christian dating: crushes, talking stages, boundaries & everything in between
in this episode, we take a real and faith-based look at christian dating — from the butterflies of a crush to navigating boundaries and keeping God at the center. here’s the breakdown:
01:29 – understanding the why
05:12 – love vs lust
06:42 – having a crush
11:46 – talking stages
19:38 – going on dates
21:26 – flirting
24:38 – relationship boundaries
27:56 – how far is too far
29:56 – how do the abstinence girlies do it
33:38 – helping your partner during spiritual lows
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religion VS relationship
Do you have a relationship with God or are you just following religion? Let’s talk about it on today’s episode! ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv
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fear, anxiety, and how to overcome the battles of the mind! (MUST LISTEN)
The enemy’s greatest attack isn’t always on your finances, career, or relationships — it’s your mind. In this episode, we expose how the enemy uses lies to keep you stuck: making you believe you’re unworthy, unforgivable, or unloved. Once he has your thoughts, you do the job for him. Let’s talk about taking back your mind and walking in the truth and freedom God has already given you.Podcast description ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv
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how long will you be a baby Christian?
How long will you be a baby Christian?Hebrews 5:12-14 talks about believers still needing milk when they should be eating solid food. Many of us stay spiritually immature because we hold onto the world, ignore God’s voice, and keep pleasing our flesh over our spirit. Let’s talk about what it really means to grow in Christ and move from baby steps to deeper faith.Timelapse 0:00 – Introduction4:51 – What does it mean to be a baby Christian?5:40 – Things that keep you spiritually immature9:40 – What does spiritual maturity look like?11:40 – How to grow out of being a baby Christian✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv
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financial worries, rejection, before Christ era, and trusting God as a Father
Hiiii DTS FAMMMM!!!!!! 🥹Just a quick note – there’s a little editing glitch in the first 3 minutes 😭 I was editing on my PC for the first time and somehow missed it, so thank you for your grace! 🙏🏽✨ Still hope the episode blesses you. 💚I’ve missed you so much!Today’s episode is a life update on how this year has been so far (spoiler alert: not so great 🥲). I also met my younger self for coffee and reflected on where I was before Christ. ☕✨✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv⏱️ Timestamps:0:00 – Welcome + little life update6:00 – Reintroducing Death to Self7:06 – Introducing myself (kinda)9:13 – What God has been teaching me this year12:38 – dealing with Financial worry15:32 – God is the best DAD18:46 – I met my younger self for coffee
Death to self is a podcast navigating Christianity in your 20s. Every week, we dive into what culture says versus what the Word says regarding various topics. Our main focus is to build our identity in Christ and being in the world and not of it. Buckle up with your host, @k.pearlliee as we take over the Kingdom!
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