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What do men in their 50s, 60s, and 70s see about dating today that we don’t?

After hearing from single men and married men, the most requested follow-up was this: bring in men who have actually lived it. Decades of marriage. Decades of mistakes, growth, and faith.

So we did.

We sat down with three older Christian men who have 30 to 50 years of marriage, ministry, and life behind them and asked them the same questions our generation is asking about dating, love, sex, and commitment.

This conversation is less about trends and more about truth that will endure through time.

We’ll talk about:
How their view of attraction and what really matters has changed over time

What romance actually looks like after decades of marriage

The biggest mistakes they made that younger people should avoid

What they see in today’s dating culture that is harmful or foolish

What actually keeps a marriage alive for 30, 40, 50 years

How to keep pursuing your spouse long after the honeymoon phase

What they would tell their 25 year old selves about relationships

What they think about porn, hookup culture, and sexual temptation today

How to build a marriage that lasts through hard seasons

The most important qualities to look for in a spouse

What they are most proud of when they look at their lives now

This episode is not fast advice. It is long-view wisdom.

If you want a marriage that actually lasts, you need to listen to people who have already done it.

Let’s talk about it 👇
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

In a culture where sex is expected early and often… what does it actually look like to wait? Not as a rule, and not out of fear, but as a real, personal conviction.

In this episode, we sit down with three Gen Z Christians who have chosen to wait for marriage. Not because they think they’re better than anyone else, but because they’re trying to live out what God designed for intimacy and relationships.

We brought both guys and girls into the conversation on purpose, because this hits differently depending on who you are and what you’ve experienced.

And we didn’t keep it surface level. We talked about desire, temptation, dating, boundaries, and the questions most people are thinking but not saying out loud.

We’ll talk about:
Why they’re actually choosing to wait and how that conviction formed

The stereotypes people assume about them when they find out

Whether waiting feels unrealistic or like they’re “missing out”

How they handle sexual desire, temptation, and intrusive thoughts

Porn, masturbation, and navigating grey areas in relationships

How to communicate boundaries without making it weird

What it’s like dating while holding that line

Whether they’ve lost relationships because of it

What they’d say to someone who feels disqualified because of their past

What they’ve actually gained by choosing to wait

This isn’t a conversation about perfection. It’s about real people trying to follow God in a culture that’s going the opposite direction.

If you’ve ever felt alone in this, confused about what’s right, or unsure if waiting is even worth it… this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇
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Miss our last podcast episode?
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

In a culture where sex is expected early and often… what does it actually look like to wait? Not as a rule, and not out of fear, but as a real, personal conviction.

In this episode, we sit down with three Gen Z Christians who have chosen to wait for marriage. Not because they think they’re better than anyone else, but because they’re trying to live out what God designed for intimacy and relationships.

We brought both guys and girls into the conversation on purpose, because this hits differently depending on who you are and what you’ve experienced.

And we didn’t keep it surface level. We talked about desire, temptation, dating, boundaries, and the questions most people are thinking but not saying out loud.

We’ll talk about:
Why they’re actually choosing to wait and how that conviction formed

The stereotypes people assume about them when they find out

Whether waiting feels unrealistic or like they’re “missing out”

How they handle sexual desire, temptation, and intrusive thoughts

Porn, masturbation, and navigating grey areas in relationships

How to communicate boundaries without making it weird

What it’s like dating while holding that line

Whether they’ve lost relationships because of it

What they’d say to someone who feels disqualified because of their past

What they’ve actually gained by choosing to wait

This isn’t a conversation about perfection. It’s about real people trying to follow God in a culture that’s going the opposite direction.

If you’ve ever felt alone in this, confused about what’s right, or unsure if waiting is even worth it… this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇
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⏰ Timestamps ⏰
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Links:

Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 

Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448 
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Connect with us:
➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc
➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/
➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev
➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com

Miss our last podcast episode?
Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/iPnbz4UfmZc 

God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

In a culture where sex is expected early and often… what does it actually look like to wait? Not as a rule, and not out of fear, but as a real, personal conviction.

