Raw, honest, and full of grace, this is a conversation about pain, purpose, resilience, and the power of continuing on.  
You may catch Simply Lili, on major podcast platforms such as Spotify and YouTube. Please, show her some love on her podcast. She is currently on season three.
You may support this podcast by following us on Instagram, Facebook, and subscribe to YouTube 
Thank you,
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