CockTales: Dirty Discussions

• Ep. 466 Tired of Toxic Love? Let’s Talk Breaking the Bare Minimum Cycle ft. Kamilla Davis

  Tired of Toxic Love? Let’s Talk Breaking the Bare Minimum CycleWe’re TIRED. Like… “pour me another drink and block his number” tired. This week, Kiki and Medinah are talking all things toxic love — from those “situationships” that drain your energy to the men who swear they’re emotionally available but can’t even text back.Our guest, comedian Kamilla Davis (@kdaviscomedy), joins us for some real and raw girl talk about love, loyalty, and the lies we tell ourselves to stay in bad relationships. We’re laughing through the pain, unpacking manipulation disguised as “effort,” and getting honest about how to finally choose peace over potential.If you’ve ever felt stuck in something that looked like love but felt like labor, this one’s for you. Tune in for laughs, healing, and a few hard truths about what it really means to stop entertaining the bare minimum.Chapters:00:00:02 - Intro: We’re Tired, Sis00:01:14 - Host Catch-Up00:05:22 - Meet Kamilla Davis00:12:42 - Game Time00:20:09 - Luteal Phase Realness00:31:33 - The Dog Drama00:36:05 - Leftovers and Letdowns00:41:16 - When Love Feels Like Labor00:55:22 - Clean House, Clear Mind01:12:52 - Laugh Through the Pain🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsGo to www.brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% offsitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.Links Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon October “The Landlord” by Brandon Massey  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info https://give.lulaslegacyoflovefoundation.org/event/save-the-tatas-2-0/e697283📲 Follow Us:  Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast  @kikisaidso @coffeebeandeanFollow Our Guest@kdaviscomedyContact Us!Advice:  [email protected]: [email protected] Sex: [email protected]/Ads/Paid Collabs: [email protected] Request/ General Inquiries: [email protected] Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoCheck Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancyTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

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• Why Are So Many Women Accepting the Bare Minimum?

  Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back for part two of their extended catch-up episode — and this time they’re tackling why so many women are accepting the bare minimum in dating, health, and life. From low vitamin D and unaddressed hormone issues to low-effort men and unrealized self-worth, this episode blends comedy, confession, and a few uncomfortable truths. Plus, the “Weird Sex” story of the week will leave you in disbelief (hint: it involves an ER visit and a butt plug).Detailed Show NotesSubtitle: From Low Vitamin D to Low Standards — Time to Raise BothTopics Covered💆🏽‍♀️ Cupping, Muscle Alignment & Back Pain: Kiki’s wild story about her body going on strike and how therapy (of the physical kind) brought her back.☀️ Low Vitamin D, Hormone Health & Mental Clarity: Medinah opens up about her emotional lows and discovering that her sadness wasn’t just in her head — it was in her bloodwork.💉 Redefining “Normal”: Why “normal” test results don’t always mean healthy, and how systemic biases in medicine impact Black women.💕 Dating Culture & the Bare Minimum Epidemic: The ladies react to a shocking revelation — some women have never been taken on a real date. They discuss how to raise standards, heal from bad patterns, and stop mistaking attention for effort.💬 Community and Connection: From breast cancer awareness walks to social clubs and single-mom dinners, Kiki and Medinah highlight women-centered spaces that foster real sisterhood.😳 Weird Sex Story of the Week: An ER visit turns into an unforgettable discovery when a routine scan reveals a little… extra hardware.✨ Final Thoughts: Taking care of your body, guarding your heart, and demanding better in every area of life — from doctors to dates.🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsGo to www.brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% offsitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.Links Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon October “The Landlord” by Brandon Massey  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info📲 Follow Us:  Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast  @kikisaidso @coffeebeandeanContact Us!Advice:  [email protected]: [email protected] Sex: [email protected]/Ads/Paid Collabs: [email protected] Request/ General Inquiries: [email protected] Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoCheck Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancyTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

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• Soft Life, Hard Lessons

  Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back in the studio catching up on everything from dating guilt to setting boundaries with moms, lovers, and LinkedIn connects. This episode is peak grown woman era — reflective, funny, and real.The ladies talk about embracing the freedom of dating multiple people without shame, learning when to speak up (even to family), and why being “too nice” might just be messing up your love life.You’ll also hear about Medinah’s Meals on Wheels volunteer birthday, her gala honor, and her new Lover Girl Retreat in Thailand — plus Kiki’s new collab, her take on the “Winter Arc” trend, and why LinkedIn just became her new favorite social app.They close it out with reflections on reading more, healing from burnout, and what it means to stay authentic when life gets messy.Cocktail of the Week: Unruly — just champagne, because we’re celebrating making it through another week.🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsIf you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparterLinks Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon October “The Landlord” by Brandon Massey  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info📲 Follow Us:  Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast  @kikisaidso @coffeebeandeanContact Us!Advice:  [email protected]: [email protected] : [email protected]/Ads/Paid Collabs: [email protected] Request/ General Inquiries: [email protected] Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoCheck Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancyTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

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• Libra Season! Friendships, Rituals & Red Flags

