She Who Has Ears

In this episode, we talk about one of the most dangerous patterns women fall into: spiritualizing a man’s poor behaviour and calling it faith. Cheating. Lying. Inconsistency. Emotional neglect, all reframed as “spiritual attacks” instead of what they really are: character issues. This is a gentle but honest conversation about self-abandonment, misplaced responsibility, and the moment you stop carrying what was never yours to fix. If you’ve ever felt torn between “being patient” and protecting your peace, or felt responsible for fixing, praying through, or enduring what’s hurting you, this episode is for you.

When love requires constant endurance, something is wrong. This episode explores the hidden cost of staying too long, suffering quietly, and abandoning yourself in the name of love.

You’re praying for clarity, peace, and elevation in your life, but what if the real blockage isn’t spiritual at all? What if your blessings are on pause because a man is occupying the space meant for God, your calling, and your true self? In this episode, we break down the hidden ways you abandon yourself, silence your intuition, and delay your destiny, without even realizing it. If you’ve been feeling stuck or disconnected, this episode will feel like a mirror.

Pour a cup of something warm and sit with me. Today we’re peeling back the layers on overthinking, fear, and the ego, and learning how to return to peace again. 🌹

The Danish Deception wasn’t just shocking because of the scam. It was shocking because of how easily a woman can lose herself when she loves from an empty place. In this episode, I’m unpacking the part no one on TikTok talked about: THE WOUND behind Onyeka Ehie’s choices.