In this episode, we sit down with three Gen Z Christians who have chosen to wait for marriage. Not because they think they’re better than anyone else, but because they’re trying to live out what God designed for intimacy and relationships.

We brought both guys and girls into the conversation on purpose, because this hits differently depending on who you are and what you’ve experienced.

And we didn’t keep it surface level. We talked about desire, temptation, dating, boundaries, and the questions most people are thinking but not saying out loud.

We’ll talk about:
Why they’re actually choosing to wait and how that conviction formed

The stereotypes people assume about them when they find out

Whether waiting feels unrealistic or like they’re “missing out”

How they handle sexual desire, temptation, and intrusive thoughts

Porn, masturbation, and navigating grey areas in relationships

How to communicate boundaries without making it weird

What it’s like dating while holding that line

Whether they’ve lost relationships because of it

What they’d say to someone who feels disqualified because of their past

What they’ve actually gained by choosing to wait

This isn’t a conversation about perfection. It’s about real people trying to follow God in a culture that’s going the opposite direction.

If you’ve ever felt alone in this, confused about what’s right, or unsure if waiting is even worth it… this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇
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Links:

Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 

Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448 
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Connect with us:
➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc
➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/
➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev
➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com

Miss our last podcast episode?
Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/iPnbz4UfmZc 

God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

What if calling off your wedding isn’t failure… but obedience?

Broken engagements are one of the most painful and misunderstood experiences in Christian dating. There’s pressure to push through doubts. Pressure from timelines, money already spent, other people’s expectations. And underneath all of it, a quiet question most people are afraid to say out loud:
What if this isn’t right?

In this episode, we sit down with three Christians who love God, wanted marriage, and still made the decision to call off their engagements.

We talk about the slow realization that something was off, the internal wrestle between fear and discernment, and what it actually looks like to walk away when everything in your life is moving toward a wedding.

We’ll talk about:
The moment they first sensed something wasn’t right

Whether they ignored red flags and why

The pressure to stay when doubts started creeping in

How they knew it was time to call it off instead of “fight for it”

The fear of disobeying God by walking away

What people said and how they handled the questions

The lies they had to fight after everything ended

How to trust your ability to hear God again

What healing actually looked like in the aftermath

How to move forward without fear, shame, or regret

This episode is not about shaming anyone. It’s not about creating fear around commitment.

It’s for the person who feels uneasy but cannot explain why. The person who feels pressure to move forward but knows something is off. The person wondering if it’s too late to pause.

A broken engagement is not a broken future.

Let’s talk about it 👇
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⏰ Timestamps ⏰
(0:00) — Intro
(1:36) — Why we're talking about broken engagements
(3:54) — How did you meet the person you were engaged to?
(4:55) — How long were you dating before the engagement?
(5:10) — How sure were you when you said yes to the proposal?
(6:22) — How long were you engaged before it ended?
(7:31)— Who made the final call to end it?
(7:59) — What was God teaching you in that season?
(9:00) — How do you regain trust in your ability to hear God's voice?
(14:00) — Did you ever feel like you were disobeying God in the relationship?
(16:01) — What lies from the enemy did you have to fight?
(18:23) — How to respond when people ask what happened
(21:10) — Wisdom on keeping relationships off social media
(24:10) — How long does it take to heal after a broken engagement?
(27:54) — The role of therapy in healing
(29:42) — Breaking inner vows and walking in repentance
(31:24) — Overcoming trust issues and fear of vulnerability after heartbreak
(35:01) — What to do when your ex moves on quickly39:15 — Stop feeding your pain on social media
(40:10) — How to know if you should call it off or stick it out
(43:03) — Breaking up vs. breaking an engagement vs. breaking a marriage
(44:06) — Anxiety vs. a deep knowing that it's not right
(46:28) — The difference between relationship anxiety and needing to end it
(49:46) — A broken engagement is not a broken future
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Links:
Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 
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Connect with us:
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Miss our last podcast episode?
Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/1ij2Hl1nGOs 
God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.