In this episode of the Dragon Slayers Podcast, Danny Silk and Ben Serpell dive into the importance of men taking full responsibility in their lives. They discuss the dangers of shifting blame to others, the power of correction, and how men can step into their roles as leaders and protectors without falling into the irresponsibility cycle. The episode explores real-world applications of taking responsibility, especially in relationships, and how doing so can lead to greater maturity and connection.Key Takeaways:Responsibility vs. Blame: Danny highlights the danger of shifting blame to others in relationships (e.g., spouse, children, coworkers). He explains how this leads to a cycle of irresponsibility and victimhood.The Importance of Loving Correction: Men must embrace correction as a path to wisdom and growth. Proverbs 12:1 emphasizes that loving correction is essential for success and connection.Breaking the Drama Cycle: Danny describes the "irresponsibility cycle," where people find a "bad guy" to blame, which shifts responsibility away from themselves and creates a victim dynamic. He urges men to refuse to participate in this cycle.No Bad Guys: A key principle discussed is the idea that there are no "bad guys" in our lives, just people we love who are in conflict. Embracing this mindset can keep relationships healthier.Being Humble in Relationships: Emphasizing the importance of humility, Danny talks about taking full responsibility for how we interact with others and making adjustments based on feedback, rather than seeking to defend our own image.Action Steps for Men:Embrace Correction: Start loving correction in your life. Recognize that feedback and small adjustments lead to growth and connection, especially in relationships.Avoid the Blame Game: Resist the temptation to create bad guys in your life. Instead, stay focused on taking responsibility for your actions and responses in relationships.Practice Humility: Be humble in your interactions. Take responsibility for your role in conflicts and focus on making adjustments to improve, rather than defending your image.Create a Safe Space for Growth: Whether in your marriage, work, or friendships, prioritize building a safe space where correction and growth are encouraged, and blame-shifting is avoided.Resources:Dragon Slayers Website: Dragonslayers.co – Find all the resources mentioned on the podcast, including global calls and tools to help you on your journey as a Dragon Slayer.Instagram: Follow @DragonSlayersMen on Instagram for daily inspiration and motivation to continue slaying all day.
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Men Always Control Themselves (Not Others)
Danny and Ben break down a core statement from the Dragon Slayers Creed: “Men always control themselves from the inside out. They never control other people.” Drawing directly from the transcript, this episode explores internal self-control as the foundation for leadership and clarity in relationships.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Control starts with you—not with trying to change others.Love is freedom, not control.Self-control is the spirit God gives you—not fear or timidity.Without self-control, you're like a city without walls—open to attack.Key Takeaways:True leadership starts by mastering your own responses, not by micromanaging others.Cultural environments—at home or in teams—are shaped by whether you self-regulate or try to dominate.Self-justification, blame, and victimhood are signs that you're ceding control of your internal state.Training others (kids, peers) starts with empowering them to control themselves—not by forcing compliance.Learn more at www.DragonSlayers.coFollow us on Instagram @dragonslayermen
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Men Always Provide
In this powerful live episode, Ben and Danny Silk continue their monthly Dragon Slayers call with a deep dive into the creed: Men always provide resources, strength, and identity—they never consume or compromise the quality of life for others. This conversation confronts entitlement, exposes cultural confusion around masculinity, and offers a clear path toward servant leadership, covenant brotherhood, and spiritual maturity. With honesty, conviction, and real-world stories, this episode equips men to step up, take ownership, and lead their families and communities with purpose.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:The difference between provision and consumption in a man’s roleHow healthy shame helps shape identity and protect connectionWhy covenant brotherhood is essential for processing pain and growthHow to stop needing control and start leading yourselfPractical steps for launching and leading a Dragon Slayers groupKey Takeaways:A true man provides strength, identity, and resource—he doesn’t drain others to meet his own needs.Entitlement destroys relationships; servant leadership builds lasting legacy.Healthy shame leads to repentance and connection, not condemnation.Your wife, kids, and brothers aren’t responsible for your needs—God is.If you don’t control yourself, you’ll try to control others, and it will cost you everything.Join the Conversation:What stood out to you in this episode? Share your insights on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you!Stay Connected:Website: www.DragonSlayers.coInstagram: @dragonslayersmen
