CockTales: Dirty Discussions

• Why Friendship First Makes Marriage Last (w/ Jenna and Dontay of Love & Fly S*** Podcast)

  This week on CockTales Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with Jenna and Dontay, the married duo behind the Love and Fly Sh*t podcast. They open up about their 11-year marriage, raising kids, trust, sex, and how to keep love fresh when life gets real. From funny wedding memories to navigating parenting without family nearby, this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of wisdom for anyone curious about what makes relationships work long-term.Detailed Show Notes:Marriage, Partnership & Real Love LessonsTopics Covered:How Jenna & Dontay went from teenage crushes to married with two kidsWhat they believe are the “silent killers” of marriageWhy trust has to be earned but also given with graceThe role of sex and intimacy in keeping a relationship aliveTheir wild destination wedding + missing the flight to their honeymoonAdjusting to parenthood, postpartum struggles, and learning balanceWhy friendship and communication are the foundation of their marriageLessons for singles about what to look for in a lifelong partnerLinks Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Me in Jamaica at Hedo with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk InfoGo to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code cocktales at checkout to get 30% off sitewide.  This offer is not available anywhere else.💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandeanGUESTS: @LOVEANDFLYSHT 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us!Advice:  [email protected]: [email protected] S*x: [email protected]: [email protected] Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover!Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] todayChapters:00:00 – Intro & Cocktail of the Week: The Blushing Bride02:00 – Meet Jenna & Dontay of Love and Fly Sht Podcast*04:00 – Relationship games & defining cheating09:00 – Trust, honesty & grace in marriage13:00 – Destination wedding & honeymoon chaos17:00 – 11 years of marriage: what keeps it fresh27:00 – Do married people miss being single?31:00 – Kids, postpartum, and learning balance37:00 – Silent killers of marriage: communication, resentment & sex44:00 – Living together before marriage50:00 – Long engagements & playbook myths53:00 – How to choose the right partnerBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

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• Fashionably Late: Book Club, Boundaries & Big Virgo Energy

  We’re back—fashionably late thanks to last week’s tech gremlins—but the Virgo Vixen energy is intact. Kiki and Medinah kick things off with the Virgo Vixen cocktail, then catch up on names vs. nicknames, a quick shout to Lula’s Legacy of Love (Breast Cancer walk 10/25 in Tampa), and Kiki’s Drinks & Reads book club featuring author Kimberly Brown.Kiki recaps Podcast Movement (anxiety to applause), a heavenly stop at Southern Classic Daiquiri Factory, and why her birthday plan is all about volunteering with Meals on Wheels (53 friends confirmed!). We get into Hedonism plans for December, TikTok family moments, sweet-16 prep, clubbing at Revel, and a real talk segment on dating while on a “soft pop-out”—fly-outs with boundaries, bundles discourse, and why “a lot” isn’t an insult.Medinah opens up about Paradise & Vibe Sedona: the celebrity no-show, the lessons learned, and how an intimate Lion Babe performance turned into a tiny-desk-style moment.Send us: Advice letters → [email protected] |Cocktales → [email protected] Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188Links Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with Worst Behvior Tour, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk InfoBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

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• Sip the Drip: Cocktails, GoPuff Drama & Wild Randomness

  After last week’s marathon two-hour episode, Kiki and Medinah are keeping it light with some good old-fashioned girl talk. The ladies crack open a can of Drippy, share a few laughs, rant about GoPuff, and let the conversation spiral into pure CockTales chaos. If you love the random, unfiltered energy, this one’s for you.🎉 If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188Links Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

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• The Thirst Trap Spritz Episode: Balcony Confessions, Wills, & Wild What-Ifs”

  This week’s cocktail is the Thirst Trap Spritz—a flirty, fruity sip perfect for summer. Kiki and Medinah kick things off with book club chatter about Kimberly Brown’s If You Love Me, a suspenseful love story that sparks a wild “what would you do?” debate about missing spouses and moving on. From there, the ladies dive into a Weird Sex story featuring balcony sex in Mexico (and some Atlanta sightings 👀), before checking in on their health journeys with LifeRX. The conversation takes a thoughtful turn with real talk on funerals, wills, life insurance, and why Black families need to plan ahead. Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without plenty of laughs, side stories, and chaotic tangents. Pull up a glass, sip your spritz, and join the discussion. Links Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Me in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected]: [email protected] Sex: [email protected]: [email protected] Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] todayBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

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• "Hot Yoga, Hot Men & Hot Mess Advice Letters"

  Kiki and Medinah are back with a no-guest episode full of stories, laughs, and a little real talk. From church crushes and splits that should’ve stayed retired, to wild mall chaos and situationships that feel more like soul ties, nothing is off-limits. The ladies get reflective about health, stress, and why peace is work (not silence), before diving into this week’s advice letter that mixes astrology with a messy situationship. Whether you’re here for the laughs, the life lessons, or just to hear why soda is basically crack, this episode is for you.💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedo with WBT, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk InfoGo to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get30% off sitewide.💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188Chapters 00:00 – intro & “Agua” cocktail of the week01:00 – Last week’s flirty fallout & church lust confessions04:15 – Recapping guests & male perspectives07:00 – Health reflections & stress talk10:45 – Soda = crack & healthy swaps11:30 – Save the Tatas Walk + travel updates13:00 – Travel Tribe Thailand trip plans14:00 – Drinks & Reads Book Club updates16:00 – XO Man podcast shoutout21:30 – Fashion chaos & mall fights23:00 – Sensitivity vs understanding men29:00 – Men who want “peace” but don’t do the work35:00 – Hot yoga & self-reflection36:30 – Advice Letter: Astrology & soul ties48:00 – Perfect match or perfect mess?55:00 – Knowing if someone’s really for you1:02:00 – Closing thoughts, chaos & cocktailsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

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