Cocktales with Kiki

Some of y'all have fake friends, some of y'all talk too damn much, and some of y'all are planning weddings with men who don't even like you. We have a LOT to discuss!

Kiki is back for a hilariously unfiltered solo episode of CockTales with Kiki, and this week, she's got questions. Why do people pretend to like someone just to keep a business connection? Is your friend copying your style because she admires you, or is she trying to steal your whole life? And why does your best friend know every intimate detail about your relationship?

Before getting into the advice emails, Kiki takes a few hilarious detours through chaotic reality TV, The Wild and Wonderful Whites of West Virginia, Game of Thrones family dynasties, overrated baby showers, matcha obsession, and why everybody's boyfriend doesn't need to come to girls' night.

Then things get messy in Ask Kiki, where we're tackling:Fake friends who secretly dislike each other
A copycat bestie who's taking imitation a little too far
Whether to tell your friend you hate the man she's planning to marry
How much relationship business is TOO much to share with your friends
It's friendship drama, dating advice, questionable behavior, and a whole lot of minding everybody else's business. Because Kiki might not always take her own advice, but she's got plenty for everybody else!

Every sip has a story. Grab your cocktail and get into it!

Have some messy business you need to get off your chest? Send in your anonymous confessions for Sip & Spill, or email your advice questions to advice@cocktalespod.com.Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: Would you want to know if one of your friends secretly didn't like you?

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Chapters:
00:00 Welcome & The Basic Bitch Cocktail
01:07 Reality TV & Wild Family Drama
09:08 Kiki Has Questions!
15:02 Who's the Favorite Child?
17:27 Game of Thrones & Family Dynasties
21:32 Are Y'all Actually Dating?
25:47 Fake Friends & Social Climbers
28:44 Why Is Your Man Always Here?
33:17 Tyler Perry & Housewives Thoughts
38:21 Ask Kiki: Fake Friendships
39:57 Ask Kiki: My Friend Keeps Copying Me
43:38 Ask Kiki: I Hate My Bestie's Boyfriend
54:55 Ask Kiki: My Bestie Knows Too Much

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Comedian, actress, author, and professional truth-teller Ms. Pat joins Kiki for a conversation that goes exactly where you’d expect it to… and then completely off the rails.Ms. Pat is celebrating her new book, Miss American Dream, and opens up about how her idea of “making it” has changed over the years. From once believing success looked like a house with a white picket fence to realizing that family, happiness, and breaking generational cycles are the real dream, she reflects on everything it took to build the life she has now.The two get into believing in yourself when nobody else does, separating friendship from business, learning to set boundaries as your success grows, knowing when it’s time to let people go, and why everyone around you can’t automatically come along for the ride.Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without things getting a little chaotic. Kiki finds out very quickly that she would’ve made a TERRIBLE drug dealer, Ms. Pat explains why Kiki has absolutely no street in her, and a Sip & Spill about a one-sided friendship turns into some brutally honest advice about jealousy, fake friends, and trusting what you already know.Plus, Ms. Pat talks about her marriage, raising a house full of kids, turning painful life experiences into comedy, her upcoming projects, and why after everything she’s survived and accomplished, happiness is still the ultimate American dream.Grab a drink because Ms. Pat came to tell the truth, hurt a few imaginary feelings, and leave absolutely no room for excuses.

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Grab a drink and let's hear a few dilemmas.  Have you ever just needed to come to a friend a say girl, I need your advice? 

Well,  sometimes we all need a little advice.  This week I'm going through all the advice you guys have been needing and giving you the best advice you'll get.  No sugar coating, just the truth you've been avoiding.

Pour something bubbly and let us know in the comments: what topic should we tackle next?
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00:00 A Birthday Reflection
00:47 The Reality of Getting Older
02:46 Behind the Scenes at the Awards
05:59 Curious Questions That Need Answers
10:26 Lessons Learned and Future Goals
17:12 Advice for Your Relationship Woes
42:18 Throwback Stories and Final Thoughts

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This week, Kiki sits down with Nya the Vampire, the woman behind Atlanta’s all-Black burlesque revue, YAMMS, for a conversation all about confidence, sensuality, and taking up space unapologetically.

Nya breaks down what burlesque really is, what people can expect at a show, and how the art form can help women reconnect with their bodies, femininity, and confidence. They also get into seduction, self-expression, feeling sexy without performing for anybody else, and what happens when you stop waiting for permission to be bold.

Whether you’re already comfortable being the center of attention or still figuring out how to own the room, this one is your reminder that confidence is a practice — and sometimes you just need a little glitter, a little nerve, and a whole lot of audacity.

Every sip has a story. 🍸

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We are sitting down for a wild CockTales with Kiki interview with Nya the Vampire to get the truth about the vampire lifestyle.

In this episode, we step away from our usual relationship dilemmas for one of our favorite unique interviews. Nya joins us to break down what it really means to live as a vampire, separating the Hollywood myths from the reality of her day-to-day existence.

Whether you are curious about alternative dating or just want to hear a perspective you definitely haven't encountered on the podcast before, this conversation covers it all. It is a fresh, weird, and honest look at identity that will keep you listening until the very last drop.

Pour something bubbly and let us know in the comments: what is the weirdest subculture you have ever dated? Subscribe for more weekly conversations.

0:00 Setting the Vibe with a Signature Drink
1:49 Meet the Guest: Nia the Vampire
2:34 From Village Kid to Burlesque Pioneer
5:04 The Reality of Teaching Burlesque Intensives
8:14 Public Performance vs. Private Seduction
9:17 Curious Questions and Relationship Dilemmas
17:42 The Dark Persona Behind the Name
36:43 Spicing Up Your Relationship Dynamics

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It’s Kiki’s birthday episode, and Mandii B is back on the couch — which means there was never a chance this conversation was going to stay on one topic.

Kiki and Mandii catch up on friendship, getting older, cutting people off, dating across age groups, and what it means when the relationships you’ve had for years no longer fit the person you’re becoming. Mandii also gets candid about being solo poly, why marriage and kids aren’t part of her end goal, navigating jealousy in non-monogamous relationships, and why knowing exactly what you want makes dating a whole lot easier.

Of course, things get messy along the way. They get into who can and cannot say the N-word, why some people are obsessed with leaving a “legacy” through children, the pressure women put on romantic relationships, AI helping the girlies text men, rich auntie expectations, and whether people actually like the people they’re dating.

Then Ask Kiki brings the perfect dilemma for Mandii: a listener is considering opening her relationship… except her boyfriend already has a coworker picked out. Is that ethical non-monogamy or just cheating with extra paperwork?

And because Mandii is Mandii, she closes things out with a CockTale from Jamaica involving a nude pool, a very forward woman, a sea urchin, and a trip to the nurse’s station that somehow only gets wilder from there.

Pour something bubbly and get into it — because this one is equal parts friendship, sex, relationships, hot takes, and pure chaos.

Every sip has a story.

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