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Men Always Protect
What does it mean for a man to protect—and what happens when he doesn’t? In the Season 2 premiere of the Dragon Slayers Podcast, Danny Silk breaks down the first line of the Dragon Slayer Creed: “Men always protect. They never exploit the weak.” This powerful episode explores what true masculine strength looks like and how it’s wielded not through dominance, but through self-control, accountability, and kindness. If you’re serious about becoming a man who brings strength and safety to your family and community, this episode will challenge and inspire you.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why protection is the primary role of a man.The difference between protective strength and exploitative power.How intimidation, avoidance, and absence are forms of exploitation.Why self-control is the foundational skill for real protection.How listening, accountability, and emotional awareness build safety in your relationships.The role of protecting innocence—especially in your children and marriage.Key Takeaways:Protection starts with self-control: Real strength means managing your emotions, impulses, and responses to create safety, not chaos.You’re not here to get something—you’re here to give: Men protect by choosing kindness over manipulation, presence over passivity, and character over charm.Be accountable: You need other men in your life who will speak truth and help you stay the course.Don’t exploit with your silence or your rage: Both extremes—dominating and disappearing—are harmful. Real men stay present, even when it’s hard.Protect innocence: From your wife and children to your broader community, your job is to guard what’s pure and safe.Join the Conversation:Every third Wednesday of the month, men from around the world gather on the Dragon Slayers Global Call to check in, grow together, and reinforce this creed. Want to be part of it? Visit www.dragonslayers.co to learn more.Stay Connected:Website: www.dragonslayers.coInstagram: @dragonslayersmen
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Men Always Set the Standard of Love
In this episode of the Dragon Slayers Podcast, Danny Silk and Ben Serpell unpack the second creed of the Dragon Slayers movement: “Men always set the standard of love. They never hate their enemy.” Together, they explore what it means to live from love—not just toward those closest to you, but even in moments of pain, disconnection, or conflict. Through teaching and real-time Q&A, this conversation calls men to rise above fear, pride, and self-protection and take responsibility for cultivating a legacy of connection, reconciliation, and covenant brotherhood.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why hate is never the appropriate response—even toward your enemy.The difference between spiritual strength and emotional self-protection.How love restores relationships and sets a new standard in masculinity.The importance of brotherhood, vulnerability, and staying connected in conflict.What it looks like to lead with love in marriage, parenting, and friendship.Key Takeaways:Men set the emotional and relational tone of their families—by choosing love over fear, and connection over control.The fear of disconnection—not the fear of punishment—is what drives healthy repentance and reconciliation.Hate makes you weak, not strong. It is the opposite of covenant. Love, even in pain, is the path of strength.Brotherhood requires courage: showing up, speaking truth, and staying in relationship—even when it’s messy.The Dragon Slayers Creed is more than words—it’s a way of life that requires daily intention and accountability.Join the Conversation:What’s your experience with living out this creed? Share your story, tag us in your journey, or bring this episode to your next group meetup.Stay Connected:Website: www.DragonSlayers.coInstagram: @dragonslayersmen
Boys don’t become men simply by getting older. They must be shown the way; they must be initiated into manhood by other men. They need brothers! The world may be collapsing, but God is raising up good men to raise good men. It’s one of the great God-movements of our time, and you can be a part of it.Welcome to the Dragon Slayers Podcast! Join us as we embark on a journey to interview ordinary men with extraordinary tales of conquering their fears and becoming fearless, loving men of God. Through their stories, you will hear rich wisdom, practical advice, and the value of brotherhood so you can stand out as a man among men.
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