Ego Mastery, Part 2: What a Loyal and Aligned Ego Looks Like
In Part 2 of the Ego Mastery series, we break down what an aligned, trained ego actually looks like in elite athletes and peak performers, and how it shows up under real pressure. You'll learn: What's happening internally when an athlete is calm, decisive, and locked in Why aligned performers experience low mental noise and faster decision-making How mistakes become data instead of danger The difference between pressure that sharpens and panic that hijacks Why elite performers conserve energy, adapt in real time, and show up when it matters most We also break down what prevents ego alignment, including: No clear vision or higher purpose Lack of structure, plans, and direction for the ego Corrupted internal rules and meanings (the Superego) Unresolved childhood wounds and trauma Protective mechanisms and body-based stress responses that sabotage performance This episode shows you why you can only ride your ego so far, and why real dominance requires clarity, leadership, and alignment from the inside out. Coaching If you're ready to build true calm, confidence, and consistency under pressure, and train your ego to work for you instead of against you, apply for 1-on-1 coaching. imnotyou.com/coaching
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Ego Mastery, Part 1: Ego is NOT the enemy
You've been lied to about the Ego. "Ego is the enemy." "His ego got in the way." "Get rid of your ego." Wrong. Your ego isn't a villain — it's a survival system you created as a child. It's your internal brand, the identity you built to stay safe, get approval, avoid shame, and maintain control. The problem? The same strategies that protected you then are sabotaging you now. In this episode, you'll learn: • What the ego actually is • How and when it was formed • Why it protects you the way it does • How ego strategies create anxiety, procrastination, pressure, and self-criticism • And most importantly, how to retrain your ego so it works for you instead of against you Ego mastery is the foundation of high performance, emotional strength, discipline, and dominance. And if you want real change...deeper confidence, calmer pressure, stronger results...you need someone who can help you see the blind spots your ego hides from you. If you're ready to dominate from the inside out, book a free consultation for 1-on-1 coaching: imnotyou.com/coaching
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You Gotta DIG To Find The Diamonds (Bar from Killa Fonte)
In this episode, Killa Fonte breaks down why you feel stuck....not from lack of talent, but from avoiding the pain required to grow. Learn how to embrace discomfort, use pain to uncover your limiting beliefs, organize your plans, execute with discipline, and reward yourself like a true professional. Dig deep and find the diamonds in your own dirt. Click here to book a free consultation with Niyi Sobo
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Why the pressure keeps getting to you (Master The Fundamentals)
When the heat's on, most people panic. They get "happy feet." Just like a quarterback in the pocket — they lose composure, abandon their fundamentals, and start scrambling for survival. That's when mistakes happen. Bad throws. Missed opportunities. Chaos. In this episode, Niyi breaks down why pressure exposes your lack of systems, how panic hijacks your performance, and what separates calm, dominant leaders from emotional amateurs. You'll learn how to: Recognize when you've got "happy feet" in life or business Reconnect to your fundamentals when pressure spikes Build the systems and rituals that make you dangerous under stress Lead yourself like a pro, even when everything's on the line If you're tired of reacting, rushing, and losing control — this one's for you. It's time to return to your training and move with poise. Apply for private coaching: imnotyou.com/consultation
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The secret to building sustainable discipline and better habits
Most people try to build discipline by doing everything at once—and end up burning out. In this episode, I break down a smarter approach: how to build sustainable discipline by mastering one habit at a time and turning it into a pillar of your identity. You'll learn the mechanics that stop people from staying consistent, the mindset shifts you need to make discipline a muscle instead of an on/off switch, and a proven process for building habits that actually stick. 👉 Next step: Book a free consultation by clicking here, and I'll help you create a personalized plan to reach your goals.
Take control of your sports career and start DOMINATING your competition. The "I'm Not You" Sports Domination Podcast is hosted by Former All American and NFL Running Back Olaniyi Sobomehin ( Niyi Sobo ) , and he walks you through the specific strategies, habits, and most important MINDSET that you need to take your game to the NEXT level. You'll learn how to master your emotions, how to set goals and crush them, and the mindset of the worlds best athletes so you can get the results you want. This show will feature interviews with NFL, NBA, MLB and Professional Soccer players so you can leverage their experience to reach your sports goals!