  (00:00:00) Libra Season! Friendships, Rituals & Red Flags (00:00:01) Intro Trailer (00:01:30) LIBRA LEMON DROP RECIPE (00:05:16) ANNOUNCEMENTS (00:07:38) KIKI'S BOOK CLUB (00:11:23) XOMAN PODCAST (00:13:47) HEDONISM WITH WORST BEHAVIOR TOUR STARTING AT $1650 (00:17:26) LIFERX USE CODE COCKTALES (00:22:13) WEIRD SEX (00:44:19) SOAKINGWET.COM USE CODE COCKTALES (00:47:16) DISSAPOINMENTS 7 THE JOY OF SHOWING UP (01:03:15) I'M CURIOUS TO KNOW (01:05:01) advice - send yours [email protected] This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are back with an unfiltered girl chat—no guest, just us! We kick things off with a Libra Lemon Drop cocktail and dive into Libra season vibes, astrology, and friendship dynamics. From growing apart after kids to showing up for friends’ milestones, we get real about what it means to maintain connections through life’s transitions.We also share self-rituals, birthday traditions, and our takes on communication struggles—whether it’s boring conversations, copycat friends, or partners who just won’t open up. Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without a wild story, and this week’s birthday cake incident will have you cackling. Plus, Indecisive Diane drops in with advice, and we tackle listener questions about threesomes and friend drama.Pour a drink, press play, and let’s talk friendships, growth, and keeping it spicy.🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsVisit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10%off💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188Links Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon September “Tethered Love by Kimberly Brown www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info📲 Follow Us:  Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Contact Us!Advice:  [email protected]: [email protected] Sex: [email protected]/Ads/Paid Collabs: [email protected] Request/ General Inquiries: [email protected] Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoCheck Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancyTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.com✨ Chapters:00:00:00 - Intro Teaser: Growing Apart from Friends00:00:19 - Self Traditions and Rituals00:00:33 - Conversation Control00:00:50 - Growing Apart After Having Kids00:01:12 - Cocktales: Dirty Discussions Introduction00:01:30 - Libra Lemon Drop Cocktail Recipe00:02:04 - Libra Season Discussion00:03:07 - Friends and Astrology Signs00:05:16 - Announcements and Updates00:07:38 - Book Club Meeting00:11:23 - XO Man Podcast00:13:47 - Worst Behavior Tour Trip to Negril, Jamaica00:15:31 - Excitement for the Upcoming Trip to Turkey00:15:58 - Discussing Body Positivity and Self Sex Education00:16:18 - Gift of Experiences00:17:08 - Reflecting on Friendships00:17:26 - LifeRX Segment: Health and Fitness Journey with Life Rx MD00:22:13 - Weird S*x Story: Birthday Cake Incident00:26:27 - Growing Apart from Friends: Perspectives00:31:40 - Speaking Up in Relationships and Friendships00:34:10 - The Elasticity of the Heart00:36:26 - Self Reflection and Personal Growth00:39:53 - Birthday Rituals and Traditions00:40:30 - Appreciation for Massages00:44:19 - Ad: VB Health: Soaking Wet Pills00:46:54 - Soaking Wet Ad00:47:16 - Disappointments in Friendships00:47:54 - The Joy of Showing Up00:50:50 - Surprising Nephew in LA00:52:57 - Supporting Friends' Events00:55:34 - The Importance of Communication00:56:30 - The Struggles of Boring Conversations01:01:38 - The Importance of Hobbies01:02:15 - Dealing with Non-Communicative People01:02:50 - Creating Conversations and Breaking the Silence01:03:15 - Promoting I'm Curious to Know.com01:03:55 - Indecisive Diane01:05:01 - Advice Segment Introduction01:05:43 - Advice: Exploring Threesomes01:11:45 - Advice: Dealing with Copycat FriendsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

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• Why Friendship First Makes Marriage Last (w/ Jenna and Dontay of Love & Fly S*** Podcast)

  This week on CockTales Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with Jenna and Dontay, the married duo behind the Love and Fly Sh*t podcast. They open up about their 11-year marriage, raising kids, trust, sex, and how to keep love fresh when life gets real. From funny wedding memories to navigating parenting without family nearby, this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of wisdom for anyone curious about what makes relationships work long-term.Detailed Show Notes:Marriage, Partnership & Real Love LessonsTopics Covered:How Jenna & Dontay went from teenage crushes to married with two kidsWhat they believe are the “silent killers” of marriageWhy trust has to be earned but also given with graceThe role of sex and intimacy in keeping a relationship aliveTheir wild destination wedding + missing the flight to their honeymoonAdjusting to parenthood, postpartum struggles, and learning balanceWhy friendship and communication are the foundation of their marriageLessons for singles about what to look for in a lifelong partnerLinks Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Me in Jamaica at Hedo with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk InfoGo to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code cocktales at checkout to get 30% off sitewide.  This offer is not available anywhere else.💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandeanGUESTS: @LOVEANDFLYSHT 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us!Advice:  [email protected]: [email protected] S*x: [email protected]: [email protected] Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover!Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] todayChapters:00:00 – Intro & Cocktail of the Week: The Blushing Bride02:00 – Meet Jenna & Dontay of Love and Fly Sht Podcast*04:00 – Relationship games & defining cheating09:00 – Trust, honesty & grace in marriage13:00 – Destination wedding & honeymoon chaos17:00 – 11 years of marriage: what keeps it fresh27:00 – Do married people miss being single?31:00 – Kids, postpartum, and learning balance37:00 – Silent killers of marriage: communication, resentment & sex44:00 – Living together before marriage50:00 – Long engagements & playbook myths53:00 – How to choose the right partnerBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

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